It is questions like these which brings the racist trolls to the front where they question you instead of looking into the problem.
Some here even stated that you're an Indian guy out here looking to make girls feel sorry for your supposedly fake story. Like seriously? What would you gain at the most even if you were fake? 3 comments?
Some even went as far as to say Indian guys are jealous because white women don't find them attractive.
She has obviously not seen the popularity of some Indian actors or sportsmen.
In fact, the Indian actor Sharukh Khan has the largest fan base in the world while another actor called Hrithik Roshan has won Best Looking Asian award many times. It's also laughable that she does not know that it was an Indian who won the Mr. World contest in 2016.
And yes, it was this girl Princess4u who said that (obviously).
Now if you look at this girl, she has a sense of entitlement and tends to make racist comments without any facts behind her words. The 'princess' in her name itself tells us as to why she's so angry at the world.
She was used to being coddled and pampered, so obviously, the real world grabbed her by the tap.
An entitled basic dumb 'wahmen' to be clear, so don't feel bad for her racist comments.
Now that we have our facts here and have successfully defended common sense on this planet of idiots, let us move on ahead to your question.
People generally tend to date their own race because the cultures are similar and it's easier to live with them as they get the things that you practice.
You tried your luck outside and it's completely okay. We don't live in the 11th century here and no Indian here needs to prove that they are equal to anyone because they are one of the countries who win these materialistic beauty contests the most.
Those who want to bark off with their racist comments will do it anyways so don't bother with them.
Go to your boyfriend and tell him that you're breaking it off with him. If there is anything that I have learned about India, it's that they are extremely patient, a bit shy, smart and hard working.
Any guy would love to have a girlfriend who is like that so don't bother with this current idiot of yours.
And remember, don't blame his race for the fault of his parents. They were supposed to be the ones who would ensure that he got a proper upbringing.
They failed so it's not your fault. That's all there is to this matter. You will have much better luck with other people.
Hmmm... usually it has nothing to do with ethnicity. It could be another white chick, and if she's ugly as fuck and I'm fucking her because I can't get nothing else... then yeah, I'll fuck her... but I don't want my friends to know I'm fucking the fat ugly chick down the street. Shit... if my family finds out I might kill myself.
You being Indian sounds like a cheap excuse... I'm white too and I've fucked everything there is on this planet... Indian is one of my keepers... just so long as they're one of those hawt ones that sing and dance in the Bollywood movies... if she's fat and ugly, I hope nobody finds out.
I am a very analytical person. For some reasons, I feel like you are an Indian guy (with pink account) trying to twist this story to make White guys look racist or to shame Indian girls who date White guys because you are unhappy with it.
Omg, you’re such a troll 😂 coward ass b%*ch
We know you’re a dude.
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That is really insensitive. Tell him (calmly and politely) that it is really important to you (also meeting his family, and anything else). A Partner should Always be attentive to what is really important to you.
Be with someone who is proud of you.
It could be that he truly dosnt want people to know his dating an Indian woman.
But there is also one more factor that plays a big role in why he could be acting this way. If you have been sexual with him and he thinks you are an attractive girl he will show you in those times that he want you why because you are fulfilling his sexual want for you and nothing else. He dosnt want people to know about you all he want is to feel good and have you there to do it because you are attractive to him. Think about it dont ask him because he will deny it.
You need to exit that relationship quickly and don't look back! Find a guy who doesn't have interracial relationship issues. Everyone jumps in a calls him a racist. I'm not saying that he is not a racist, but a true racist would not interact with someone outside their race. Most likely, he doesn't know how he will handle any racism he will possible face being in a mixed race relationship. He does know he will deal with racists and is afraid to find out. If you have to keep him, then you need make him deal with the issue and face his fears, or you will leave.
Wow... he actually responded to the question? and even better... you stuck with him After? Maybe you have a thing for being mistreated because i'd never date someone who is ashamed of me... i can understand being shy of PDA (Public Displays of Affection)... but just being ashamed AND introducing me as a FRIEND? i guess they get their wish and we become just friends. They can go fuck themselves.
Do some soul searching... you don't love this guy and you know it.
It sucks and you probably dont want to hear it but walk away. In my experience if someone in the relationship is trying to hide the other from the frends in there life it normaly means your not in a relationship. ... your being used out of convenience. If you decide to stay tell him your not ok with hiding your relationship and if he can't be happy and proud to say he is with you then he dousnt deserve you.
OMG I'm sorry honey but you should have kicked him to the curve a loooong time ago. So what if you are Indian? So you are goo enough to be in a relationship with him but not good enough for him to show you around? he is a jerk honey I'm sorry, but you desserve way better and should leave him.
why are you dating white guys? it makes me laugh seeing indian girls acting like servant to white guys who clearly dont value you. I stood on a busy carriage ignoring a couple and it irritated them that i minded my own business. An indian wife to a white guy had a child, the white guy treated their child like a servant. If you want to date a white guy, do so on the basis that you see yourself as the better half or else you're a loser.
Never put the key to your happiness in Someone else's pocket. Love is kind... it's not selfish. If this guy truly love you then let him prove it, a person will only value what he have once it's gone. stop saving a space for someone in your life let them work for it. Knoe your worth.
I can tell you he is insecure for sure. He is afraid of the opinions of others rather than being confident and bring down every negative opinion like a man.
Unless you both made a decision to stay private and act like friends in public, I don't see why you're still with him. He is obviously ashamed of himself dating an Indian person.
BREAK UP WITH HIM!
If he cannot accept you for who you are, why invest time into such a person? You deserve a man who isn't afraid to show you off to the world. Not some guy who cares about what others think. There's so many beautiful interracial couples out there. Let him go and find a real man
Dump his butt. If he’s not okay with you for that sort of reason, likely that won't change anywhere down the road.. it’s personally messed up and can mess you up too. Find someone whom actually takes their time with you and isn’t afraid of having you meeting their good-closest friends with them and invites you out with them and maybe even family as well. You’d be a lot more happier. 😑
I doubt he is racist. If he was he would probably not be dating her in the first place. It is more likely his parents and some of his friends are racist, and he doesn't want to look bad in front of them.
I would give him an ultimatum, because there is no point in continuing a relationship that will never go anywhere.
Find a barrel of flour. Jump in it. Or get some flour and one if those big powder poofs ya know what I'm talking about like in the movies? Tape it to a door and slam it against yourself. Loaded race bait bs questions result in sarcastic comments. No real human being would tolerate this and nobody would date an opposing race they didn't prefer. Nice try tho.
Break up with him. If really cared for you, your race should not be a reason for him to not be proud to date you. In fact, there should be absolutely no reason at all for him to not be proud. He's treating you like sh*t and you deserve so much better.
How many fake xper 1 accounts do you own?
I think problem goes beyond being an indian. I think the values instilled in him during is childhood is contradicting with the fact he fell in love with you which has shaken his little world and more he denies more he is going get confused.
Well, that's his problem and is scared to accept it so he can't think for himself and is more worried he judged by people in his little world.
These are enough reason to dump him. Don't punish yourself for a guy who can't think of himself.
If he's ashamed of you then you should leave him. Why be ashamed of someone you date. People should show off who they're dating and be proud. That guy is a boy and not a man. He deserves a throat punch.
Because you are Indian and he views your race as lower class than his. It's completely wrong of him and you should have challenged his beliefs but to answer your question that is why he is ashamed of you.
What you've described isn't a real relationship. You're apparently just his fuck buddy. Is this the relationship that you want? If not, get out and move on. Lots of white guys adore Indian ladies and would have no problem introducing you as his girl. Find one.
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