I'm going to always be single because I don't trust any modern day woman nowadays. I'd rather be single than upset and frustrated and not being able to sleep at night because of some selfish bitch that I can't trust.
It's not worth it to me anymore. I've gone through headache after headache being so frustrated I had to go for walks in the middle of the night wondering what's going on. I had no peace Until each relationship finally ended. Then the long term relationship broke my heart and my back for good. The old fashioned days were the best but I was not around at that time only to hear all the wonderful beautiful stories that I always will remember. I'm sad that I could not experience them for everlasting love. But I did everything I could in my power to please a woman taking her on the fanciest trips all over on the world buying her diamonds and jewelry paying for her apartment being there for her for hours and hours at a time staying up all night I've done it all so I'm satisfied now to retire in my Prime
I'm sorry to hear that about your past but at least 13 years ago you found the man of your dreams and you have 3 beautiful kids out of it so you found everything that you wanted after all
I'm definitely not going to compare heartbreaks with you. All I can say is that it took a lot of courage to put myself back out there. I'm sorry that you have been hurt
I am never in the same spot for very long, and am always traveling. It is hard to be in a relationship with a situation like mine. I've sailed to Antarctica twice now, and that trip alone takes 4 months. I almost never see the people I want to see.
Mel, I love my job, dont get me wrong, but it is so demanding. I often wish for things to be the way they used to be, where I could see family on a regular basis (not once or twice a year), and where I wasn't always working. But I wouldn't trade any of the experiences or the friendships I've made for the world.
We play a lot of video games and enjoy the open seas when they are calm. When they are rough, well... we still enjoy them, but mainly because it feels like a gyroscopic roller coaster
I have never been seasick, but a lot of the guys on the boat get seasick. I play a lot of Black Ops 3 zombies, Need for Speed, and sometimes Dark Souls. All on PS4.
You are very lucky then... I feel for your fellow comrades... I would imagine I would turn green from all the seasickness that I would get haha. Even on an airplane, I throw up š
All those are cool games. Have you heard of heavy rain? The best video game I have ever played!!
I haven't! What's it about? I kind of like how I dont get sick, though, because I get to take care of them, which gets me out of work haha. Do you play PS4?
Iām surprised you never heard of it... hereās the trailer for it: https://youtu.be/YVYiJ3VSp60 The game features four protagonists involved with the mystery of the Origami Killer, a serial murderer who uses extended periods of rainfall to drown his victims. I like the game because the player's decisions and actions during the game affect the narrative; seriously one of the best video games ever!
No, I play PS3 and occasionally PS2 with my cousins.
Haha š lucky person! So you act as their nurse so you wouldnāt do work? What kinds of work do they make you do?
Yeah, I would mainly just swing by their rooms and make sure they weren't dying haha. If they needed water/crackers, I'd get them. For work, we mostly just keep everything secure so it doesn't roll around, but we also will treat rust that comes up from under the paint. Our ship is 42 years old, and has plenty of rust. When we aren't doing those, we are driving the ship and running drills for in case something goes wrong (like fire, flooding, toxic gas)
Yeah itās really worth the buy. I really enjoy narrative-based games. Another game Iām really into is bioshock. Love the style of the game. But in the end I mostly play indie games rather than AAA ones. Aw. Thatās really friendly of you, making sure they donāt die šš¤. You actually get to drive the ship? Thatās insane! And Iām guessing itās like a massive ship?
Where has been the coolest place you guys visited while on the ship?
I dont mind narrative games. I like Beyond: Two Souls a lot, though. It's a time based choices game, so it provides a little bit more of on your feet thinking. I play a lot of AAA games, but I dont keep a lot of them around for long. CoD and NFS are my two main games I keep around. Same with Dark Souls 3.
I mean, it's kind of selfish if i just leave them to lay in bed, feeling miserable š
I love driving the ship. Its 399 feet long and 83.5 feet wide. She looks pretty good for her age, too.
I fell in love with Tasmania, but New Zealand is a very close second. However, Antarctica was one of those experiences where even if you dont like the cold, you love the place. We are down there for 6 weeks every year
Well I donāt know about the game Dark souls three. Might check out the trailer tho and the reviews to see if itās even worth buying:) Have you heard of the last of us? Enjoyed that game a lot. You should definitely check out indie games tho. Such as That Dragon, Cancer. I CRIED the whole time while I was playing it. Itās based on the video game programmerās son and how he died from cancer. Touching game.
Haha... I don't know, you could have been selfish but you decided not to, so good karma heading your way?
Is it difficult driving the ship? How do you navigate?
And NO freaking way? You went to New Zealand? Thatās like my dream place to go? Especially their glow worm cave... you have been blessed. This might sound dumb, but do people actually live in Antarctica?
Dark Souls is a brutally hard game but it's fun. I played The Last of Us all the way through in 6 or 7 days I think haha. That sounds super depressing š
I kinda hope so, but I dont do it for the karma, I do it because they are my friends.
It's not terribly difficult, but bad seas makes it interesting. We have 2 companies. One is digital and one is magnetic. The digital runs off of a GPS, so we can see our true heading, while the magnetic acts as a backup.
New Zealand was amazing. We went to Christchurch, and I love it there. The stations are always running, and I think you can only be down there for 6 months at a time, but you can go back. Most do.
I don't think anyone gives me enough time to become interested in me, I'm shy and hard to get close to so maybe it's because of my own social problems I guess
4 you are 13 you will change ally many girls I went to school with that where ugly when they turned 15-16 exploded with beauty just wait and donāt force it Iām sure you will turn out fine
I know you prob donāt believe me but you will change example girls that grew up with circle heads at the end of high school looked like models and they had insane bodyās trust me youāll be ok
I picked too much work because I was thinking of actually working too much lol. Like my job exhausts me, especially during the summer and I just don't have energy to go out and meet people.
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I'm going to always be single because I don't trust any modern day woman nowadays. I'd rather be single than upset and frustrated and not being able to sleep at night because of some selfish bitch that I can't trust.
Way to go with the positive attitude š
That's the way it is now. I did my time I was in a seven and a half year relationship now I'm through with the relationship world
I've been through a hell of a lot of hurt, so many awful people out there.
But not everyone is out to hurt you.
It's not worth it to me anymore. I've gone through headache after headache being so frustrated I had to go for walks in the middle of the night wondering what's going on. I had no peace Until each relationship finally ended. Then the long term relationship broke my heart and my back for good. The old fashioned days were the best but I was not around at that time only to hear all the wonderful beautiful stories that I always will remember. I'm sad that I could not experience them for everlasting love. But I did everything I could in my power to please a woman taking her on the fanciest trips all over on the world buying her diamonds and jewelry paying for her apartment being there for her for hours and hours at a time staying up all night I've done it all so I'm satisfied now to retire in my Prime
I'm sorry to hear that about your past but at least 13 years ago you found the man of your dreams and you have 3 beautiful kids out of it so you found everything that you wanted after all
I'm definitely not going to compare heartbreaks with you.
All I can say is that it took a lot of courage to put myself back out there.
I'm sorry that you have been hurt
Oh that's not the only thing I've been hurt on but a least I'm alive living
Looking for commitment but I travel the world, currently living in Australia.
Itās so hard to find someone thatās a partner these days.
Doesnāt just want a hook up or is cheating on their significant other cause they are too pissed.
Im a homebody. I prefer staying at home and doing my own thing over going out and meeting people. That being said i haven't met the right person.
Just for the record, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. "Ugly" people and "overweight" people find love too.
Been single for so long that I really don't see the point in trying anymore.
I am never in the same spot for very long, and am always traveling. It is hard to be in a relationship with a situation like mine. I've sailed to Antarctica twice now, and that trip alone takes 4 months. I almost never see the people I want to see.
What a life!!! Woah
Mel, I love my job, dont get me wrong, but it is so demanding. I often wish for things to be the way they used to be, where I could see family on a regular basis (not once or twice a year), and where I wasn't always working. But I wouldn't trade any of the experiences or the friendships I've made for the world.
If you donāt mind me asking, what is your job title? That requires you to travel all around the world.
I think we should trade places haha. I would want nothing more than to leave this place and travel the world for unending months.
United States Coast Guard. I'm stationed on a ship called the Polar Star. It sounds great until the command kills all morale when we pull into port
Thatās awesome! Youāre the first coast guard Iāve met.
Polar star.. that sounds fascinating.
Indulge me, what do you do on the ship when you guys sail for days?
We play a lot of video games and enjoy the open seas when they are calm. When they are rough, well... we still enjoy them, but mainly because it feels like a gyroscopic roller coaster
And you donāt get sea sick with all the movements of the sea?
Especially if they are like a roller coaster?
I didnāt expect coast guards to play video games while on the ship!! What kind of video games do you play?
I have never been seasick, but a lot of the guys on the boat get seasick. I play a lot of Black Ops 3 zombies, Need for Speed, and sometimes Dark Souls. All on PS4.
You are very lucky then... I feel for your fellow comrades... I would imagine I would turn green from all the seasickness that I would get haha.
Even on an airplane, I throw up š
All those are cool games. Have you heard of heavy rain? The best video game I have ever played!!
I haven't! What's it about? I kind of like how I dont get sick, though, because I get to take care of them, which gets me out of work haha. Do you play PS4?
Iām surprised you never heard of it... hereās the trailer for it:
https://youtu.be/YVYiJ3VSp60
The game features four protagonists involved with the mystery of the Origami Killer, a serial murderer who uses extended periods of rainfall to drown his victims.
I like the game because the player's decisions and actions during the game affect the narrative; seriously one of the best video games ever!
No, I play PS3 and occasionally PS2 with my cousins.
Haha š lucky person! So you act as their nurse so you wouldnāt do work? What kinds of work do they make you do?
That sounds cool!
Oh okay. You should get one!
Yeah, I would mainly just swing by their rooms and make sure they weren't dying haha. If they needed water/crackers, I'd get them. For work, we mostly just keep everything secure so it doesn't roll around, but we also will treat rust that comes up from under the paint. Our ship is 42 years old, and has plenty of rust. When we aren't doing those, we are driving the ship and running drills for in case something goes wrong (like fire, flooding, toxic gas)
Yeah itās really worth the buy. I really enjoy narrative-based games. Another game Iām really into is bioshock. Love the style of the game. But in the end I mostly play indie games rather than AAA ones.
Aw. Thatās really friendly of you, making sure they donāt die šš¤.
You actually get to drive the ship? Thatās insane! And Iām guessing itās like a massive ship?
Where has been the coolest place you guys visited while on the ship?
I dont mind narrative games. I like Beyond: Two Souls a lot, though. It's a time based choices game, so it provides a little bit more of on your feet thinking. I play a lot of AAA games, but I dont keep a lot of them around for long. CoD and NFS are my two main games I keep around. Same with Dark Souls 3.
I mean, it's kind of selfish if i just leave them to lay in bed, feeling miserable š
I love driving the ship. Its 399 feet long and 83.5 feet wide. She looks pretty good for her age, too.
I fell in love with Tasmania, but New Zealand is a very close second. However, Antarctica was one of those experiences where even if you dont like the cold, you love the place. We are down there for 6 weeks every year
Well I donāt know about the game Dark souls three. Might check out the trailer tho and the reviews to see if itās even worth buying:)
Have you heard of the last of us? Enjoyed that game a lot. You should definitely check out indie games tho. Such as That Dragon, Cancer. I CRIED the whole time while I was playing it. Itās based on the video game programmerās son and how he died from cancer. Touching game.
Haha... I don't know, you could have been selfish but you decided not to, so good karma heading your way?
Is it difficult driving the ship? How do you navigate?
And NO freaking way? You went to New Zealand? Thatās like my dream place to go? Especially their glow worm cave... you have been blessed. This might sound dumb, but do people actually live in Antarctica?
Dark Souls is a brutally hard game but it's fun. I played The Last of Us all the way through in 6 or 7 days I think haha. That sounds super depressing š
I kinda hope so, but I dont do it for the karma, I do it because they are my friends.
It's not terribly difficult, but bad seas makes it interesting. We have 2 companies. One is digital and one is magnetic. The digital runs off of a GPS, so we can see our true heading, while the magnetic acts as a backup.
New Zealand was amazing. We went to Christchurch, and I love it there. The stations are always running, and I think you can only be down there for 6 months at a time, but you can go back. Most do.
Haven't met the right person I'd be even remotely interested in dating as of late...
Iām kinda waiting till college lol the last few guys I tried dating just didn't work well w me
Because Iād rather have a platonic lifelong bestie than be in a romantic relationship
I don't think anyone gives me enough time to become interested in me, I'm shy and hard to get close to so maybe it's because of my own social problems I guess
I'm just fussy about who I want to be with and see no reason why I should settle for second best.
Well I'd say I haven't met the person yet :) and I'm in no hurry for that everything happens at the right moment
1. I'm ugly 2. I can't "compete" with the other girls 3. I'm young and need to focus on school and try to maintain my straight A's
4 you are 13 you will change ally many girls I went to school with that where ugly when they turned 15-16 exploded with beauty just wait and donāt force it Iām sure you will turn out fine
If you've seen a photo of me... it'll probably change your mind..
I know you prob donāt believe me but you will change example girls that grew up with circle heads at the end of high school looked like models and they had insane bodyās trust me youāll be ok
I picked too much work because I was thinking of actually working too much lol. Like my job exhausts me, especially during the summer and I just don't have energy to go out and meet people.
I can be quite annoying to live together with. At least thats my guess
I end up pushing away the good ones cuz i feel i dont deserve them 😑
Finally an honest answer
that can be a very difficult cycle to break :(
Most women love me... but most relationships fail the cost to benefit analysis. Is she an asset or a liability...
Haven't met anyone even remotely worth my time and I don't feel a need to involve someone in my life that deeply.
Women are unable to see that I'm a jewel hidden inside... That's why. Too bad for them (and as for me though 😐 )
A relationship wouldn't fit in my life at the moment because I'll be in the military for the next year or two