Would you date a transgender person?

[Anonymous]

No hate please, just answer yes or no.

Yes I would

No I wouldn't

[Romeocuck]

Definitely. If she looks feminine and pretty. And we have a connection and she's pre-op then I would definitely date her

[Asker]

Pre op? You mean post op?

[zzzz9999]

Yes, trans or not, the fact they're a person will always come first :)

[Asker]

Vote please ☺️☺️

[Anonymous]

Firstly I'm married. But even if I wasn't married I honestly wouldn't date a trans person. That's nothing against trans people. I just feel that it is necessary for the guy I'm with to have a penis. It's obviously not the only requirement, but it's a necessary one.

[Anonymous]

I would not. No hate, its just not something I'm romantically attracted to.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Hypothetically, if I met one worth dating.

[OlderAndWiser]

Never.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

No because i'm straight

[Asker]

Irrelevant but thanks for the input

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That's a relevant reason. You're not asking for any hate comments so i'm not

[Asker]

Its irrelevant because I didn't ask about your sexuality. But if you want to go there sure, what about women do you like exactly? What makes you straight?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

The true intention here is the reason i gave not the sexuality i just want to say i am. I guess any reasons you wouldn't mind unless someone says they are straight you're going to make it a big deal. You're lowkey just trying to get offended by it. And to answer your question i am straight because i'm attracted to women not men.

[Asker]

I'm not trying to get offended if you read what I said I said to answer yes or no. Didn't ask for any reasons. What makes a woman a woman, please do tell 🙂

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I gave a reason just in case you ask you. If it's not necessary then it's also not necessary to make a big deal out of it when you can just ignore that one. The main answer is still there and which is what you're looking for. Not the reason for you to just point it out. But really, one of them said yes and they give a reason. How come you don't do anything about it? Maybe it's because it's a reason you just like to hear?

[Asker]

Because your reasoning comes from a hateful place. Theirs did not.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Oh you see now you consider it a reason after calling it a relevant but you just want to justify it's a hate reasoning. Really what is so hateful about being straight? Well it's true that they don't date transgenders but where is the hate then? I thought you're asking for opinions not the validation

[Asker]

It is irrelevant because being straight means you are attracted to the opposite gender. It's hateful because you're implying trans women aren't real women. Since you don't want to answer my questions I assume you already knew this though.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It only hate for because you like to put it that way but the fact still remains that their chromosomes cannot lie. So yes straight people are not attracted to transgender and there is nothing they can do about their sexual orientation and that is a very valid reason why anyone wouldn't date a transgender because we are only attracted to women who are biologically women that has x chromosomes. If you really like to take offense with that then that's nobody's problem but yours. Facts don't care about your feelings

[Aiko_E_Lara]

If it's not the sexuality and hate then tell me what are the reason why there are people who don't want to date transgenders? And what about if i say no because i'm gay? I'm pretty sure you wouldn't mind that one.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

There are in fact for example a gay man doesn't like to date a transgender man because they want a biological male. That makes them purely gay. Yet they are celebrated. It doesn't make a difference if someone is straight who doesn't like to date a transgender. If you really like to argue that there are gay or straight people who likes to date transgenders, that's like an oxymoron like saying there are criminals who don't commit crimes. But it is all clear now that there are a lot of people like you who just don't like to listen which is why super straight exist now. Just like super gays exist but i see it still double standards

[Asker]

"their chromosomes cannot lie"
Oh you get all your partners genetics tested before dating them? Highly doubt, you are attracted to an appearance not genetics. You can just say you have a genital preference, that is not hateful at all.

If a guy said no because I'm gay I would say the same thing. Like I said... Genital preference isn't a sexuality, sure it has something to do with it but when you meet a person you're only assuming they have the genitalia that you are attracted to. You're still attracted to their outer appearance before you know what's in their pants.

Saying no bc you're straight/ no bc you're gay is just invalidating trans people. Simple as that. Just say no I prefer female genitalia.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Actually i'm talking about the gender chromosomes being xx and xy. If thet have xx chromosome then yes theyre female. And sure well i am i safe may not know if they really are transgenders or not, once known that they are actually transgender it is an instant turn off because that still doesn't remove the fact that they were once men which i don't find sexually attractive and that's what most people do. Saying i have a genital preference is just a form of circular reasoning but anyone can still ask why i have a genital preference. Simply because i'm straight but that's just something they don't like to hear. And really i don't think you would have a negative if i say i am gay instead but now that i just said it is just something that changed your mind just now. Also i can say that because you say to hate comment it's just how you interpret it. simple as that and i don't like to spoil anyone.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Also even if it's a genital preference you want us to say, we still don't want to date guys with vaginas.

[Asker]

Damn work on your sentence structure that was a bunch of long mumbling.

I'm sorry your education has failed you. XX and XY are not the only sex chromosomes. You cannot tell what a person's sex chromosomes are either so again. You're attracted to an appearance and you are attracted to certain genitalia. You're making it complex because you want an excuse to be transphobic.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then how about work your reading skills? If you think it's not long then i feel sorry for you.

You're still ignoring the part where i said if i do that person was once a guy, i'm not going to look at them this same so it is going to change their appearance for me. Also because i'm only attracted to CIS women and there's nothing you can do about it. I thought you are actually educated yourself but last i checked there are only two sex chromosomes www.genome.gov/.../Sex-Chromosome You see you're just going to call me transphobic just for saying i don't like to date transgenders. You're just more of a hater than just someone who have preferences. It all started when i just said because i'm straight it simple as that but nope you just want to make a very big deal out of it.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But really, you're also dodging my point about that circular reasoning you wanted me to say which lacks coherent.

[Asker]

Then say you're attracted to cis Women... Simple. Also this isn't 5th grade science, there are many different combinations of sex chromosomes https://genetic.org/variations/ not only 2 combinations.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Then what do you even call people who are attracted to CIS women? What's the short term for those people then? Because you will only give me an answer i just gave. Again circular reasoning is a lack of coherent. I actually read that article you gave. Its still said in there there are 2 XX (female) and XY (male). What it's giving is variations of those chromosome combinations. But those are still XX and XY. And even if you just google it directly it's going to come out as a very first result www.google.com/search

[Aiko_E_Lara]

*guys who are attracted to CIS women? Really though if you cannot answer that then you're just looking for excuses to call people transphobes. Apparently you don't like to hear that word but you only like to hear with the meaning of that word so whats the difference?

[Asker]

You are straight with a preference for cis Women... As I explained multiple times. I never said you weren't straight, just said that saying "no because I'm straight" is hateful as it invalidates an entire group of people. You're saying trans women aren't women. You're saying women have XX chromosomes (in reality females have XX chromosomes as sex chromosomes are not only human), but again you can't see chromosomes. You're attracted to how a person presents themselves, you as a straight man are attracted to femininity and in your case you are also attracted to cis Women.

And yes like I said XX and XY are not the only sex chromosome combinations. And I'll say it again, you cannot tell someone's sex chromosomes by looking at them therefore you are not attracted to chromosomes.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And i thought i'm the one who's making it complex. I was saying, just assuming it is hate is just all in your interpretations. Majority of straight people normally prefer cis women. Why should we owe you an explanation that we prefer cis women as a default? No all i'm saying is i am straight and i'm not saying that trans women are not women. You know i can also be saying trans women are not cis women. Why do you have to jump to the conclusion about us saying that trans women are not real women? Apparently if saying we are straight is a hate speech, aren't you generalizing that's straight people are transphobic? Not what would that make you sound? Sounds pretty much like a heterophobe.

Like what i also given even google agreed with it that there are only two sex chromosomes and you are giving variations of those two combinations. Repeating what you said doesn't really make you more valid

[Aiko_E_Lara]

But sure if you want to divide straight people in to 2, those "straight" people who dates transgenders and those straight people who only date cis women, then sure there is going to be at the new term for those people who only date cis opposite gender. Now how about if i say no because i am super straight in short? You all have your own terms so that you won't have to repeat its meaning over and over again. So that i won't have to say i only date cis women, how about if i say no because i'm super straight then?

[Asker]

Super straight is a whole other thing and I'm sure you know all about how that shit hit the fan. 😊

I guess you missed where I said "sex chromosome combinations"

Cis man loving cis woman got it 😎

[Aiko_E_Lara]

And i'm pretty sure how it really "hit the fan" it was supposed to be a joke at first but then it actually has a point. In conclusion to that, logic offense them more than jokes.

You also missed the part where i said are only two chromosomes combinations but you just gave variants to it.

In other words straight. I meant the default straight

[MCheetah]

Never.

[elizamichale1]

Yes i wouldn't mind

[Anonymous]

Absolutely I would date a transgender person.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I still wouldn’t even if it was Alstolfo

[michael1469]

Ummm that would be a no.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I would love to.

[dudeinohio]

i would not

[Wise4myage]

No I wouldn't.

[sp33d]

Nope.

[Dchrls78104]

Ummm... no way.

[sjob2512]

You mean shemale

[Asker]

No, I mean transgender.

[sjob2512]

Okey

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

probablyyyyyy not