Does height matter?

[Anonymous]

So, im wondering, is this a problem on dating, when the guys not as tall as the girl? Like, im quite average height (170cm) and he's not even that! Do you see it as a problem?

[UnknownXYZ]

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Are you from America? If you are you are 3 inches above the average height for women.

"... and he's not even that!" What's this supposed to mean? I asumme you mean he's shorter than 170cm?

Anyway, it only matters if you or him can't get over the height difference. A lot of people don't care about height. If you like him and are attracted to him, then height shouldn't be a problem.

[Tron5678]

I am 6'1 and my girlfriend is 5'3 and we are still together after 3 years but this is a guy's side of perspective and height isn't a issue for me.

By just posting this question I believe you aren't interested in him but have you thought about any other good qualities this guy might have?

[Asker]

Well thats not it. Its just that it was the first thing i noticed about him.

[Tron5678]

Ofc physical appearances are the first thing we notice but women are biological wired ( Google it and pls don't start a war here) wanting a taller man but again if you don't mind about his height and cormfortable with it then it shouldn't worry you much.

[Long_Legs]

As a 1.81m tall woman, which is about 5'11" I think, I'm just as tall as most guys. Yea there were guys who were intimidated by that and turned me down on that alone. While a friend of mine said he wished his girlfriend was as tall as me.

Some men like their gf/wife to be smaller, while others are more attracted to taller. Same goes for women and their bf/husband.

It's as big a problem that you or him make out of it.

[Anonymous]

For many people, it does matter. It does matter to me as well, if the man is too short or too tall than me then I wouldn't be able to accept it. I am 5'3", this height range in men would be the best for me I think: From 5'3" (or slightly shorter) to 5'11" (or slightly taller).

[Logorithim]

I wouldn't see it as a problem. I'd be happy to date a woman taller than me.

[Berethor]

Yes it's matter, it's looks odd when the guy is not taller than the girl he date.

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[nightvision]

As a guy I could definitely say it's a serious problem for a girl. Very most of girls don't want a guy shorter than themselves. Event not a same tall.
Some girls could say that ohh you're wrong it's not a big deal for me blablabla.. This is bullsht, some exceptions doesn't change the reality. We should consider most of girls choices, not particular ones.

[Dave21179]

That is a personal choice. For me 1m80 it is a problem when a girl is much smaller, problems occur in bed, walking and holding hands.
Although if I like that girl, it's the price you pay to be with that person, still it isn't easy so I prefer not a great difference in height. I think I would like it when a girl is a bit taller, but I don't have experienced that yet...

[Rhys_r15]

I'm really short so most girls are taller than me and that's quite good because I prefer taller girls. Isn't that much of a problem being chest height 😉😂😂. Of course I wouldn't mind a shorter girl (if she exists) for a change but I prefer taller girls anyways.

[randomwhiteguy]

To each there own. If a guy that's five foot dates a girls that 6'6 I dont care, personally I'm the American average at 5'10 (around 178 cm I think) and I personally want the girl in with to be a least a little shorter. But that's just me, and if there is this amazing girl that is 6'2 it want take her out of the options

[Buckzor]

It may matter to who you're dating, but most other people don't care for height differences in couples they see, unless of course they're extreme.
It's about what you and the guy think, not anyone else

[BigDaddyDanie]

I think the real question is is do you see it as a problem? if it doesn't matter to you then why do you care what others think? it's the person's personality that matters and how they treat you

[DeathHawk3595]

It might be for you because you may see him as less of a man due to height. Due to how minds think, you would probably think it was a bit of an issue unless of course it was only a small difference in height.

[GingerGuy]

I like most have a preference, but that's all it is. Unlike for a lot of women, it's NEVER a deal breaker for me. It should never be for anyone in my opinion.

[Bianca914]

Yes guys are insecure about that it makes you appear domineering I dated a short guy once it was funny. I recommend dating someone taller than you

[allialli18]

To me I usually like guys who are my height or taller but I have liked a few guys who are shorter. It really depends on the person but height is just an added bonus

[jakern001]

Whats your height @allialli18

[allialli18]

5’7”

[Celq532]

Most people yes.
Personally myself not really. Unless the height difference is extreme. I noticed girls take height difference bit more seriously, which is their problems, not mine lol.

[ecfresh]

Yes on the average girls like the guy to be taller than they are.

[AnonAT_]

I’d like a taller guy because I like the feeling of being protected when they hold me.

[SerWoods]

Ya its a guy thing. Men are depicted as a tougher looking gender design to work hard and provide. When he looks smaller than his partner he can get insecure about himself as he is no longer able to provide.

[Anonymous]

Indian opinion here.
It does matter. I got recently married. I am short guy of just 155 cm. Most girls rejected me for my height , even those who were shorter. Few who accepted, their parents rejected. The one whom I got married is a shorter one.

[AbdKilani]

I don't
I am 175 , but I would date you
Up to 180 is okay with me

[jl25sc]

I would kill to date à girl as tall as you are. Height is a plus point for me as I'm 6ft tall and there aren't many ladies close to your height :(

[Philyouup]

I dated 2 girls taller than me. Married
One of them.