I found another girl’s underwear in my boyfriends room?

[Anonymous]

Ok I’m going to make this sweet and short.
I was doing laundry for my boyfriend because he’s hopeless and went to put some away but found some panties.
He does live with his parents and his first excuse was blaming it on his mums and that they are hers but I highly doubt it due to the fact of the design of them.
Any ideas would be great 😓

[Kyren]

A mature boyfriend would never lie about an issue this serious since it can lead to many assumptions with cheating being the worst of it. I'd discreetly ask his mom if she recognizes the style and size of those panties. If she confirms she does and they are hers or your boyfriend's sister's panties, just ask him how they got in his room in the first place so you can recieve closure. If they aren't, your boyfriend not only broke your trust but was trying to hide a secret from you which can be a deal breaker in a relationship.

At that point, he would need to come clean and tell the truth. If he can give the whole story, it would be up to you to decide if what he committed is worth forgiving or not. If he continues to make up lies, I'd suggest breaking up with him because having trust and honesty in a relationship is a must for it to succeed. I wouldn't jump to conclusions of him cheating on you till you see evidence of behavior change or him saying so otherwise since information can be misconstrued. Although I wouldn't suggest taking this issue lightly either.

[Anonymous]

Where did you find the panties? Perhaps they were a trophy from a previous conquest. Some guys like to jerk off into girls' panties and this pair may be something that he "appropriated" from a girl with whom he had no sexual relationship whatsoever.

[CurLyF]

So you already confronted him about it... I would straight up ask his mom. Really. Fuck embarrassment. Just ask her, if she is a nice person she should tell you the truth and you need to know. Well, at least that's what I would do...

[TuMeManques]

Obviously they aren't hers. I'd dump him. Or call his bluff and ask his mom.

[Asker]

I was tempted to ask his mum but she’s away on holiday just seems a bit inappropriate to ask his mum... his excuse sounds ridiculous right?

[TuMeManques]

So she's away. He's basically home alone. Yeah he's cheating. It's painfully obvious.
I'm a mom, we can have sexy underwear but I never wash my clothes with my son's clothes.

[ChronicThinker]

Take them to her and ask if they're hers.

[Anonymous]

Ouch!

He is screwing around, and one of his other women left those on purpose. I have seen women do stuff like when they suspect a guy has a girlfriend, but he won't admit it. They leave little clues for other women to find. Underwear, makeup, a wrapper for a tampon, hair clips, etc.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Maybe he has a panty fetish of some sort, to help during happy hour or something? Maybe its ex girlfriend trophies? I dont think he is cheating though and they are definitely not his moms unless he is a sick perv which i doubt as you would have already noticed stuff. Anyways. Talk to him and try to show understanding if its his kink or trophies.

[Anonymous]

It could be a "souvenir" from one of his past encounters, could be his moms or sisters (simply by accident or maybe he took those for sniffing purposes), could be that he likes to wear girl panties lol and lastly, it could be that he is cheating on you. Those are the possible reasons I can remember, don't go and accuse him right away, maybe he is not cheating, you see how many explanations are possible or maybe there is even some more explanations we can't remember atm

[Anonymous]

If it is his mom's she would confirm that. If it is not a family member's then that typically leads to either it being some other girls (quite likely cheating in that case) or it being his (hello crossdressers).

[jss123]

As someone who got cheated on what you see and your initial thoughts are very often the truth. Trust your instincts. Don't necessarily believe what they say when confronting them. Check for yourself. It often saves you a lot of pain later.

[Nik1hil]

its easy take those underwear... use a sniffing dog... take it from cops.. and use the dog to find out the bitch to whom those underwear belongs to

[ChronicThinker]

I'm pretty sure the police don't lend police dogs out to find cheating spouses.

[Nik1hil]

@ChronicThinker if she has a cop friend.. or can take a dog that is getting retired from police service... or even any good sniffer dog will work... you do not actually need cops dog..

I'm pretty sure the police don't lend police dogs out to find cheating spouses.---- its a good thing they do not... because is they did Divorce rate would be much higher...

@ChronicThinker i am honored that you off all people replied to my opinion... i think quite highly of you,..

[ChronicThinker]

You're an idiot.

[Izumiblu]

@ChronicThinker lulz

[Nik1hil]

@ChronicThinker OMG you called me an Idiot..
You know me so well.. Hahaha...

You do know idiot is simply a matter of perception.. Reality to someone.. Is ignorance to another.. And someone is idiot of another one.. While everyone is insane..
I love your twin blade sword.. Mind.. It's insulting and offensive.. But it shoves truth in face of people..
You are the kind of girl... who would shove truth in my face.. And if I don't accept it.. You will probably shove it up my Ass... That is the most loyal companionship one can ask for in this tricky fake world..

[Izumiblu]

Well , I agree with her on her perception.

[Nik1hil]

@Izumiblu I never said I disagree with her..
See I never spent a day in first world country..
. only goal matters.. If the guy is cheating on her.. Then she deserves to know.. Don't know about you fancy nation.. But but I can get this done here.
Definitely not using cops.. But yeah.. Lot of sniffer dogs if she wants to try. There is nothing to loose.. She might even check that panty and find a Hairy sample to get DNA of person wearing it

[Izumiblu]

Well, I’m not sure if this says more about you or your country but it reminds of of the Indian guy that’s always posting about how his mom is teaching his aunt to milk cows by using his dick for practice.

What kind of fucking moron and police person would do this shit or even make up a story like this.

It’s official. I’d rather chop off my left arm with a butter knife than travel to where you live.

[Nik1hil]

@Izumiblu 😂🤣😂😂 what kind of troll made up that shit..

This stories you hear about India are just as true as the Chitauri Army invading New York from the portal above stark tower and the day saved by bunch of superheroes..
Until your don't step up see how things actually are.. You simple should not draw a perception..
You can believe the stories.. 😂 🤣 It's upto.. I live the reality.. And I am okay here.. I Will definitely leave this place Not because I hate it but because I was to taste the world..

[Dark93]

It could be his mom's special pair she wears for her husband.
Sometimes the underwear or socks or whatever find a little nook in the washer or dryer and then get mixed into someone else clothes.

[winterfox10]

That type thing might surprise you... moms are kinky creatures. Do you have any reason besides this to believe that she's cheating?

[Anonymous]

Are they the right size for his mom though? You don't know what she wears for her husband lmfao

[Asker]

She doesn’t have a husband and they aren’t her size either... I did check this as well

[Opinion Owner]

Ask her, straight up. If she says they aren't hers, then you know for a fact he's lying and you can dump him and move on.

[Anonymous]

Eh mix up does happen if he lives with his mom and his sister

[Drifter83UK]

What was wrong with the design?

[Intraluminal]

You never know. His mom might have a double life.

[Anonymous]

Only one question, why is he still your boyfriend?

[2opaz]

he's having sex with another girl

[Heelsandcubs]

He is cheating or he likes wearing them lol

[TheIrishGuy]

how do you they wouldn't be his moms? just saying.

[MindTime]

Ask his mom