Well I’ve never actually been ‘in love’ as I have yet to get my first girlfriend, kiss etc and I’m still virgin but the only actual hard crush I ever had in high school was when I was in grade 9 and damn was I ever ‘head over heels’ for her. She seriously was legit a major crush and I remember thinking she was the most beautiful thing ever. i also remember that just seeing her face for 5-10 seconds while walking down the halls was just incredible. I so so wished I could get the to talk to her but like most grade 9s, that’s the year when most boys don’t know how to approach a girl, what to say etc. Early into grade 9 it actually appeared that she liked me back because I caught her looking at me quite a bit, people told me she blushed when my name came up etc and the thought that she liked me back was just so so amazing.
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I remember very well thinking to myself that if things did end up working between us, then from that day on no matter What happens, no matter WHAT conflicts came up in life, nothing could EVER be THAT bad. Because I had her! I had the most beautiful girl in the world to stand by my side. So to answer your question on how it feels to be in love, I personally feel that it’s just an amazing feeling where your just head over heels for your partner. Seeing their face and knowing that they are yours is just an amazing feeling everyday and you can't ask for anything better in life. You are just so so happy to have them.
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My story on with my grade 9 crush is over four years ago now (happened fall 2014) and even now when I am bored sometimes I just try to sit back and think, really consentrate and remember just how good it felt to have her as a crush and how happy it made me to think that she felt the same way but the memories only come back in bits and pieces. But I can tell you, the feeling was just amazing.
For most teenagers getting out of bed in the morning is hell for them but back in fall 2014, I just couldn’t wait to get to school every day. I was sort of like spongebob with getting out of bed. I did not want weekends to come either because that meant I had two full days without seeing her.
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Love is a topic that can be discussed quickly or in depth. You develop an overall positive outlook in your life and want to do good by them through you. It must also be reciprocated otherwise its temporary and will slowly and painfully dissolve. When you're in love you'll be either emotional, mental, or for the select few emotional and mental which makes you lethal. It's one or the other but with both everything is in accord.
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I’ve only been in love once with one person. To be in love, as a feeling is a unique supernatural feeling that is different for each individual and every couple. What I might feel is different from what the person I love might feel. So if you wanted my accurate answer for your question, I assume that your feeling of in love would be whatever you desired the most from another human being. Something that makes you smile so great it’s like an addiction you just need it and want more of it. Maybe you know why maybe you don’t. But I’ll write my experience
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I didn’t know I was in love since middle school. I’ve known this person since elementary school, the crush formed there. It’s always been like that. Everyday there was a smile, there was waiting for him to enter the classroom to talk with me and there was motivation to keep his grades up. When your in love with someone, it isn’t the feeling your focused on.. it’s not the desire to want to be loved back or have someone love you back even though you want that... it’s the individual that made you in love. All the good bad ugly and new things you can learn. You just knew because of your own feelings about being around this person, yes. This is the person I want to be with.
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I left school. I’m 23 now but we always had a close relationship always upbeat and friendly. At one point he asked me out and I joked and hurt his feelings. One day he didn’t want to talk to me. Slammed his locker and left. I was so shattered I left that school and never been sane again. Heartbreak at 13 but I was still being a kid... I would have been his first girlfriend... I wanted to say yes but I didn’t and I don’t regret it now. He didn’t talk to me. He went off to talk to other girls. This is the real side of the person I love the most in the world. That is a side I could not understand because it hurt me a lot and it’s something that person will consistently do unless he willingly wants to change and he has been doing since the age of 24
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Long story short after I disappeared it hurt. A lot. He dated other women. I dated other boys. I always loved him. But I can’t say he was always the first person on my mind. He was just, always on my mind. He was always there.
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And now, we’ve gotten in contact. It’s funny how life works like that. And it wasn’t scary it felt safe. It was not a feeling... when your in love it’s more like subconsciously you made the decision to stay. And to take care of them and want to be there for them and watch their success let alone support them on their dark times was a success of your own.
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It was like looking into a reflection of someone like yourself but it wasn’t like this person was making you feel anything. They wanted you left untouched but they touched you everywhere physically they couldn’t help it. And he found those essence so beautiful you didn’t need verbal context. Sometimes you just know. That was always the good part about being in love. The best part is the day after. It feels like a weight has been lifted and you can function once again independently. He is still a passing thought. But you feel safe to menuever and the freedom to come back where you are welcomed and loved
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Love is always kind and inviting but it does have its painful perks. Sometimes you’ll find yourself crying for some reason you think is stupid but it really isn’t... vise versa on the other side. Sometimes being in love is nasty and ugly. Especially with fights. How you imagined being in love might not be how it actually is in the end. But you’ll know when your in love. It’s like your head and your heart resolved. It’s like all the logistical roads that head to your future lead back to that one specific individual.
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But honestly instead of crying and watching the notebook and fantasizing on what is or what isn’t that’s always going to be unimportant what wrong he actually does logistically. You may not agree to it, but if your in love with that person despite what you agree or not. They are always there, and so are you. Just so you can have your special connection with that person. Just so they can look in your eyes and tell you your beautiful. Even if they don’t understand it themselves. You know what to do. And they knew how to carry you. It felt alright. That’s what I believe being in love entails. Uplifting, providing for the individual to be their best selves sitting through their worst and still being there to fight afterwards. It’s far from perfect
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I accept that person for who he is. The girls don’t bother me. So everything had worked out in the end. He still does the behavior. He knows my flaws too. But we subconsciously know how to complete one another. I’m sure he was aware he always wanted to do this. But still... I’m sure he wasn’t really prepared for the emotion and that’s what I’m here and ready to fix up. That’s what I have been doing anyways. There will be a lot of things I won’t know about this person but i know I’m in love. It’s a decision to commit and submit
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Thinking only about that one person ♥ and constantly wonder if he is okay... did he eat... when he texts or calls or when see him, to feel like you can't stop smiling because you're so happy to see him... to feel the butterflies and feel loved like you never was before ♥ to love everything about him ♥ to miss him when you're not together and to feel need to be always close ♥ to care for him more than even for yourself and love him more than you love yourself ♥ to see your future with him ♥
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I love you😚
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It feels like you're on top of the world and no one can bring you down
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And also this too.
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It feels extraordinary when you love someone and they love you back. It is the most amazing feeling I have ever felt by far, but it can also make you feel more terrible than anything else. It can seriously make you depressed if you give your heart to the wrong person and there will be a lot of wrong people. I don't know that from experience. I just know it. I've only been through it once, but everyone's story that I've heard matches what I'm saying here. Love is a very complicated thing. It can make you weak or strong. It can give you the most euphoric feeling ever or it can give you the most terrible depression ever. It's a part of life and you can't around it, but it hurts sometimes. I hope that answers your question.
00 Reply Everybody has an emptiness inside them, but when you're in love with someone, that emptiness is filled. You feel like you have everything you need in life, and everybody and everything else is just kind of peripheral. Love just radiates between you and the person you love, and you just want to be with them.
30 ReplyLove is when…you can talk to a person, and know that they wouldn’t ever let go of you. Love is when you don’t have to ever feel like you can’t cry in front of this person. You may hate yourself a lot, but when you fall in love with someone, you forget what it’s like to hate yourself, because you’re so in love with this person. That’s what love is
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I felt weak and irrational. For the first time I had a difficult math problem in front of me but I just stared at the blank piece of paper, nothing was happening (usually I would start seeing patterns and ideas flowing and they just appear out of thin air).
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They take away your freedom and money, and they always want more, no matter how much you give. Plus, you got an extra package of problems to deal with other than yours. And you have to remember birthdays and stuff. I'd rather learn mathematics than fall in love.
00 Reply I can't tell for sure
But when I was fooled to love, I was willing to do anything to that girl.
It was something out of control, your body isn't moving on it is own.
And you keep thinking about the person and plan your life with.
But then again it was all just a lie.00 Reply- +1 y
Most people say butterflies and thinking about them a lot but that's just attraction or a crush.
Love feels like home this person just feels right and peaceful. There is also an aspect of fear. You feel if this person was gone then life would have no meaning20 Reply 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I was only once.. and she made me feel whole.. not that i wasn't , she just made me feel that way.. the world was brighter and no problem seemed insurmountable We survived a traumatic ordeal and grew even closer.. andt it lasted almost 2 decades.. Now that I don't love anyone like that ,. I find that I miss it.. even with all the ups and downs.. even with the heart crushing ending.. I miss the feeling of love.. . I love, but not that intensely.. hopefully soon,,
00 Reply1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's feels good. Everything feels new, exiting and amazing. You think about him all the time and imagine situations and moments with him. You want to be with him forever and the feeling never stops. I'm less afraid, less anxious because of him. My mental health is great. I'm making huge process.
00 Reply1K opinions shared on Dating topic. True love brings you warmth. Like finishing the art piece that is 'you'. Everything falls into place, and you feel a natural calmness around the person.
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like you want to take care of him all the time. like you think he's the number 1 guy and the most amazing human being. like you're head over heels.
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This. Sorry I'm too lazy to make a comment of my own.
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Completely trusting but completely vulnerable. The happiest and the scariest you’ve ever been. Like your home. Like you want to be the best person for them. Like you’re the best person because of them.
00 Reply You get all bubbly when your significant other is around and you are happy to just talk with them, and see what they're up to.
Honestly I'm usually busy but I make time to do those kinds of things because I really enjoy it.00 Reply- +1 y
It feels like the best and worst thing ever. If your truly in love you will constantly think about the other person and you think your going insane. But you know when your with them everything in the world is right and you don’t ever want it to end
10 Reply It drives you crazy, and they take over your thoughts. It’s a feeling I miss..
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This
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Like you'd give anything to feel them against your skin
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~ Mrs Manson31 Reply 419 opinions shared on Dating topic. Now I scared to talk to the girl I like lol you all like “I loved her so much and SHE LEFT LoVE IS FAKE” damn
00 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. It feels like falling in a massive and warm marshmallow that engulfs you alive. It’s fun
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For me, it lets me forget that I have arthritis. That I'm a normal functional human being.
00 Reply You feel nervous, anxious, happy and a little sad all at the same time just because one person is on your mind
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Love feels like moments of pure happiness to have something so amazing in someone who feels the same way about you, other times it makes you physically sick because it can be lost or stolen from you.
10 Reply 2.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't think I've ever actually been in love. It always turns out that I was just infatuated.
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It's called lust.
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It feels like all your dreams came true, then you wake up lol
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Others dont feel important 😂00 ReplyLike satan inhaling your soul. Don't waste your time.
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it's not just being in love that's amazing... it's having someone you love love you just as much or even more... THAT is the best feeling in the world
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Never been in love. I hope to some day but that is a pipe dream.
00 Reply 481 opinions shared on Dating topic. Good and bad because humans aren’t perfect so things can go south pretty quickly
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Like you’re in a car going on a nice road trip... then suddenly the brakes don’t work. The car catches on fire. Both of you are trapped in it for the long run.
00 Reply It starts off really good then it fucks you over later one... it's not worth it
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The moment I was starting to feel the love she has left me.
00 Reply 2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Terrible. But I've never been loved back, I'm not a good example
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OMG its the best thing that can happen to a human being it takes your life over it drives you crazy
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Its wonderful! But, don't look for love, it will find you.
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I will let you know of I ever figure it out.
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Feels heavenly
Yet it's so painful
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It feels so fetch XD.
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Love that.
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😎😎😎😎
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It's like an addiction. Emotional addiction.
00 Reply so much feels esp when she's on your mind all day
00 Replyi don't know how m is
00 ReplyLove comes from the heart and makes you all weak
00 Reply3.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. torture
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Scary and at the same time amazing.
00 Reply Never been in love.
00 ReplyFeels good.
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