Why are you still SINGLE?

[coachTanthony]

I am ugly

I am overweight

Too much work

Too expensive

I am just happy being alone

Haven't met the right person

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[GuyWhatRunsThePlace]

H) All of the above.

a) I don't think I'm attractive enough for most girls.
b) I'm not fat anymore, but I used to be and still see myself that way.
c) Bills, bills, bills. That's the life for me~
d) I can't stop buying little gifts, dinner, or drinks for my SO. It's how I show love.
e) Happy? Maybe. It's much easier being alone.
f) Does the "right" person even exist?
g) How can I expect someone to accept my flaws if I can't even accept them?

[coachTanthony]

G. That is true! We attract the vibe we put out!

[GuyWhatRunsThePlace]

My vibe is a bourbon on the rocks and some 'woman in a red dress' type music.

[Jerre]

I was engaged to be married about 20 years ago. Unfortunately, she was killed in an auto accident 2 weeks prior to our wedding. Since then, I have not come across any woman I loved as deeply as Susan.

[coachTanthony]

Sorry to hear that man! Thank you for sharing!

[elite665]

Damn dude I’m so sorry

[PrincessPie]

A combination of things, I've only met one person after about maybe 11 dates with different people this year that i could actually see myself in a relationship with since my ex and the person didn't like me back well they did but not enough.. and i don't want to settle with someone who isn't right for me or i don't feel compatible with, i'd rather stay single than that.

[jean_A]

Nobody is good enough for you. :( It must be hard.

[PrincessPie]

@jean_A well actually in this case the person i liked i wasn't good enough for them! so not true :P

[jean_A]

Awh. That it actually is hard.

[TrustyPeacemaker]

At least you've had dates :(

[Iron_Man]

Wow you had 11 dates in one year? I never had 11 dates in my whole entire life

[PrincessPie]

@Iron_Man about that

[Iron_Man]

Huh what do you mean about that?

[whatsgoingonwithme]

There's no one that really is interested in me. I'm a good friend, but they make it seem like I would be a wonderful girlfriend/wife, but just not for them.

[Desconhecida]

I am a nun

[aialex]

You can un-nun 😂

[Desconhecida]

Hahaha maybe!

[elyska19]

I'm so awkward that I can't go Ona date with anyone so everytime someone asks me out I say no. It takes months to get comfortable enough around people to be able to keep a conversation and during that time guys I like usually have an opinion about me and how I am that is often wrong.

[TallJamaican1991]

Well, I took a break from dating because I was dealing with too much dishonesty from the women I was encountering. Nowadays, I don't get any attention from women when I go about my every day business, so I just assume they don't find me physically attractive.

[tartaarsaus]

Many reasons.

- consistently ignoring girls, not taking the initiative to talk to them unless absolutely necessary. Why do I do this? I don't like talking to people I don't know. I'd rather stay in my comfort zone.
- Lack of confidence in a plethora of things (physical looks, academic stuff, social skills and more) that resonate in how I act
- my utter lack of a sense of humour.
- I suppose I am/could be physically unpleasing as well potentially for good reason (my teeth are not good but I'll go to the ortho next year). That may explain why I've never gotten a single compliment on how I look for as long as I can remember.

[TheSikuu]

Currently I'm single but kind of in an odd situation with this girl where we just don't know what's gonna happen.
But basically I'm "involved" with someone, while technically being single and free to mingle (tho it wouldn't be very considerate).
Before her tho I just lied being single and not owing shit to anyone.

[Anonymous]

I have no job and still live with my parents. Somehow though I seem to be rejected before the girl even finds out that info. I don't talk to that many girls to begin with and when I do I'm very good at getting straight to the friend zone. Open to any advice.

[jean_A]

Read the basics of redpill. Try some pua tricks. And stop respecting girls so much. Make it a game. Those 3 things take time and effort so it's like an RPG where you level up. ;)

[Anonymous]

I think is my emotional state. It is messing with the vibe I let out. I'm attractive, I can be fun. I'm intelligent and creative but for some reason all my relationships end. I mean all. Even friendly ones. Like I was just thinking about this today. Why I'm alone? This type of alone where no one calls or text me?
I think is just my pain. Emotional pain that doesn't let be free. The kind that makes me doubt of myself at every second. Guys noticed that, people in general do. So they just pat you in the shoulder and leave. No one wants to much baggage.

[Maxemeister]

I tried telling the girl I like I have a crush on her but sadly she didn't really tell me the same, she didn't give me much information but is talking to me a lot more. I'm just not in the mood to chase after women, if they want to ask me then I'll gladly say yes

[just_a_potato]

Guys my age usually don't look for permanent relationships so why invest my time in one only to get heartbroken? I can wait

[menina]

For too many reasons, these are some of them:
- I'm shy
- I don't go out much
- I don't approach guys
- I haven't met the right person
- I don't want to date guys from the country where I live

[guyuser2]

Guys don't approach you?

[menina]

@guyuser2 No, they don't. And I know why.

[menina]

To the girl who downvoted me: I don't know who you are, but this is getting old.
If you like portuguese guys that's fine. But I also have the right of not wanting to date them.
Please accept that.
Thanks!

[May98]

I love being independent and doing my own thing, working studying, weekend social life, sport. I go on dates but I love the freeness of not having someone else to put my energy to. I was in a relationship for two and a half years and thought he was THE ONE and spoke about marriage and kids. He cheated on me multiple times and ruined me. I’ve finally gotten to the stage where I’m happy with myself and I love being my own best friend. I’ll love someone again some day but right now I’m single because I love doing life my way.

[Investigator]

I have not yet found a woman that I feel adds anything to my life. Like, the only benefit a woman could bring to me is someone to have with sex and cuddle with. Other than that, I have too many idiosyncrasies that women seem to not like and honestly, i just prefer my own company.

[GamingArtist]

I chose to be, i've been single for a long time cause i just couldn't find the missing piece to my puzzle. Sure plenty if pieces could have fit but it would not feel right to try and force the relationship when I knew it wouldn't work.

My jigsaw puzzle may have a lot of missing pieces in it but im sure if i keep looking i'll find the piece with all the matching sides.

[ConradoJ]

The person I like doesn't likes me back, at least not enough to have something, yet. She says she's going through a lot and she doesn't want to hurt anyone in the processing. The thing is, I like this her so much, I am even willing to wait until she is ready. I know it sounds foolish and all, but she is just so pretty I can't get her off my head. We are not a couple yet, and I'm already loyal to her 😂

[TheUniqueOne96]

Probably due to a combination of reasons:

I'm not the type to just approach women and hardly go out, unless I have to do something e. g. go to the gym.

My standards may be hard to find.

Physical attraction is subject, but I don't think many find me attractive.

[JDavid25]

I just ain't found God's woman for me, and I need to get my life together.. I mean there's a girl who's interested in me, but she ain't physically the type I like enough for me to get into her online, and she has other issues that should be worked out before she pursues a relationship..

[JulieXO]

I'm in a relationship now, but before that, the reason for me being single was a combination of me enjoying it and not having found a person I'd be interested in.

[NineBreaker]

Initially, I was too busy in my life. Too much work at school my first 3 years.
Since then, just couldn't find the right one. I just want a girl who had a decent amount of grit for God's sake! Some o' y'all ladies do have a lot of grit and a lot if guys appreciate that, but not the one's I've been with in the past.

[jean_A]

I am tired of playing games, and playing girls. And they don't like me how I really am, I like to please them and that's not apriciated. So I always have to hold back, and I just cannot do it anymore. And since I have a bit or a money problem now, I have no chances with girls at all. So I quit for now.

[ipecaclust]

Pretty sure it's that I'm not physically attractive. As a person I know I'm pretty cool. I make connections easily. Its only once I start to show them my body that they stop being interested. Everyone runs for the hills as soon as they see that I have a lot of scars from my past and port wine stains. My body looks like a massacre. I don't blame them for not being able to look past it. I don't think I'll ever find a guy who loves me enough to look past it.

[jameswoodell201]

Do you have a good ❤️?