My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried? (Page 4)

[At3mis24]

Yes, it's quite worrying; these days, relationships are so grounded that it's safer to stay single.

[Somoneelse]

I would advise you to just ask him about it. Not accuse him but just a calm/casual way. Also explain how it makes you feel and let him explain his side. Communication = key.

[Alwayreckles93]

Trust your gut. He shouldn't be following random woman. I wonder hownhe would reavt if it was the other way around

[Bliss-taylor]

What kind of girls? Ig models or just regular girls with a few hundred followers or less? The ig models I wouldn't care about.

[letssee89]

You probably don't have anything to worry about. You should, however, discuss it with him if it is making you feel insecure. Communication is the key to making any relationship work.

[daisy56]

Depends, one thing I’ve learnt is always trust your gut feeling, just talk to him about it and ask who they are so you have a bit of closure on it all

[BJP21]

I fallow women latin pop singers, and random models that set good examples for other women. I understand the people I fallow are married or in a relationship, and in my mind completely off limits. Hope this helps. From a guys prospective.

[TroyDT]

I think you already know that you should be. Guys will notice a pretty girl walking by. That should not concern you. Going out of his way to scope out other girls? Yes, it is reasonable to be concerned.

[bubble_tea]

If he's only just started that behaviour now, after a year with you, I'd be worried.

[Loveherbut]

Thats why i hate relationships because of selfish inconsiderate human beings.

[Mrbrainsyck]

Why are you getting i bad relationships then?

[Malita55]

Thats disrespectful in my opinion and i would talk to my boyfriend about it

[HighValue]

Question, do you have social media too?

Do you have conversations on there with guys that you don't share with your boyfriend?

[aialex]

Let him taste his own medicine. Go follow a bunch of random, hot guys on Instagram.

See if he likes it.

[Prankster13]

That is the whole point of Instagram: follow random people.

I think you may be overthinking this. No offense.

[Wowgirl10q]

Lame as f-#$

[Prankster13]

@Wowgirl10q What? Thats what Instagram is for.

[Wowgirl10q]

It's lame period

[Prankster13]

@Wowgirl10q What's lame?

[Wowgirl10q]

Instagram

[Prankster13]

@Wowgirl10q Oh.

[Arionne]

Nooo I follow many random celeb guys or guys that are mutual friends; its social media; take it lightly.

[Salmon4056]

If the girls he follow have or show nude pics, bikini pic, sexual pics and etc, then I would yeah be concerned.

[Texaskid1]

At least he is not following random guys.

[pookybear123]

I saw you responded to another questions that it was random local girls. That’s not ok to me. Insta models are nice to look at but in reality it’s not different to a celebrity in movies so passable.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's not really different if you're a fan of any male celebrities and romanticize guys from rom coms. You can also do the same thing like follow random guys. That's what social medias like instagram is for.

[DermalPunch]

Well, you probably aren't dealing with a very mature guy.