Why are you still SINGLE?

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GuyWhatRunsThePlace · Accepted Answer

H) All of the above.

a) I don't think I'm attractive enough for most girls.
b) I'm not fat anymore, but I used to be and still see myself that way.
c) Bills, bills, bills. That's the life for me~
d) I can't stop buying little gifts, dinner, or drinks for my SO. It's how I show love.
e) Happy? Maybe. It's much easier being alone.
f) Does the "right" person even exist?
g) How can I expect someone to accept my flaws if I can't even accept them?

Jerre · Accepted Answer

I was engaged to be married about 20 years ago. Unfortunately, she was killed in an auto accident 2 weeks prior to our wedding. Since then, I have not come across any woman I loved as deeply as Susan.

PrincessPie · Accepted Answer

A combination of things, I've only met one person after about maybe 11 dates with different people this year that i could actually see myself in a relationship with since my ex and the person didn't like me back well they did but not enough.. and i don't want to settle with someone who isn't right for me or i don't feel compatible with, i'd rather stay single than that.

whatsgoingonwithme · Accepted Answer

There's no one that really is interested in me. I'm a good friend, but they make it seem like I would be a wonderful girlfriend/wife, but just not for them.

elyska19 · Answer

I'm so awkward that I can't go Ona date with anyone so everytime someone asks me out I say no. It takes months to get comfortable enough around people to be able to keep a conversation and during that time guys I like usually have an opinion about me and how I am that is often wrong.

TallJamaican1991 · Answer

Well, I took a break from dating because I was dealing with too much dishonesty from the women I was encountering. Nowadays, I don't get any attention from women when I go about my every day business, so I just assume they don't find me physically attractive.

tartaarsaus · Answer

Many reasons.

- consistently ignoring girls, not taking the initiative to talk to them unless absolutely necessary. Why do I do this? I don't like talking to people I don't know. I'd rather stay in my comfort zone.
- Lack of confidence in a plethora of things (physical looks, academic stuff, social skills and more) that resonate in how I act
- my utter lack of a sense of humour.
- I suppose I am/could be physically unpleasing as well potentially for good reason (my teeth are not good but I'll go to the ortho next year). That may explain why I've never gotten a single compliment on how I look for as long as I can remember.

TheSikuu · Answer

Currently I'm single but kind of in an odd situation with this girl where we just don't know what's gonna happen.
But basically I'm "involved" with someone, while technically being single and free to mingle (tho it wouldn't be very considerate).
Before her tho I just lied being single and not owing shit to anyone.

Maxemeister · Answer

I tried telling the girl I like I have a crush on her but sadly she didn't really tell me the same, she didn't give me much information but is talking to me a lot more. I'm just not in the mood to chase after women, if they want to ask me then I'll gladly say yes

Anonymous · Answer

I have no job and still live with my parents. Somehow though I seem to be rejected before the girl even finds out that info. I don't talk to that many girls to begin with and when I do I'm very good at getting straight to the friend zone. Open to any advice.

Anonymous · Answer

I think is my emotional state. It is messing with the vibe I let out. I'm attractive, I can be fun. I'm intelligent and creative but for some reason all my relationships end. I mean all. Even friendly ones. Like I was just thinking about this today. Why I'm alone? This type of alone where no one calls or text me?
I think is just my pain. Emotional pain that doesn't let be free. The kind that makes me doubt of myself at every second. Guys noticed that, people in general do. So they just pat you in the shoulder and leave. No one wants to much baggage.

just_a_potato · Answer

Guys my age usually don't look for permanent relationships so why invest my time in one only to get heartbroken? I can wait

menina · Answer

For too many reasons, these are some of them: - I'm shy - I don't go out much - I don't approach guys - I haven't met the right person - I don't want to date guys from the country where I live

May98 · Answer

I love being independent and doing my own thing, working studying, weekend social life, sport. I go on dates but I love the freeness of not having someone else to put my energy to. I was in a relationship for two and a half years and thought he was THE ONE and spoke about marriage and kids. He cheated on me multiple times and ruined me. I’ve finally gotten to the stage where I’m happy with myself and I love being my own best friend. I’ll love someone again some day but right now I’m single because I love doing life my way.

Investigator · Answer

I have not yet found a woman that I feel adds anything to my life. Like, the only benefit a woman could bring to me is someone to have with sex and cuddle with. Other than that, I have too many idiosyncrasies that women seem to not like and honestly, i just prefer my own company.

GamingArtist · Answer

I chose to be, i've been single for a long time cause i just couldn't find the missing piece to my puzzle. Sure plenty if pieces could have fit but it would not feel right to try and force the relationship when I knew it wouldn't work.

My jigsaw puzzle may have a lot of missing pieces in it but im sure if i keep looking i'll find the piece with all the matching sides.

ConradoJ · Answer

The person I like doesn't likes me back, at least not enough to have something, yet. She says she's going through a lot and she doesn't want to hurt anyone in the processing. The thing is, I like this her so much, I am even willing to wait until she is ready. I know it sounds foolish and all, but she is just so pretty I can't get her off my head. We are not a couple yet, and I'm already loyal to her 😂

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Probably due to a combination of reasons:

I'm not the type to just approach women and hardly go out, unless I have to do something e. g. go to the gym.

My standards may be hard to find.

Physical attraction is subject, but I don't think many find me attractive.

JDavid25 · Answer

I just ain't found God's woman for me, and I need to get my life together.. I mean there's a girl who's interested in me, but she ain't physically the type I like enough for me to get into her online, and she has other issues that should be worked out before she pursues a relationship..

JulieXO · Answer

I'm in a relationship now, but before that, the reason for me being single was a combination of me enjoying it and not having found a person I'd be interested in.

NineBreaker · Answer

Initially, I was too busy in my life. Too much work at school my first 3 years.
Since then, just couldn't find the right one. I just want a girl who had a decent amount of grit for God's sake! Some o' y'all ladies do have a lot of grit and a lot if guys appreciate that, but not the one's I've been with in the past.

jean_A · Answer

I am tired of playing games, and playing girls. And they don't like me how I really am, I like to please them and that's not apriciated. So I always have to hold back, and I just cannot do it anymore. And since I have a bit or a money problem now, I have no chances with girls at all. So I quit for now.

ipecaclust · Answer

Pretty sure it's that I'm not physically attractive. As a person I know I'm pretty cool. I make connections easily. Its only once I start to show them my body that they stop being interested. Everyone runs for the hills as soon as they see that I have a lot of scars from my past and port wine stains. My body looks like a massacre. I don't blame them for not being able to look past it. I don't think I'll ever find a guy who loves me enough to look past it.

Seeyouaround · Answer

C, I'm too busy with university life and I need to grow up before I start a relationship, also I'm shy as hell 😂

DizzyDesii · Answer

For once i’m not 🙌 bt if i ever am again, then it mustve meant i didn't find the right person because none of the other concern me

pasoccer · Answer

This is a loaded question. At the moment it's because I broke up with a crazy person.
I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, or believe in God. How many women out there will want me, not to mention on top of that, I'm a bit overweight, don't have a lot of money, and am a single father. Who's left? And tattoos are pretty much a deal breaker.

Matt57 · Answer

Mainly, because I'm overweight. I'm great in any other way, but I'm still a fat fuck. Honestly, I just don't like exercising at all, unless it's martial arts, which I had fun in for 6 years.

keithhurst · Answer

I work and when I'm not at work im with my daughter So i don't get out much which makes it hard to meet people and I'm a little socially awkward until I'm comfortable with the people I'm around but im a great guy as i said i work hard and I'm responsible o and let me add i sincerely care about others so there's y i am and y i shouldn't b all in one lol

Anonymous · Answer

Because I love having sex and hanging out with a bunch of different people. I don't like the idea of being tied down to one person and texting them shit like good morning sunshine or I'm leaving work, gonna be home in 15 mins or some shit like that and seeing them everyday. Wouldn't want to fuck the same person all the time either. I love having sex with a girl one day and a man the next. Threesomes and orgies are amazing

Anonymous · Answer

I am not ugly. But I'm not the kind of good looking that is attractive to ladies.

So as far as dating yes I'm ugly I guess.
But it's more of I have too much of a baby face and I am not very well built. So I look like a cute twelve year old. And girls don't date twelve year olds...

lomimore · Answer

I've never been approached and am kinda afraid to approach, causes me anxiety and stuff

Fuentes · Answer

I don't have the patient's to play kid games or deal with rudeness or disrespectful behaviour it just isn't me or deal with immature women who just assume im a player because i happen to be attractive and take carenl of myself keeping up with my haircuts, beard and appearance. It's stupid and i will not play games

SUSSMILCH · Answer

I have a god-like sex appeal. I'm 6'4ft built like a body guard and have the looks of an actor but I've been told I'm very intimidating to talk to or even approach. So if women find me scary then like hell how am I ever going to get a girlfriend 😭😂😂😂😂

SarahVanRensburg · Answer

I haven’t found a person who is actually serious and wants a life long marriage with kids in the future. I don’t see why I should waste time with someone who doesn’t want those things and I do.

HavanaMidnight · Answer

I'm not single. But when I was, it had to do with anxiety and lack of trust.

ghostqueen · Answer

Probably all of the above, but I'd imagine the main reasons is because I don't make an effort to date and whenever someone tries to get close to me I push the away.

gdrake · Answer

I put work too much, but to be honest I'd say mine is a self confidence issue. I'm relatively shy so I dont really "put myself out there" to meet girls and when I meet a girl I like, I never have the courage to ask her out.

Goddess_Gag18 · Answer

I have had many many relationships. My lifestyle is very busy right now. I do go on a dates though, keeping it cool. No expectations. Just have fun, keep it clean. I call this "freedom."

HappyPretzel · Answer

Well, I'm more introverted for one.. And two.. I do not enjoy the thought of "dating around" the next person I date I want to marry... I don't like wasting my time. Or someone else's time. Also I haven't had the best experiences with women... Mostly bad... Don't blame women but when it happens time and time again. I just think is it even worth it? Its hard enough as it is trying to get to know someone. Let alone then just to get rejected. That my friends sucks.

Stephanie_101 · Answer

I have anxiety and depression plus I'm overweight 🙃

TwinCKI · Answer

I haven't found the right girl yet. Too many girls my age don't have any goals for themselves and keep on goofing around. I just need someone as mature as myself

Ayer93 · Answer

A mix of insecurity and haven't met the right person 😐

BOUNTYGUY9 · Answer

still single and looking for a nice girl l won't say why l am single on here but lt was not to do with dating a girl

MMM369 · Answer

A combination of I’m single by choice, I’m just fulfilled being single I can talk to who I want there’s no cheating. And also haven’t met someone worthy

Iron_Man · Answer

I'm going to always be single because I don't trust any modern day woman nowadays. I'd rather be single than upset and frustrated and not being able to sleep at night because of some selfish bitch that I can't trust.

brie7789 · Answer

Looking for commitment but I travel the world, currently living in Australia.

It’s so hard to find someone that’s a partner these days.

Doesn’t just want a hook up or is cheating on their significant other cause they are too pissed.

chezburgr · Answer

Im a homebody. I prefer staying at home and doing my own thing over going out and meeting people. That being said i haven't met the right person.

Tiffers2154 · Answer

Just for the record, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. "Ugly" people and "overweight" people find love too.

JudgmentDay · Answer

Been single for so long that I really don't see the point in trying anymore.

masonoram56 · Answer

I don't think anyone gives me enough time to become interested in me, I'm shy and hard to get close to so maybe it's because of my own social problems I guess

stars_and_stripers71 · Answer

I am never in the same spot for very long, and am always traveling. It is hard to be in a relationship with a situation like mine. I've sailed to Antarctica twice now, and that trip alone takes 4 months. I almost never see the people I want to see.

LittleSally · Answer

Haven't met the right person I'd be even remotely interested in dating as of late...

RowenaRavenclaw · Answer

I’m kinda waiting till college lol the last few guys I tried dating just didn't work well w me

Ellie-V · Answer

Because I’d rather have a platonic lifelong bestie than be in a romantic relationship

MasterDaddyUK · Answer

I'm just fussy about who I want to be with and see no reason why I should settle for second best.

biancahemmings · Answer

Well I'd say I haven't met the person yet :) and I'm in no hurry for that everything happens at the right moment

Lgmswolf024 · Answer

1. I'm ugly 2. I can't "compete" with the other girls 3. I'm young and need to focus on school and try to maintain my straight A's

Dark93 · Answer

I picked too much work because I was thinking of actually working too much lol. Like my job exhausts me, especially during the summer and I just don't have energy to go out and meet people.

slickest_rik · Answer

I've been hurt, so she's gonna have to go all the way outta her way to make me feel like i can trust her enough. Buuuut the chances of that happenin are very slim so i'll be dolo forever.

MrMilti · Answer

I can be quite annoying to live together with. At least thats my guess

sanguinnia · Answer

I end up pushing away the good ones cuz i feel i dont deserve them 😑

Anonymous · Answer

Most women love me... but most relationships fail the cost to benefit analysis. Is she an asset or a liability...

Juxtapose · Answer

Haven't met anyone even remotely worth my time and I don't feel a need to involve someone in my life that deeply.

Dartzlink · Answer

Women are unable to see that I'm a jewel hidden inside... That's why. Too bad for them (and as for me though 😐 )

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