2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well 6 ft is a long ways away
But I think you should try.
Have you ever had a puppy or a dog or a cat and the way they just greet you and lick you and want you and they're just so excited.. it's unconditional love.
But better yet go into the bathroom take a good look in the mirror and tell yourself how much you love yourself but I mean let it come from your heart.
And try it for one day everybody that you talk to treat them as you love them wholehearted.
The weird thing about love is as we grow up we watch our parents we watch others in the way that they love each other the way they interact and that becomes the depth of our love until we experience it ourselves.
And with that usually comes some sort of heartbreak because we think we loved that person because they made us feel so good but you have to understand is you are the only person on the inside of you they can make you happy and make you sad nobody else in this world can do that to you or for you..
They can open the doors of new situations created when you become friends lovers partners and the experience of the bond that you create together can make you happy can make you feel love that you're the only person on the inside that can feel that and make yourself feel that
I honestly think that you can fathom it.
No matter what it is in life we only know what we know we only know what we have experienced positive or negatively
But no matter what happens in our life we still keep putting one foot in front of the other and we always grow no matter what we always learn more we always want more
Have you ever fantasized about some guy walking up to you looking deep into your eyes taking your hands and in slow motion places his lips on yours slowly slides them down your chin to your neck as he pulls your body in close as he becomes one with yo
So how does that make you feel if you experience that now you have to experience something new and greater that's life but I honestly think that you can fathom love and beauty and becoming one I can feel it coming from you...
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It's rare honestly at least for me it has been but it's both amazing but can be horrible with the wrong person. I loved a girl once, I constantly thought about her and cared for her deeply. It's thinking and caring about another more than you own self. It's honestly great if she can return the feelings but in my case she didn't and just used it. I don't regret falling in love with this girl but I did regret holding on as long as I did before I realized what was going on.
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I remember being in love and I freakin miss it so much! It's a beautiful feeling. You know how much you love them and why you love them. Definitely feeling butterflies in your stomach, that's for sure. Knowing they have a good personality and that they treat right and you treat them right too. You become comfortable with your person. You can talk to them about anything and have good communication. Being affectionate with each other. Having date days and date nights to keep the love and relationship/marriage alive. And lastly, even just being in each other's presence and living in the moment with your person, whether you both go out or stay home as long as you're with each other that's all that matters. Even being there for each other through everything no matter what, good and bad. Knowing you both want to spend the rest of your lives with each other and go through life together.
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Like your heart races and all of a sudden all you want to do is grab their stupid adorable face and kiss em. Like every time you're with them you giggle and smile and can't stop smiling. Like you're constantly worried that they may not like you, because the thought alone makes you physically sick. Like you can't get mad at them, when you look into their eyes you melt, and you just want to forgive everything
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968 opinions shared on Dating topic. it feels like you always have a warm home to come back to after being out in the rain. a person who will love you despite your depressive episode or a stupid mistake you made. someone who accepts you at your worst and best and who will be there with you to pick up any pieces or experience things with you. who will make your cheeks hurt from laughing and make you forget what you were even laughing about.
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It depends on the person but if you suffer from anxiety you’ll probably develop an anxious attachment style and that means that you’ll cry and worry so much and overthink etc. When I first started dating my boyfriend I was so scared because of my trust issues and I was always crying afraid that I’ll lose him. Yeah if you have anxiety falling in love is hell but it’s always nice when you’re actually with them in person.
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Quite nice. You look forward to spending time with that person. Your heart bears a little faster being around them. They make you happy, relaxed, excited. You feel good when they smile or laugh. You notice everything about them. From the little furrow in there brow as they focus. Or how there nose crinkles when they look around in winter. Or the little fluttering their fingers do whenever you compliment them. List goes on
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It's fucking great!! I really miss it! I haven't had any in 24 years, or better. If you both have a great sense of humour and what fun is, it's a lot of fun and REALLY nice to be able to share your thoughts and times with! It's also REALLY nice to have someone to hold and share love with. Problem is, it rarely ever comes around! The phony kind that'll keep you sated for a while might but, almost never the real thing.
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It is the most beautiful and painful thing you can experience.. When i met my wife, it was like i found the missing other half of my self. The one that could help me keep the monsters away.. She is my best friend, my closest ally, And the one person that i can stand to spend more than 10 minutes around and not want to run away.
My wife and i have been married 10 years, together 12.00 Reply 15.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It is the best feeling in the world, like a 24-hour-high.
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Interesting idea. I believe it may differ depending on the different types of love for example consommate love. And also the different stages to love. Some say love can be better than the honeymoon period for life where the respect, attraction and love deepens for life
- 1 y
My belief is that girls like the idea of the mystery whether a man likes her or not. It's enigmatic which is attractive.
I also believe a man should let her know and express his desire for her through a sex smile or charm. It can happen in less than a few minutes. And she'll know through emotional contagion and law of state transference. This shows strength being honest, authentic, sincere etc etc. It is much more respectable and attractive
- 1 y
It feels like a drug or your favorite alcoholic drink that you drink often and get drunk off of. It is an insurmountable high that you have.
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1 yIt’s a rollercoaster of emotions, it’s a high and then the tracks end and you hurtle downwards and crash in to the ground
00 ReplyA feeling in your stomach that never leaves, a love you cannot explain, a beautiful glass chandelier that hangs above you when you're feeling dark, it's beyond words that all you can say is, "I don't know how to explain it".
00 Reply5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. It's hard to genuinely put into words but the closest thing I could compare it to would be being on cloud nine.
00 Reply- 1 y
Romantic love is just a fairy tale lmaooo It’s not real
You’re young so ofc you believe in it… but let me save you disappointment. Lol 😂033 Reply- 1 y
It’s not false
Where’s your girl you’re in love with? - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 lol love takes time…the only lie is love at first sight, a girl would need to first give me the time of day for me to fall in love
- 1 y
If you say so
I just don’t agree. - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 maybe you just haven’t found a guy you really connect with yet
- 1 y
Many but I wasn’t who they wanted even tho they pursued first
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 maybe they just thought you were hot and then didn’t think you were compatible in terms of lifestyle, personality, goals etc?
- 1 y
Yeah, that can still hurt… because you still feel like you’re not good enough.
It doesn’t matter now. I suck dick and don’t get attached to men.
But love is still something I don’t strongly believe in - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 so you don’t want to be a long term monogamous relationship ever again?
- 1 y
No sir… never actually been in a real one.
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 so you just want to go the rest of your life just having casual sex? I don't know I think you should at least try having one real romantic relationship in your life. Not all of us men are scumbags. I’ve never had a relationship in my life either…but I definitely want to be in one.
- 1 y
Well I hope you find what you’re looking for.
I know there’s some good guys out there but I’m just not looking for that at the moment. - 1 y
Or at all
- 1 y
I like sx work
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 but you wanna be a sex worker the rest of your life? You don’t ever wanna try to settle down and have kids?
- 1 y
No, not really lol
I like detachment - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 is that just because you are afraid of being vulnerable and feeling stuff for a man again?
- 1 y
Yes. I hate admitting that lol because I don’t like when people try and change my mind.
I value myself enough not to deal with men in that way anymore.
I think the last guy I talked to really hurt my feelings. He’s a bisexual piece of shit but I still see him as the moon and stars. I don’t ever want to feel like that again
I feel powerful and in control when I show my body or do light sex work. - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 so what would it take for you to feel comfortable trusting a guy in that way again?
- 1 y
Lmaooo absolutely nothing
Leave me the hell alone. - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 I’m not talking about me lol…I don’t date sex workers. I was just saying in general because I hate seeing people give up on finding love because of past trauma
- 1 y
Ik you’re not:.. I’m just saying
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 well I’m hoping that you find a guy and fall head over heels for him, despite your efforts to withhold your emotions
- 1 y
No no no no… I don’t want to fall for anyone… they can fall for me but all I’m going to do is hurt them lol.
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 why are you going to hurt them?
- 1 y
lol you sure have a lot of questions.
Because if someone has “fallen “ for me then that’s not good. We don’t want the same things. - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 but it seems like the only reason you don’t want a relationship is because you are scared of being vulnerable and loving someone and then being hurt again…that doesn’t mean you are incapable of those feelings
- 1 y
Yes… I don’t want to deal with that. I’m not emotionally strong enough to…
But I like what I do
I like desire/attention a lot more than love lol - 1 y
@Chelsdope0 that’s just because you like the validation. But they don’t actually desire you. They just want sexual attention from a pretty woman because they can’t get any otherwise. And I think if you actually gave a real go at a relationship you might be a lot mentally healthier. I’m sure you withhold a lot of emotions inside you. But you’d have to be willing to trust someone and let someone in, that’s gonna be your biggest challenge.
- 1 y
Umm no.. I am desired and lusted after. That’s all I want. It’s the best feeling
So you think I never tried to give it go? You think I became this luscious whore out of thin air?
You know what’s ironic about this conversation… I had a man talk to me just like you… wanting to know why I wanted to be a placeholder.. wanting to know and understand me.. he ended up doing me dirty after our first date…
I just don’t trust men. I really wanted to be with him - 1 y
It is true
- 1 y
It hurts. It brings out your deepest emotions. But it's the most amazing feeling in the world when you're with them and you feel the closeness and togetherness.
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(by the way, I am NOT talking about sex! For you people with dirty minds out there.)
3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Like being on the finest drugs but with no side effects at all.
It can be kind of sedative. Or ecstatic. having a sense of belonging.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. one of the best feelings
tho u may be aromantic00 Reply307 opinions shared on Dating topic. @Chelsdope0 how did he do you dirty? Also yes you are lusted after, but only by men who can’t get women organically lol.
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He ghosted me and kind of disrespected me
- 1 y
@Chelsdope0 ghosting is cowardly and immature. Just say you aren’t feeling it and leave it there
- 1 y
You must be aromantic. I'm not sure myself because I am one but I think it just feels like just love in general.
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Like the feeling I have had for the last three years
00 Reply I feels warm and beautiful. Like butterflies are floating around. The saying is true.
00 Reply- 1 y
Gooe enough to be worth finding out
00 Reply - 1 y
Always boyish and a bit dozy.
00 Reply 4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. A best friend you can ass fuck.
00 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)1 y
I don’t believe in love don’t think I ever did…
00 Reply - Anonymous(45 Plus)1 y
You're not missing much.
00 Reply 5.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. The best drug ever
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Sacrifices
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