What kind of hobbies do you find attractive for someone else to have?

[beebella]

[Anonymous]

Into:


Painting, I find it so sexy when a guy is creative, when he LOVES to paint it’s so freaking impressive to me.


Playing instruments, guys who play the piano have my fucking heart or any kind of guitar. I mean it because I’m a music geek myself.


& basically anything artistic.


And also:
A few sports maybe soccer
Running
Yoga
Or:
Reading poetry books, just me and him drinking tea in the afternoon together holding hands and reading our favorite poetry books or favorite book✨.
(ANY books except anime )


Likes photography, I can just imagine him taking me on a trip to Italy and him taking pictures of the sights and historical buildings. Makes my heart flutter💗.


When he likes being independent going to places by himself and isn’t afraid of doing that. Like for example he says “hey babe I have to go to France for work” and he doesn’t need me to go but offers anyways , and as he’s there he just does things by himself. It’s hard to explain but that’s pretty hot to me. 🌃


When he likes to star gaze 🌌
When he likes to listen to jazz.
When he loves to go visit museums to look at unique paintings and sculptures.
__________
Oh my god someday 😭.

[Opinion Owner]

y'all i forgot to separate sports and the book stuff 🤦🏻‍♀️ whatever y’all get me though 💖

[Cynicaldreamer]

Someone that shares similar interests to me would be nice: a "fit geek" if possible:
-Fitness (running, strength training, kickboxing, hiking, etc)
-Video games- he doesn't have to play the same games as I do, it would just be nice to have someone that understands I'm a gamer.
-Anime/manga- And before anyone says that's not hard- you don't live in my area, lol. The men around here look at me like I'm crazy when I say I watch anime. It's like finding a freaking unicorn, lol
-Gardening or working outside in the yard
-Fishing/hunting
-Doing absolutely nothing/relaxing (that is a hobby and I'm sticking to it, lol). Being able to know when to relax and have downtime and be lazy. I'm fine with a guy that just wants to nap after a hard day of work

[cookiecrusher]

Great list

[NathanDavis]

dancing...

I remember when I first saw my (Venezuelan/PuertoRican) ex-girlfriend... and at first glance, from a distance, I thought she was cute... pretty, because she was but didn't think more

but one day, I saw her do a little dance move at this gathering/party...

right away I thought, I might need some of that in my life... lmao

[Slim57]

Cooking, musician, gymnast, gardener, horse riding, animal enthusiast, gamer, show binge watcher

[jennifer_bloom]

Being able to draw or write poetry or do muscular work outs is attractive to me - also like a guy who has good veggie recipes on hand for healthy eating

[ManOnFire]

- Being able to play an instrument. I play a little piano but it's way hotter if she knows more than me.
- Any kind of crafting, super sexy.
- Bowling.
- Gymnastics.

[AMA_ImAnOpenBook]

Music is my biggest passion, so anything in that lane (going to concerts, learning/playing an instrument, singing, dancing etc.)
If she is a gamer that is another plus. doesn't have to be same games i like, just able to enjoy them or be understanding of me enjoying them. Some people are very anti-gaming and that's a dealbreaker for me. Working out (this can also go too far and be a turn off if they are just obsessive about the gym and their appearance 24/7). Sports, both watching and playing. Being able to actually follow the game and know what's going on, talk about it, go to ball games together rather than just tolerating it or showing up for my sake.

[ReneD13]

I don't have a specific hobby I find attractive but I think seeing a woman that's passionate about something is extremely attractive. Watching their demeanor change to complete focus when performing it or watching their face light up and how excited they get when talking about it is extremely attractive.

[sage2021]

Astronomy - studying our universe and sharing what he knows with me. Especially when we go on the balcony outside at night and he points to the moon and the stars and tells me stories about them. I love when he is standing close behind me with his arms around me sharing how knowledgeable he is. That is an emotional turn on for me 🙂

[DonkeyDan]

Someone who plays an instrument, into to fitness and hiking, maybe has done gymnastics, or dancing is always nice as I'm in to ballroom. I like creative people, so a creative hobbies like painting or drawing and photography.
As long as they have interests though I didn't mind what they are really.

[TadCurious]

Bella I find being able to play a musical instrument very fascinating and attractive. I love many different kinds of music and I play a bit of guitar and piano myself. I know enough from playing to enjoy listening in a different way, in terms of appreciating what is going on with things like chord progressions and song structure. I would find it very attractive in a person for her to be able to appreciate music in that way.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think a woman being a plumber and helping her dad or boyfriend out doing plumbing jobs is very attractive and some women earn a degree just by doing on the job training and become a full plumber also I remember knowing this girl was a carpenter and it's amazing when girls/ women can do guys jobs and some are better than a guy

[FinalFantasyBro]

Swimming

Cooking

Playing Video Games

[Juxtapose]

Once that match mine, such as gaming, political discussion, martial arts and so on.

I don't want someone who busts their ass to prove themselves, I want someone with hobbies that reflect they like to have FUN.

THE ABSOLUTE WORSE THOUGH IS WOMEN WITHOUT ANY HOBBIES.

[Juxtapose]

*Ones

[MCheetah]

A woman who can sing or write music. Or a woman who is passionate about something similar, like drawing or writing.

[petitedollbabee]

Gaming, artwork like painting or sketching, or playing a musical instrument. Since all of those hobbies are the same that I have, we can do them together 🙂. I also don’t mind a man who enjoys cooking or gardening as a hobby.

[Phoenix98]

Working out
Martial arts
Cooking
Fishing
Hunting
Shooting ( either archery or guns )
Video gaming
Watching good TV shows ( stuff we'd both like )
Going to art exhibits or museums

Stuff like that.

[ChrisMaster69]

Singing, dancing as I suck at them.

martial arts.

also shooting, archery

[ManOnFire]

Yeah, something hot about the archery thing.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ManOnFire yeah it’s good,

ELR shooting is as well

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Underwater frisbee throwing would be an attractive hobby to have or playing horseshoes with toilet seats would be cool as well.

[Ryfyle]

Have you tried fork lift chucking?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@Ryfyle I haven’t but anything that involves a forklift sounds like fun.

[TrueConfection]

At first I thought you wrote, "underwear throwing." 😂

[Static_In_The_Attic]

@TrueConfection Underwear throwing? That sounds like fun as well & if the underwear is clean even better.

[TrueConfection]

😂😂😂

[TheSpaceGnome]

Drawing, competative gaming, cosplaying, making sci-fi and fantasy stuff, playing instruments or composing music, watching anime, watching sci-fi and fantasy movies/tv, building computers or other tech, coding, writing stories.

[Anonymous]

I play violin, write stories and poetry for magazines and have diplomas in both theoretical and practical drawings. Plus being a physicist I can tell stories about sky and universe 😅. I am a great cook too and learned to cook items from all over the world , plus I play video games and do extensive gardening. I don’t know most hobby stuff is easy for me.
So technically I can talk about almost any hobby with anyone or can learn new stuff from them.

[mobiusforniner]

I've always found a woman who plays a music instrument as being sophisticated and attractive. Especially stringed instrument, like violin or cello

[Apulu_3]

Hobbies like me. For example writing or music related. I always have a thing for musicians, singers and writers, poets.

[DarkCarousel]

Spending time outdoors— hiking, home projects. Music, reading, writing. Sleeping in on Sundays and snuggling and/or watching movies together.