What is the most attractive hobby the opposite gender can have for you?

[GoldCobra]

[Anonymous]

A person who doesn't limit themselves to 1-3 hobbies.
bc I love spicing it up!

I already enjoy repelling/rock climbing, interior decorating, long boarding, snowboarding, surfing, paddle boarding, hiking, running, going to the gym, swimming, tanning, horse back riding, dune buggies, riding quads, moto cross events, racing on the track, MMA fighting, defense techniques with the police department at my university, killing it at karaoke, hot yoga, fucking around with acoustic guitar/bass/piano, jui jitsu in my garage, shooting range, playing board/card games, kayaking, off roading, ice skating, reading smut/mystery/adventure, playing dress up/rp, going to the concerts, hula hooping under the sun, dancing, road trips, cooking vegan, playing pool, playing soccer/volleyball/basketball, drawing and painting, photography, and literally anything can be fun!

Personally, I find dating to be overrated. I have to get to know someone for 3 years before I decide on if I want to date exclusively (i'm 100% celibate bc no kids or pills for me thx). I got so much shit to keep exploring and I just want freedom to chill with my friends and not worry about relationship drama. Plus, the chase is the most entertaining part!

[Skullpool]

Wow, you sound just like the perfect girl. I hope you actually are as good as you look like 😉

[Opinion Owner]

Lmfao right, as if the perfect girl truly exists lolol

[Skullpool]

No one is perfect, but at least you like to do or at least try things out of normal and that is so attractive 😍 all girls I know do is watch Netflix, Instagram or the social media in turn and they are so bored

[Opinion Owner]

I also appreciate other people who enjoy the outdoors and exploring new adventures! The go getters! Not everyone is into doing that much

[MarketData]

How do you ever have time?

[Opinion Owner]

Mainly weekends and vacation time! Like one weekend I’ll do a 2 hour drive to a nice hiking spot where I can spend all day at the mini waterfalls. Or I can drive 30 minutes to a steep mountain and do a night hike while high. I always have time to cook and meal prep for the day. Ice skating rinks are pretty cheap once you bring your own skates. I have a swimming pool in my backyard. I own my own paddle board. My cousin works at a snow shop so I get a discount when I rent my board. Easy to fit them in on the weekends. During the week day in between classes or working I like to paint/draw, play card games, etc. You just make time for all of it if you prioritize and plan.

[jennifer_bloom]

i'm not sure cause there are a lot of hobbies that I consider to be attractive.

Some things at the top of my list though
- good at violin or piano playing
- good at soccer
- good at computer programming
- good at driving
- good at math competitions
- good at physics
- good at understanding nature
- good at cooking
- good at picking out clothes
- good at martial arts
- good at lifting weights
- good at playing guitar
- good at writing poetry
- good at painting

[Silver158]

Must have all of the above? lol

[kakaloo]

Good list

[JohnG4]

14 reasons why I’m never finding love.

[Sara0607]

Great list!👍😂

[Lissy6789]

Something nerdy like computer building or maybe working on cars. I looove seeing a guy excited and interested in something. As long as they can talk passionately about their hobby it's cute

[UncleJessieRabbit]

I have quite a few of them that would be cool to have in a partner:
- Creative arts (acting, singing, modeling...), I think any creative or "celebrity" type of talent is hot in a woman.
- Fitness activities because I support those who generally take care of their health and appearance, especially a potential girl.
- Musical talent-I think it's cool if a girl can sing or play instruments.
I might be a bit hypocritical since I don't engage in all of these ones myself, but it just happens to turn me on, don't know why. She doesn't really need all of that, though.

[ak667]

Something which creates a "product" or "performance" or something I can enjoy and admire, like a skilled singer, musician, artist, writer, dancer, something to this effect.

I tend to admire people more into arts and humanities, even though I excelled in STEM and have a software engineering job. Even then, most of the people admire the most in terms of skill even in my work are people like designers and artists rather than engineers and mathematicians. They create such beautiful things I can instantly appreciate.

[ak667]

Even then, most of the people [I] admire the most in terms of skill [...]

[ak667]

I actually annoyed so many of my colleagues one time doing an interview where I said that I admired the designers and artists in my field for their creativity, which some colleagues took to imply that software engineering isn't very creative in nature. But I meant that in the sense that an artist, when she approaches an easel, isn't constrained by all sorts of technical problems. She's not spending half her time solving complex technical problems and fixing glitches. She's free to express and create so freely, and the end result can be immediately appreciated by everyone. So I tend to admire the works of the artistic and creative types in this sense more than the technical types.

[Logorithim]

Outdoor physical activities, singing, painting woodworking, lockpicking (yes, it's a Hobby where I live)

[Seeyouaround]

I have a few that I find highly attractive. If a guy can sing or play a sax then that is a huge turn on... also drummers , pianists and guitarists. Photography or painting , because its amazing to be able to see the world through someone else's eyes. Chess or checkers , all the guys I've met that play these games are intelligent. DJs because I'm obsessed with music and dancing. I guess anything really as long as the guy loves what he does. There is nothing sexier than a man with a passion for life.

[Jgirl532]

I grew up around hockey. My dad loved it, having played hockey as a kid, and it was the only sport that I didn't play but also understood. So, I have grown into quite the hockey fan in more ways than one.

The most attractive 'hobby' a guy could have would be hockey because all the hockey players I have met have had the basic body composition that I am attracted to. They have muscles but aren't bean poles. They also usually have a very confident and therefore attractive attitude. Because of that association, I think playing hockey is the most attractive hobby a guy could have.

[ErzasCheesecake]

Volunteer work, the first thing I would think is that is something we could do together and that he is nice.
Singing, I would think we had something in common.
If he enjoys games, I want to get good at gaming, maybe he'll teach me, or maybe he won't, who knows, either way, it makes him seem more human and interesting.
Making things, anything, with the exception of pottery and sewing, I don't know
why but for some reason, it just puts me off, I'm sorry.
COOKING, nothing hotter than a man who can cook, maybe that's why so many women like Gordon Ramsey?
Maybe drawing?
History, politics, learning anything.
And lastly, reading.

[virginbish]

Any hobby that doesn't become an addiction... and any hobby that actually improves them as a human and doesn't change them into a hermit that needs to be secluded all the time. A hobby that challenges them physically, intellectually and that can be discussed and shared with me and seeing their passion is maybe one of the reasons I would be attracted to them. It needs to be something that is a hobby though, and something that adds value to their lives

[Xoxocutekitty]

Any guy that is into plants has my heart. There's just something about a guy who enjoys the asthetic for nature and has the ability to take care of something that can't give him any "stimulation" in return (unlike kids, or pets). The men I know with plants are tidy, sensitive, good listeners, and dress well. I find people who like plants in general notice the little things and actively strive towards being kind.

[NicoletteKomotov]

Crossdressing as a female. It opens their view on themselves from exploring their feminine side. It also give us something fun to do shopping, clubbing etc together. It's much more fun than watching sports or having him gone doing manly men stuff and hanging with the guys. Fem up guys!

[Danish_m8]

No...

[elite665]

I agree wtf is this comment just no...

[Buckzor]

That's a hard pass from me, good luck finding a "man" who's into that.

[Hisexy]

Right on so hot

[Zsazsabear]

Motorbikes! Love everything bike related, we can talk for hours about bike types, engine types... pipes... belly pans sprockets.. moto gp... TT... Road racing... I'm a tad obsessed ;)
Music and motorbikes... happy me!
I do love other interests but hobby specific these ones do it for me every time!

[Mi2mi2a]

Just any hobby except gaming. I'm not against gaming but the usual addictiveness that holds a lot from doing outdoor activities.

Well I would say I don't like the main hobby to be gaming, and any hobby is attractive for me.

It would be even more fun if we could have some common hobbies to share.

[Anonymous]

Anything from guitar, gym/fitness, or play a sport! carpentery is also a plus! Creativity :))

Any of those are far more appealing than something else but any hobby as long as it’s not killing or torturing others, is cool.. I don’t like people that don’t do anything.

[MusicMayhem]

Sports so I know she values her health. If it's tennis or gym, even better as we can do it together.

Maybe also cooking and gardening. If she grows her own veggies to cook with that's really cool :) But if she's really good at cooking and tries to take over from me in the kitchen when I know what I'm doing, that's a bit annoying.

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

Blacksmithing

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[Unit1]

I don't in particularly care but if her hobbies include swimming, science (of any kind), Technology, hacking, traveling, building up an independent or happy life the smart way (aka not marrying, not reproducing but saving up for a house and start generating income with estates) or graphic designing, then I'm highly interested.

[QueenofCups]

I like actors and musicians to hook up with.

I like to date people who can discuss history and literature intelligently.

I also like RPG gamers, but they tend to be friends rather than boyfriends or hookups (with a couple exceptions).

[GoldCobra]

Nice.

[Cole_Conrad]

Guitar and RPG's yay

[Anonymous]

Shared interests are always high on the list. A woman who understands what "Taking 5% rotation error, min/maxing haste/crit evenly works stronger in favor of frost over arcane though sims show arc possible damage higher frost outperforms outside dummy tests" means is kind of hot to me, despite how incredibly dorky that would probably be to most other people.

Also, a girl who can handle a gun goes a long way in my book.

[AoiKaito]

Well aside from sharing my love of photography, drawing, and gaming, it would also be cool if they were into things like cooking, martial arts, and playing the violin. None of this stuff is mandatory, nor "attractive" per se, just stuff that would be great pluses for a potential SO of mine to have.

[Bribree18]

Read or just do some type of intellectual hobby. If you’re intelligent (and not condescending, I mean more “geeky” I guess)... I’m going to love you without a second thought my goshhhh

[MindYourEyes]

If he was involved with volunteer work pretty much loves to help people. Likes hiking/ outdoor type of stuff sports. Can play musical instruments, work out, video games but not too much where it consumes mosr of his spare time. XD hmmm

[Crazyylauraax]

Probably cooking and also something that makes the person unbelieveable happy and enjoys doing it! I want to see them come back to me and be fulfilled and satisfied.. that would be the most attractive for me :)

[CherryRoseChampange]

Honestly, it's when they either show their intelligence somehow. So like hacking, complicated mind games/ work. Or when they build stuff/get their hands dirty.