My boyfriend of 2 months, who talks about how amazing I am all the time, didn't accept my friend request on Facebook. He was the one who asked me out and started things really fast and told me I was the best girlfriend he ever had. He even gets jealous of my guy friends. And we see each other about every other night. However, the only time we hang out is late at night. But I imagined it's because he works a bit late.
Anyway, I had asked him the day before: "How come we're not friends on Facebook?". I thought it was weird because my new roommates of two weeks are friends with me on fb: why not him? He just shrugged his shoulders when I mentioned it. I was expecting a reaction, whether it was good or bad, but he didn't seem to care that much. He was just indifferent to it.
So, I friend requested him last night, but by the morning I saw he had been on Facebook promoting his new band on his timeline, but didn't bother to accept my request.
I'm worried that he wants to retract his decision to be committed to me or thinks that if he's in a cool band he can screw a bunch of chicks, even though he's a totally nerdy dork. Something is just not right.
Then later tonight I tried to call him and text him to talk about things, but I got no reply. I just think it's weird because I think of him as a friend: why wouldn't I want to think of him as my lover and good friend? He was, at least.
He didn't give me a chance to admit my motivation for asking him to be friends with me on fb or tell me why he didn't want to add me. Now, he's just avoiding me. It's pretty immature behavior for a 35-year-old man. I wasn't trying to snoop and I hid my relationship status so nobody could see. I just wanted him to understand me more and show how much I care about him being in my life. I wasn't going to do obnoxious things about us dating on either of our profiles.
Why is he acting this way? I don't know what to do and how I am going to handle this situation. Any suggestions?
Anyway, I had asked him the day before: "How come we're not friends on Facebook?". I thought it was weird because my new roommates of two weeks are friends with me on fb: why not him? He just shrugged his shoulders when I mentioned it. I was expecting a reaction, whether it was good or bad, but he didn't seem to care that much. He was just indifferent to it.
So, I friend requested him last night, but by the morning I saw he had been on Facebook promoting his new band on his timeline, but didn't bother to accept my request.
I'm worried that he wants to retract his decision to be committed to me or thinks that if he's in a cool band he can screw a bunch of chicks, even though he's a totally nerdy dork. Something is just not right.
Then later tonight I tried to call him and text him to talk about things, but I got no reply. I just think it's weird because I think of him as a friend: why wouldn't I want to think of him as my lover and good friend? He was, at least.
He didn't give me a chance to admit my motivation for asking him to be friends with me on fb or tell me why he didn't want to add me. Now, he's just avoiding me. It's pretty immature behavior for a 35-year-old man. I wasn't trying to snoop and I hid my relationship status so nobody could see. I just wanted him to understand me more and show how much I care about him being in my life. I wasn't going to do obnoxious things about us dating on either of our profiles.
Why is he acting this way? I don't know what to do and how I am going to handle this situation. Any suggestions?
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What bothers me most is that he won't talk to me now. I don't even care about whether he accepted my request or not: but why is he too chicken to talk to call or text me? What's up with that?
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