What is the most attractive hobby the opposite gender can have for you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A person who doesn't limit themselves to 1-3 hobbies.
bc I love spicing it up!

I already enjoy repelling/rock climbing, interior decorating, long boarding, snowboarding, surfing, paddle boarding, hiking, running, going to the gym, swimming, tanning, horse back riding, dune buggies, riding quads, moto cross events, racing on the track, MMA fighting, defense techniques with the police department at my university, killing it at karaoke, hot yoga, fucking around with acoustic guitar/bass/piano, jui jitsu in my garage, shooting range, playing board/card games, kayaking, off roading, ice skating, reading smut/mystery/adventure, playing dress up/rp, going to the concerts, hula hooping under the sun, dancing, road trips, cooking vegan, playing pool, playing soccer/volleyball/basketball, drawing and painting, photography, and literally anything can be fun!

Personally, I find dating to be overrated. I have to get to know someone for 3 years before I decide on if I want to date exclusively (i'm 100% celibate bc no kids or pills for me thx). I got so much shit to keep exploring and I just want freedom to chill with my friends and not worry about relationship drama. Plus, the chase is the most entertaining part!

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

i'm not sure cause there are a lot of hobbies that I consider to be attractive.

Some things at the top of my list though
- good at violin or piano playing
- good at soccer
- good at computer programming
- good at driving
- good at math competitions
- good at physics
- good at understanding nature
- good at cooking
- good at picking out clothes
- good at martial arts
- good at lifting weights
- good at playing guitar
- good at writing poetry
- good at painting

Lissy6789 · Accepted Answer

Something nerdy like computer building or maybe working on cars. I looove seeing a guy excited and interested in something. As long as they can talk passionately about their hobby it's cute

UncleJessieRabbit · Accepted Answer

I have quite a few of them that would be cool to have in a partner:
- Creative arts (acting, singing, modeling...), I think any creative or "celebrity" type of talent is hot in a woman.
- Fitness activities because I support those who generally take care of their health and appearance, especially a potential girl.
- Musical talent-I think it's cool if a girl can sing or play instruments.
I might be a bit hypocritical since I don't engage in all of these ones myself, but it just happens to turn me on, don't know why. She doesn't really need all of that, though.

ak667 · Accepted Answer

Something which creates a "product" or "performance" or something I can enjoy and admire, like a skilled singer, musician, artist, writer, dancer, something to this effect.

I tend to admire people more into arts and humanities, even though I excelled in STEM and have a software engineering job. Even then, most of the people admire the most in terms of skill even in my work are people like designers and artists rather than engineers and mathematicians. They create such beautiful things I can instantly appreciate.

Logorithim · Answer

Outdoor physical activities, singing, painting woodworking, lockpicking (yes, it's a Hobby where I live)

Seeyouaround · Answer

I have a few that I find highly attractive. If a guy can sing or play a sax then that is a huge turn on... also drummers , pianists and guitarists. Photography or painting , because its amazing to be able to see the world through someone else's eyes. Chess or checkers , all the guys I've met that play these games are intelligent. DJs because I'm obsessed with music and dancing. I guess anything really as long as the guy loves what he does. There is nothing sexier than a man with a passion for life.

Jgirl532 · Answer

I grew up around hockey. My dad loved it, having played hockey as a kid, and it was the only sport that I didn't play but also understood. So, I have grown into quite the hockey fan in more ways than one.

The most attractive 'hobby' a guy could have would be hockey because all the hockey players I have met have had the basic body composition that I am attracted to. They have muscles but aren't bean poles. They also usually have a very confident and therefore attractive attitude. Because of that association, I think playing hockey is the most attractive hobby a guy could have.

ErzasCheesecake · Answer

Volunteer work, the first thing I would think is that is something we could do together and that he is nice.
Singing, I would think we had something in common.
If he enjoys games, I want to get good at gaming, maybe he'll teach me, or maybe he won't, who knows, either way, it makes him seem more human and interesting.
Making things, anything, with the exception of pottery and sewing, I don't know
why but for some reason, it just puts me off, I'm sorry.
COOKING, nothing hotter than a man who can cook, maybe that's why so many women like Gordon Ramsey?
Maybe drawing?
History, politics, learning anything.
And lastly, reading.

virginbish · Answer

Any hobby that doesn't become an addiction... and any hobby that actually improves them as a human and doesn't change them into a hermit that needs to be secluded all the time. A hobby that challenges them physically, intellectually and that can be discussed and shared with me and seeing their passion is maybe one of the reasons I would be attracted to them. It needs to be something that is a hobby though, and something that adds value to their lives

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

Any guy that is into plants has my heart. There's just something about a guy who enjoys the asthetic for nature and has the ability to take care of something that can't give him any "stimulation" in return (unlike kids, or pets). The men I know with plants are tidy, sensitive, good listeners, and dress well. I find people who like plants in general notice the little things and actively strive towards being kind.

NicoletteKomotov · Answer

Crossdressing as a female. It opens their view on themselves from exploring their feminine side. It also give us something fun to do shopping, clubbing etc together. It's much more fun than watching sports or having him gone doing manly men stuff and hanging with the guys. Fem up guys!

Zsazsabear · Answer

Motorbikes! Love everything bike related, we can talk for hours about bike types, engine types... pipes... belly pans sprockets.. moto gp... TT... Road racing... I'm a tad obsessed ;)
Music and motorbikes... happy me!
I do love other interests but hobby specific these ones do it for me every time!

Mi2mi2a · Answer

Just any hobby except gaming. I'm not against gaming but the usual addictiveness that holds a lot from doing outdoor activities.

Well I would say I don't like the main hobby to be gaming, and any hobby is attractive for me.

It would be even more fun if we could have some common hobbies to share.

Anonymous · Answer

Anything from guitar, gym/fitness, or play a sport! carpentery is also a plus! Creativity :))

Any of those are far more appealing than something else but any hobby as long as it’s not killing or torturing others, is cool.. I don’t like people that don’t do anything.

MusicMayhem · Answer

Sports so I know she values her health. If it's tennis or gym, even better as we can do it together.

Maybe also cooking and gardening. If she grows her own veggies to cook with that's really cool :) But if she's really good at cooking and tries to take over from me in the kitchen when I know what I'm doing, that's a bit annoying.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Blacksmithing

Unit1 · Answer

I don't in particularly care but if her hobbies include swimming, science (of any kind), Technology, hacking, traveling, building up an independent or happy life the smart way (aka not marrying, not reproducing but saving up for a house and start generating income with estates) or graphic designing, then I'm highly interested.

QueenofCups · Answer

I like actors and musicians to hook up with.

I like to date people who can discuss history and literature intelligently.

I also like RPG gamers, but they tend to be friends rather than boyfriends or hookups (with a couple exceptions).

Anonymous · Answer

Shared interests are always high on the list. A woman who understands what "Taking 5% rotation error, min/maxing haste/crit evenly works stronger in favor of frost over arcane though sims show arc possible damage higher frost outperforms outside dummy tests" means is kind of hot to me, despite how incredibly dorky that would probably be to most other people.

Also, a girl who can handle a gun goes a long way in my book.

AoiKaito · Answer

Well aside from sharing my love of photography, drawing, and gaming, it would also be cool if they were into things like cooking, martial arts, and playing the violin. None of this stuff is mandatory, nor "attractive" per se, just stuff that would be great pluses for a potential SO of mine to have.

Bribree18 · Answer

Read or just do some type of intellectual hobby. If you’re intelligent (and not condescending, I mean more “geeky” I guess)... I’m going to love you without a second thought my goshhhh

MindYourEyes · Answer

If he was involved with volunteer work pretty much loves to help people. Likes hiking/ outdoor type of stuff sports. Can play musical instruments, work out, video games but not too much where it consumes mosr of his spare time. XD hmmm

Crazyylauraax · Answer

Probably cooking and also something that makes the person unbelieveable happy and enjoys doing it! I want to see them come back to me and be fulfilled and satisfied.. that would be the most attractive for me :)

CherryRoseChampange · Answer

Honestly, it's when they either show their intelligence somehow. So like hacking, complicated mind games/ work. Or when they build stuff/get their hands dirty.

TheSoundOfSilas · Answer

Writing, dance, martial arts, gaming, philosophy, camping, hiking. Role-playing, such as Pathfinder or D&D, would also be nice.

AMG63 · Answer

Loves to adventure, travel. Go on weekends away.  Relax - massages etc  Cooking is always good  Manage time well, be able to build things or follow instructions.

Tim-El · Answer

I do enjoy finding out more about a partner's hobby as I feel it adds more depth and discussion to the relationship. However, as a gamer (and proud!) I have never found a partner interested in gaming beyond casual (wii etc). As a big hobby I would be so happy to share it with someone in detail. Alas, not yet (I imagine I'm not alone in this?)

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Sucking my penis. It's a good hobby for them to enjoy.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Playing an instrument, because then we can play and jam together! Okay, not all the time, lol. But it's super attractive to me.

_lauren_ · Answer

I've honestly never even thought of this... I might like it if they enjoyed driving because I absolutely hate driving. But anything else seems cool too.

lexythelou22 · Answer

Anything having to do with art. Music, painting, sketching, sculpting, writing, anything.

ScienceFusion · Answer

Actually liking me *internal screaming* Nah just any of the same hobbies as me so I get to spend time with them.

AbsoluteCutie · Answer

Reading, art, working out and video games. Bc then we'd have something in common. But others can be good too. It can open you up to new adventures.

Jjpayne · Answer

games and movies, but exercise might be good in form like nature or going to the gym on a regular basis

MelaninDoll · Answer

I honestly don't know XD cooking, reading, gaming, skateboarding, singing, writing A LOT of them would be really attractive to me.

Ailaw22 · Answer

Choosing hobby to appear attractive doesn't sound right.
I think a girl interested in fashion and creative work is appealing combine with outdoor activities then we will have something in common which will be great

clampfan101 · Answer

Gaming! I wanna play multiplayer video games with my girlfriend/wife! lmao
As for her actual profession, probably a doctor. Smart girls are hot, and I’d have yet another reason to feel safer with her.

The_FallenOne · Answer

Men who can Dance, Cook, Drummers/musicians, Computer nerds, Wrestlers, MMA Fighters & Or guys who play soccer or hockey😍

Anonymous · Answer

If she is into comic books. I love them myself and can talk for hours about them. So it would be cool if she likes them as well. Also a girl in a comic book or pop culture tee is just hot as hell to me.

BipBipLeddus · Answer

Cooking is probably number one for me. There's a lot more, but who really cares?

TripleAce · Answer

fashion 😛 and sports... when you can find a chick thats into fashion and sports... you got a winner

Roxxy99 · Answer

I’m impressed by guys who are creative... artists, musicians, writers. Something about it is sexy.

naijagurl · Answer

I love guys that can play instruments. Especially string instruments.

jalla · Answer

Something that's practical or creates something. Anything from fixing cars to painting

Selina_Kyle_ · Answer

Being someone cultural, especially if reading book.

CubsterShura · Answer

Reading books 😍 or cooking yummy food 😍 or playing sports 😍

nachowurry · Answer

Painting or playing guitar. Both require lots of skill and dedication which are the real turn ons😍

CluelessAtDating · Answer

Music, but a guy who knows how to cook is extremely attractive too.

Buckzor · Answer

Lifting. 100%.  But any mutual interest, whatever it may be, is attractive as fuck to me.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know if I've ever found a girls hobby attractive , it be neat if she was interested in what I was. but I very few girls collect the types of things I collect , old books , bottles or postcards

alice55 · Answer

Soccer, video games (the one that I like), driving / car,

aceexp · Answer

Guitar, Dance, Theater, Singing. Just things that are artsy and skillful

Salmon4056 · Answer

I like him having fitness or art related hobbies like me. But in the end, I wouldn't care

AynonOMouse · Answer

I'd like it if she was into board games like Clue, Catan, and also if she was into table top RPGs like D&D.

Maximeese · Answer

Easy answer, whatever is common ground. Personally, im a gearhead, so cars would put me doen on one knee.

Anonymous · Answer

Own a gun and hunt and do manly ass shit and like we’re good to go. Just do manly shit and I’m yours

Anonymous · Answer

I know it's NOT asking or answering questions on GAG.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Survival style camping. Hiking. Grilling on the BbQ. Casual sports. Travelling.

Anonymous · Answer

Anything athletic that we can do together. Like going out and playing tennis with a guy is really fun. Mostly because I like the competition

Anonymous · Answer

I’d say for me, if he likes doing sports and all that.

AbdKilani · Answer

A girl that sings Is a really great thing for me :)

loveslongnails · Answer

Being a great singer or musician... and she loves to give head and is good at that, even better !

TomasLyy · Answer

A girl who plays sports, or at least stays in shape

Juxtapose · Answer

Gaming, simply because it's my primary pastime and sharing hobbies is a good start.

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