Would You Date A Transgender Person?

Question

I would. Would You?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. And not because I hate trans people, I give literally zero fucks about what they are doing with their body, and I think there's been enough conclusive science to show that trans brains work more like the opposite of their birth sex. I just simply am not attracted to trans individuals. Even those who have had sex change operations generally still have genitals that don't look particularly pleasing compared to the real thing (to me), I'm not attracted to large amounts of makeup (surprise, trans women tend to wear a decent amount of makeup), I'm not really into fake boobs or butts, and on the off chance that maybe I want a kid to pass on my genetic heritage (even if I adopted one before that), I'd rather not have to watch another woman carry the baby around. There are men who are completely fine with it, prefer it even, and people shouldn't be demonized for liking what they like, which some people here seem to think is okay. Obviously there's frustration associated with it, and that's fine and reasonable to an extent, but it deserves no more attention than an "ugly" person complaining they can't find a date, it's the same core issue, preferences.

Futureboy · Accepted Answer

Not to sound offensive but no. In the future I would want to start a family and I am not attracted to people who I know used to be biologicaly a man. I know that sounds offensive but I have no issue with others or them as a person. If they want to be trans, bi or gay and lesbian that's fine. But just because I am not attracted to someone who you can tell is not biologicaly a women, that shouldn't make me a genderist. However would a trans women go out with a trans man? Or would you get a situation where they refuse because they know that the person used to be male which they are not attracted to?

19magic · Accepted Answer

Nah couldn't do it I can never see myself wanting to be male and I just can't get my head round it, don't get me wrong I've been friends with one before and then they expressed that they liked me in return I was in shock in my head I was still calling them a he/she and I couldn't do it

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't have penis and I look like a girl idone 5 year hardwork but still nobody dates after hearing that I am a trans😔😔

TheLawAroundHere · Answer

And by "date", you mean?

Years back, i met this gorgeous milfy type blond. We sat and talked all night. Laughed and joked. Had a great time. Exchanged numbers. I called her a few days later and she came to my place for dinner.

"Passible" is way too vague of a term. Petite. Elegant. Charming. Smart. And drop dead gorgeous.

In a way that she was sure wouldn't embarrass me, she told me she had a penis.

Again, "date" isn't the right word for some of the best head, eager anal, and wonderfully silk and nylon-y sex I've ever had.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No cause im not gay. Im not into girls (even if dressed as boys). For example, Bruce jenner will always be bruce even if he calls himself caitlyn and dresses like a girl. He can “be who he wants to be like B A R B I E” but at the end of the day, he was born a man and any man who dates him would be considered bi/gay.

DocT1977 · Answer

I'm not attracted to people who at one point were, and still are biological men per their DNA. I would only be interested in a natural born woman who has not rejected her natural identity. People have a right to live their lives out however they like. It is MY choice as to whether or not I with to play along. I just don't think pseudo women are an intelligent choice.

WilliamO · Answer

No, I wouldn't date a trans person. I'm straight and I'm a Christian so its against my religion. And even if it wasn't against my religion I still wouldn't date a trans person. If someone is or at one point has been a guy I dont want a relationship. It might sound harsh but the fact is it would bother me to much. My best friend is trans and I love him like a bother so I don't hate trans people or anything like that. I'm just not interested in them when it comes to relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

I voted yes.
But its maybe more of a "it depends" because I do prefer it if they had the genital surgery. Because I like dick.
I'm sorry if it's maybe a little transfobic, but sex is just important to me.
You can of course try stuff with strap ones but I like to pleasure my partner too but I just don't really want to eat pussy or finger it? 😅

Teyfet · Answer

If I find the person attractive, then I am attracted to the person. The more attractive I find a person, physically & mentally, the more it would takes to destroy that attraction. So that information would be necessary to know, but definitely not a deal breaker.

SjE78 · Answer

no disrespect to them or their life choices but... I am a straight guy and no i wouldn't as they would still be biologically their original gender... if you layer wood on a concrete floor it doesn't mean that concrete floor is now wood, it just has a surface of wood, on top...

if we chose to have a child together and be both our biological child ie she gives birth to said child, that would not be possible for them to do...

Anonymous · Answer

I have seen so many pretty transwomen, even prettier than some biological women. So i think men would date them since they could be more attractive than biological women. I myself have not ever seen a transman. So idont know about dating transman

jabariw18 · Answer

No because I'm physically attracted to women. Trangenders are still biologically men. Their muscular definition, height, bodily discharges, smells, lack of baby making etc.

Lionman95 · Answer

no, because I don´t feel attracted to them. Many still look like guys and I´m not interested in guys because I´m neither bi or gay. That might sound discriminating but it´s not meant to attack any one, I´m just not attracted to them.

ririissleepy · Answer

I would but not in all cases.  - no sex change  - ever apparent and strong mental problems due to transition  - doesn't "pass" as male -tooooooo immersed in the trans community/ lgbt community.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

I voted this way for these people are immoral and against God , plus I do not want him / it to be wearing my clothes so - NO - ! thanks

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Read this very carefully  FUCK NO

MCheetah · Answer

No, I am, indeed, not gay. I am only attracted to (actual, biological, vagina and menstrual cycle having) women. Thanks for asking.

Torari · Answer

Fuck no. If I wanted to date a man, I'd date a man. Not one whos developmental disorder has him thinking he's a woman.

However, I would not date a man either. As a heterosexual male, I only date biological women.

virgin20 · Answer

Nah definitely not. They may changed gender but they were once a man

RationalMale · Answer

I'm not gay, so no I wouldn't date one. A transgender "women" is a man who had surgery to slice his penis open and invert it inside himself. He's not a woman in the slightest.

Agape93 · Answer

Sure if they were upfront with me. But if I find out after we start getting intimate, then they’ll find themselves single.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

I highly doubt it, but I wouldn't refuse to be friends with them for that reason or disown a family member, if they were transgender.

DanishSaint · Answer

I don´t think ANY people in this world is better or worse than others by default. I embrace all kinds of people and respect them.  But no, that i would never do!

Kiss_Me · Answer

I'm straight. I only date people of the opposite gender.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Sorry, no. I cannot be seen or associated with such. I will not be party to such fraud or uncleanness.

Roberto1965 · Answer

I always thought to unattractive women like transgendered (the bad way)
The good way of transgendered is if she is stunning beautiful.
Then I am all in for being inclusive: even Marilyn Monroe had a finger in excess.

shangri-Ia · Answer

If the penis didn’t come out fully formed from their mother’s womb, probably not.

Guanfei · Answer

No. I'm straight. I wouldn't never date a man, or a girl pretending she's a man.

Pete671 · Answer

I'd date them without sex-change surgery, if you like them as a person it's only a matter of plumbing anyway,,,

J2ohhhhh · Answer

I can see very little chance to ever be attracted to one, but out of open-mindedness and curiosity yeah.

Anonymous · Answer

I would date a trans girl if they didn't mutilate their body. Chopping off dicks and fake vagina's are gross  I'd rather have a real dick on someone that looks ladylike than a fake pussy

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Casually for a short period maybe. Not sure i'd have a serious relationship

PennyJ112 · Answer

To put it bluntly, no. I'm entirely heterosexual, so I'm attracted to people who have penises and look like men.

bastiónpassion · Answer

No, it screams, “Potential Mental Instability”!!! Sex maybe, depending on looks, relationship, hard pass

_Aisha · Answer

I would say I'd be just keeping it till friendship cause being in a relationship without having emotional feelings is quite impossible and so if u try being in a relationship with transgender it may led to hurt u at the last💜

ashkyl · Answer

I meant to click on depends. If I really like the person I would try it out.

mbell65 · Answer

I would love to date a transgender person because of what's inside the person that counts.

RingOfFire · Answer

No. I feel sorry for them but the thought of it disgusts me.

OddBeMe · Answer

Honestly, I don’t know. Could depend on the physical makeup of the person (ie vagina). I just don’t know enough about it.

pocketman · Answer

Date no, but be friends maybe. Depends whats between their shoulders.

ProLife · Answer

Only gay men would do that trans are grown men in dress pretending to be female🤮

Evil_Chuck · Answer

Probably not. Being a man or a woman is more than having the requisite parts.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I only want to date woman, that was born woman.

Anonymous · Answer

No such thing as a "transgender".  So would I date a transvestite? NO. I wouldn't date a man wearing women's clothes.

SpeakingClouds · Answer

I would without any doubt and was often inclined to do so.

Hitchhiker42 · Answer

Absolutely 💙💗🤍💗💙

Anonymous · Answer

Had a terrible experience once. It's on my never again list.

Chikky · Answer

Nah, I'll pass

Anonymous · Answer

No because they’re ugly and I can’t be with a woman who used to have a dick. I just can’t

Anonymous · Answer

They aren't people, dirty diseased organisms. Life unworthy of life.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Have done it, would do it again without hesitation

nerdybutlazy · Answer

A person is a person it dont matter

ct1243 · Answer

Not a lesbian no

modelUN242 · Answer

No that's super disgusting.

Quackthulu · Answer

If I actually met one worth dating.

sheikalana · Answer

Almost dated a transgender girl a few months ago.

Mystic_Nova · Answer

Never but I'd happily be friends with them.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

If its got a pussy, and tits yes...

gandolph3 · Answer

maybe after the operation

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would never, ever, date a transvestite.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

would very case by case if I would or not.

nikooo0ooo · Answer

Yes I would

joeldalton · Answer

I like women without penises.

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