Trans woman (mtf) talks about bottom surgery: h ttps://www. youtube. com/watch? v=QeW8illtICA
Same woman answers other questions about being trans: h ttps://www. youtube. com/watch? v=QrLTQcgvO20
No. And not because I hate trans people, I give literally zero fucks about what they are doing with their body, and I think there's been enough conclusive science to show that trans brains work more like the opposite of their birth sex. I just simply am not attracted to trans individuals. Even those who have had sex change operations generally still have genitals that don't look particularly pleasing compared to the real thing (to me), I'm not attracted to large amounts of makeup (surprise, trans women tend to wear a decent amount of makeup), I'm not really into fake boobs or butts, and on the off chance that maybe I want a kid to pass on my genetic heritage (even if I adopted one before that), I'd rather not have to watch another woman carry the baby around. There are men who are completely fine with it, prefer it even, and people shouldn't be demonized for liking what they like, which some people here seem to think is okay. Obviously there's frustration associated with it, and that's fine and reasonable to an extent, but it deserves no more attention than an "ugly" person complaining they can't find a date, it's the same core issue, preferences.
YOU HOMOPHOBE!
@RingOfFire why are you throwing labels, on top of throwing assumptions? He gave his reasonable opinion. I think you are being inconsiderate and unkind
I was being sarcastic. :)
@RingOfFire that wasn't clear 😒
Not to sound offensive but no. In the future I would want to start a family and I am not attracted to people who I know used to be biologicaly a man. I know that sounds offensive but I have no issue with others or them as a person. If they want to be trans, bi or gay and lesbian that's fine. But just because I am not attracted to someone who you can tell is not biologicaly a women, that shouldn't make me a genderist. However would a trans women go out with a trans man? Or would you get a situation where they refuse because they know that the person used to be male which they are not attracted to?
Nah couldn't do it I can never see myself wanting to be male and I just can't get my head round it, don't get me wrong I've been friends with one before and then they expressed that they liked me in return I was in shock in my head I was still calling them a he/she and I couldn't do it
I don't have penis and I look like a girl idone 5 year hardwork but still nobody dates after hearing that I am a trans😔😔
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you find a nice, non-transphobic guy soon <3
Maybe they don't exist
Maybe, but hopefully not. Perhaps you could find a bi, pan, or trans man. I would assume that they'd be fine with it.
Being trans filters out the assholes from the dating pool. If someone won’t date you because they are transphobic, you don’t need that kind of energy in your life. The right person will come along. Keep your head up girly ❤️
Same war 😭😭😭
All are like that I have meet many either they are not okay or they only want me to warm up their bed
Oh so you're implying that we're transphobic just because we don't date trans? Well we are straight for a reason and it's not our fault. It's still something called "sexual orientation". Gays don't like to date someone their opposite gender and LGBT have been protesting about that and would that make them heterophobes? Straights don't date transgenders too so what difference would it make?
for me it depends on if we get along well as to if we could be friends or more then friends. because I am open to the idea of dating a trans-women. considering my relationships with natural women have all been nightmares. might be time to try something new if I find someone I enjoy being with.
also not really looking to have any more biological children. since I have a some with my ex and she turned out to be a psycho. because I think she tricked me into knocking her up. since we were condoms and she was on birth control.
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And by "date", you mean?
Years back, i met this gorgeous milfy type blond. We sat and talked all night. Laughed and joked. Had a great time. Exchanged numbers. I called her a few days later and she came to my place for dinner.
"Passible" is way too vague of a term. Petite. Elegant. Charming. Smart. And drop dead gorgeous.
In a way that she was sure wouldn't embarrass me, she told me she had a penis.
Again, "date" isn't the right word for some of the best head, eager anal, and wonderfully silk and nylon-y sex I've ever had.
degeneracy.
Oh, honey...
Thats not even in my top 10
No cause im not gay. Im not into girls (even if dressed as boys). For example, Bruce jenner will always be bruce even if he calls himself caitlyn and dresses like a girl. He can “be who he wants to be like B A R B I E” but at the end of the day, he was born a man and any man who dates him would be considered bi/gay.
I'm not attracted to people who at one point were, and still are biological men per their DNA. I would only be interested in a natural born woman who has not rejected her natural identity. People have a right to live their lives out however they like. It is MY choice as to whether or not I with to play along. I just don't think pseudo women are an intelligent choice.
No, I wouldn't date a trans person. I'm straight and I'm a Christian so its against my religion. And even if it wasn't against my religion I still wouldn't date a trans person. If someone is or at one point has been a guy I dont want a relationship. It might sound harsh but the fact is it would bother me to much. My best friend is trans and I love him like a bother so I don't hate trans people or anything like that. I'm just not interested in them when it comes to relationships.
I voted yes.
But its maybe more of a "it depends" because I do prefer it if they had the genital surgery. Because I like dick.
I'm sorry if it's maybe a little transfobic, but sex is just important to me.
You can of course try stuff with strap ones but I like to pleasure my partner too but I just don't really want to eat pussy or finger it? 😅
I just saw your update. If they had the surgery than it is a yes.
If I find the person attractive, then I am attracted to the person. The more attractive I find a person, physically & mentally, the more it would takes to destroy that attraction. So that information would be necessary to know, but definitely not a deal breaker.
no disrespect to them or their life choices but... I am a straight guy and no i wouldn't as they would still be biologically their original gender... if you layer wood on a concrete floor it doesn't mean that concrete floor is now wood, it just has a surface of wood, on top...
if we chose to have a child together and be both our biological child ie she gives birth to said child, that would not be possible for them to do...
surgery does not make a person the gender they wish simply cos it may add or remove a body part... a trans person who goes from female to male cannot produce sperm, in the same way a male to female cannot bear and carry a child within their wome as they simply do not have said wome, they will still have the biology of their original gender, the operation (s) are just a matter of masking that, the hormone injections/medications only serve to provide growth of a more feminine appearance such as breast growth, hair reduction, changes in vocal pitch... it doesn't remove the internal organs that are indicative of the male gender...
it is merely a mask which is only skin deep, sure some procedures go a bit further but m to f will never be able to do what naturally born females can and vice versa...
I have seen so many pretty transwomen, even prettier than some biological women. So i think men would date them since they could be more attractive than biological women. I myself have not ever seen a transman. So idont know about dating transman
There is a youtuber that a watch called jammidodger. He is a trans male, and in my opinion, extremely attractive.
No because I'm physically attracted to women. Trangenders are still biologically men. Their muscular definition, height, bodily discharges, smells, lack of baby making etc.
no, because I don´t feel attracted to them. Many still look like guys and I´m not interested in guys because I´m neither bi or gay. That might sound discriminating but it´s not meant to attack any one, I´m just not attracted to them.
I would but not in all cases.
- no sex change
- ever apparent and strong mental problems due to transition
- doesn't "pass" as male
-tooooooo immersed in the trans community/ lgbt community.
I voted this way for these people are immoral and against God , plus I do not want him / it to be wearing my clothes so - NO - ! thanks
Why would he wear your clothes?
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No, I am, indeed, not gay. I am only attracted to (actual, biological, vagina and menstrual cycle having) women. Thanks for asking.
Fuck no. If I wanted to date a man, I'd date a man. Not one whos developmental disorder has him thinking he's a woman.
However, I would not date a man either. As a heterosexual male, I only date biological women.
Nah definitely not. They may changed gender but they were once a man
I'm not gay, so no I wouldn't date one. A transgender "women" is a man who had surgery to slice his penis open and invert it inside himself. He's not a woman in the slightest.
you dont have to be gay to date a trans woman
@aditicriesblood you're right, bisexual or gay.
no you are still straight because the trans woman is a woman at the end of the day
@aditicriesblood lol actually a trans woman is not a woman at any time of day. A trans "woman" is a man who had surgery that sliced his penis open turned it inside out and inserted it into him.
So to have sex with a trans "woman" is to literally put your penis inside another man's penis.
@aditicriesblood are you anti science or such? You seem to believe if you mutilate someone's genitals, their sex magically changes.
@aditicriesblood shush please. if you want to fuck something with a dick as a male, that is a HOMOSEXUAL attraction. stop it.
@igravenbunny @RationalMale y'all seem transphobic as fuck
@aditicriesblood you seem really ignorant of basic science and biology. Did you flunk 8th grade?
@aditicriesblood I dont want to fuck women.. does this make me a misogynist? dumb fucking downie, with her basic iq.
@RationalMale damn I've never heard someone put it as blunt, witty, and sarcastic as you did. lol had to stop and admire that
@mindNsoul LOL thanks!
Sure if they were upfront with me. But if I find out after we start getting intimate, then they’ll find themselves single.
I highly doubt it, but I wouldn't refuse to be friends with them for that reason or disown a family member, if they were transgender.
I don´t think ANY people in this world is better or worse than others by default. I embrace all kinds of people and respect them.
But no, that i would never do!
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