That book, You and Your Gender Identity, by Dara Hoffman-Fox is an awesome book. I used to be in contact with them (Dara uses they/them pronouns) and I have an autographed copy.
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That is not true. Most experts agree that a person doesn't has to be bi or gay to have sex with a person of the same sex as them.
All in good time. Hopefully in the next few months.