I remember very well thinking to myself that if things did end up working between us, then from that day on no matter What happens, no matter WHAT conflicts came up in life, nothing could EVER be THAT bad. Because I had her! I had the most beautiful girl in the world to stand by my side. So to answer your question on how it feels to be in love, I personally feel that it’s just an amazing feeling where your just head over heels for your partner. Seeing their face and knowing that they are yours is just an amazing feeling everyday and you can't ask for anything better in life. You are just so so happy to have them.
My story on with my grade 9 crush is over four years ago now (happened fall 2014) and even now when I am bored sometimes I just try to sit back and think, really consentrate and remember just how good it felt to have her as a crush and how happy it made me to think that she felt the same way but the memories only come back in bits and pieces. But I can tell you, the feeling was just amazing.For most teenagers getting out of bed in the morning is hell for them but back in fall 2014, I just couldn’t wait to get to school every day. I was sort of like spongebob with getting out of bed. I did not want weekends to come either because that meant I had two full days without seeing her.
I didn’t know I was in love since middle school. I’ve known this person since elementary school, the crush formed there. It’s always been like that. Everyday there was a smile, there was waiting for him to enter the classroom to talk with me and there was motivation to keep his grades up. When your in love with someone, it isn’t the feeling your focused on.. it’s not the desire to want to be loved back or have someone love you back even though you want that... it’s the individual that made you in love. All the good bad ugly and new things you can learn. You just knew because of your own feelings about being around this person, yes. This is the person I want to be with.
I left school. I’m 23 now but we always had a close relationship always upbeat and friendly. At one point he asked me out and I joked and hurt his feelings. One day he didn’t want to talk to me. Slammed his locker and left. I was so shattered I left that school and never been sane again. Heartbreak at 13 but I was still being a kid... I would have been his first girlfriend... I wanted to say yes but I didn’t and I don’t regret it now. He didn’t talk to me. He went off to talk to other girls. This is the real side of the person I love the most in the world. That is a side I could not understand because it hurt me a lot and it’s something that person will consistently do unless he willingly wants to change and he has been doing since the age of 24
Long story short after I disappeared it hurt. A lot. He dated other women. I dated other boys. I always loved him. But I can’t say he was always the first person on my mind. He was just, always on my mind. He was always there.
And now, we’ve gotten in contact. It’s funny how life works like that. And it wasn’t scary it felt safe. It was not a feeling... when your in love it’s more like subconsciously you made the decision to stay. And to take care of them and want to be there for them and watch their success let alone support them on their dark times was a success of your own.
It was like looking into a reflection of someone like yourself but it wasn’t like this person was making you feel anything. They wanted you left untouched but they touched you everywhere physically they couldn’t help it. And he found those essence so beautiful you didn’t need verbal context. Sometimes you just know. That was always the good part about being in love. The best part is the day after. It feels like a weight has been lifted and you can function once again independently. He is still a passing thought. But you feel safe to menuever and the freedom to come back where you are welcomed and loved
Love is always kind and inviting but it does have its painful perks. Sometimes you’ll find yourself crying for some reason you think is stupid but it really isn’t... vise versa on the other side. Sometimes being in love is nasty and ugly. Especially with fights. How you imagined being in love might not be how it actually is in the end. But you’ll know when your in love. It’s like your head and your heart resolved. It’s like all the logistical roads that head to your future lead back to that one specific individual.
But honestly instead of crying and watching the notebook and fantasizing on what is or what isn’t that’s always going to be unimportant what wrong he actually does logistically. You may not agree to it, but if your in love with that person despite what you agree or not. They are always there, and so are you. Just so you can have your special connection with that person. Just so they can look in your eyes and tell you your beautiful. Even if they don’t understand it themselves. You know what to do. And they knew how to carry you. It felt alright. That’s what I believe being in love entails. Uplifting, providing for the individual to be their best selves sitting through their worst and still being there to fight afterwards. It’s far from perfect
I accept that person for who he is. The girls don’t bother me. So everything had worked out in the end. He still does the behavior. He knows my flaws too. But we subconsciously know how to complete one another. I’m sure he was aware he always wanted to do this. But still... I’m sure he wasn’t really prepared for the emotion and that’s what I’m here and ready to fix up. That’s what I have been doing anyways. There will be a lot of things I won’t know about this person but i know I’m in love. It’s a decision to commit and submit
I love you😚
I love you more 😍🤗😘
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And also this too.
It's called lust.
I know, lol
This. Sorry I'm too lazy to make a comment of my own.
This^ precisely this^🌹