Does height matter?

Question

So, im wondering, is this a problem on dating, when the guys not as tall as the girl? Like, im quite average height (170cm) and he's not even that! Do you see it as a problem?

UnknownXYZ · Accepted Answer

Are you from America? If you are you are 3 inches above the average height for women. "... and he's not even that!" What's this supposed to mean? I asumme you mean he's shorter than 170cm? Anyway, it only matters if you or him can't get over the height difference. A lot of people don't care about height. If you like him and are attracted to him, then height shouldn't be a problem.

Tron5678 · Accepted Answer

I am 6'1 and my girlfriend is 5'3 and we are still together after 3 years but this is a guy's side of perspective and height isn't a issue for me.

By just posting this question I believe you aren't interested in him but have you thought about any other good qualities this guy might have?

Long_Legs · Accepted Answer

As a 1.81m tall woman, which is about 5'11" I think, I'm just as tall as most guys. Yea there were guys who were intimidated by that and turned me down on that alone. While a friend of mine said he wished his girlfriend was as tall as me.

Some men like their gf/wife to be smaller, while others are more attracted to taller. Same goes for women and their bf/husband.

It's as big a problem that you or him make out of it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For many people, it does matter. It does matter to me as well, if the man is too short or too tall than me then I wouldn't be able to accept it. I am 5'3", this height range in men would be the best for me I think: From 5'3" (or slightly shorter) to 5'11" (or slightly taller).

Logorithim · Answer

I wouldn't see it as a problem. I'd be happy to date a woman taller than me.

Berethor · Answer

Yes it's matter, it's looks odd when the guy is not taller than the girl he date.

nightvision · Answer

As a guy I could definitely say it's a serious problem for a girl. Very most of girls don't want a guy shorter than themselves. Event not a same tall.
Some girls could say that ohh you're wrong it's not a big deal for me blablabla.. This is bullsht, some exceptions doesn't change the reality. We should consider most of girls choices, not particular ones.

Dave21179 · Answer

That is a personal choice. For me 1m80 it is a problem when a girl is much smaller, problems occur in bed, walking and holding hands.
Although if I like that girl, it's the price you pay to be with that person, still it isn't easy so I prefer not a great difference in height. I think I would like it when a girl is a bit taller, but I don't have experienced that yet...

Rhys_r15 · Answer

I'm really short so most girls are taller than me and that's quite good because I prefer taller girls. Isn't that much of a problem being chest height 😉😂😂. Of course I wouldn't mind a shorter girl (if she exists) for a change but I prefer taller girls anyways.

randomwhiteguy · Answer

To each there own. If a guy that's five foot dates a girls that 6'6 I dont care, personally I'm the American average at 5'10 (around 178 cm I think) and I personally want the girl in with to be a least a little shorter. But that's just me, and if there is this amazing girl that is 6'2 it want take her out of the options

Buckzor · Answer

It may matter to who you're dating, but most other people don't care for height differences in couples they see, unless of course they're extreme.
It's about what you and the guy think, not anyone else

BigDaddyDanie · Answer

I think the real question is is do you see it as a problem? if it doesn't matter to you then why do you care what others think? it's the person's personality that matters and how they treat you

DeathHawk3595 · Answer

It might be for you because you may see him as less of a man due to height. Due to how minds think, you would probably think it was a bit of an issue unless of course it was only a small difference in height.

GingerGuy · Answer

I like most have a preference, but that's all it is. Unlike for a lot of women, it's NEVER a deal breaker for me. It should never be for anyone in my opinion.

Bianca914 · Answer

Yes guys are insecure about that it makes you appear domineering I dated a short guy once it was funny. I recommend dating someone taller than you

allialli18 · Answer

To me I usually like guys who are my height or taller but I have liked a few guys who are shorter. It really depends on the person but height is just an added bonus

Celq532 · Answer

Most people yes. Personally myself not really. Unless the height difference is extreme. I noticed girls take height difference bit more seriously, which is their problems, not mine lol.

ecfresh · Answer

Yes on the average girls like the guy to be taller than they are.

AnonAT_ · Answer

I’d like a taller guy because I like the feeling of being protected when they hold me.

SerWoods · Answer

Ya its a guy thing. Men are depicted as a tougher looking gender design to work hard and provide. When he looks smaller than his partner he can get insecure about himself as he is no longer able to provide.

Anonymous · Answer

Indian opinion here.
It does matter. I got recently married. I am short guy of just 155 cm. Most girls rejected me for my height , even those who were shorter. Few who accepted, their parents rejected. The one whom I got married is a shorter one.

AbdKilani · Answer

I don't  I am 175 , but I would date you Up to 180 is okay with me

jl25sc · Answer

I would kill to date à girl as tall as you are. Height is a plus point for me as I'm 6ft tall and there aren't many ladies close to your height :(

Philyouup · Answer

I dated 2 girls taller than me. Married One of them.

Pistachio0690 · Answer

Men don't focus on physical things the way women do. As long as we're emotionally attracted, nothing else matters

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

It does matter to me, I don't want a girl to be over 5'9"

McDoubleBang · Answer

Not a problem only if you are 2 feet smaller than me we have a problem

TKasz · Answer

No, but my personal preference is shorter ladies. But the height does not matter if I found "the one."

Hallofcres · Answer

Depends on the guy. Personally I prefer small girls. Thought I would date a taller girl if I was approached.

janardan22 · Answer

Difference shouldn't be too extreme, otherwise no problem.

Hummers_Frost · Answer

Height is impossible to matter because height is an abstract thing like numbers are.

Nachowedgie · Answer

Yes height matters. I don't date any girl taller than 5'2"

tanish333 · Answer

Where is love there nothing maaters whather ur on wheelchair

TSBilliards · Answer

I don't, but most girls want a taller guy. I'm 1.65

Anonymous · Answer

No, height has absolutely nothing to do with cock size.

Malita55 · Answer

doesn't matter as long as it doesn't bother you

jaraulio · Answer

Some guys do, but I don't.

TallAnon · Answer

I'm 200cm so any girl is small to me.

valualty · Answer

Yes. But you're shorter than me so no

LightxSoul2 · Answer

Most guys don't care about height

gowtham12 · Answer

No u are at good height myself is 180cm

Cryptic-Game · Answer

It only matters slightly.

Alexandra98 · Answer

I’m 5’9” my ex was 5’4” turns out he was a creep.

Mrj2019 · Answer

I'm 5-1 and my ex was 5-6 we had a kid together

TheNephilim · Answer

NO..

Tohhhru · Answer

For girls no, jesus

markbig · Answer

Sure it does

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