in my opinion being alpha is more about having the confidence to not care what others think about you, and to just be your true self. If you're a chill, laid back nerd, but have the self confidence and charisma to just be yourself, it's still being alpha.
Being alpha isn't just for ex-football stars turned bodybuilders that pick up chicks on the daily. They might act charismatic, but can actually be the most insecure people you've ever met. They try too hard to prove themselves for others' validation, and in my opinion that's the total opposite of alpha.
I don't think you understand what an alpha male is. An alpha male is dominant in regards to his life and his path. There are plenty of laid back alphas. They are not laid back when pursuing what they want.
A guy that "rules" other peoples lives is not an alpha. He is an asshole.
Totally depends on the type of person that you want to be and the type of people that you want in your life. But the bottom line really is that you should just be whoever you really are rether than acting a specific way because you think it's what other people think you should do.
Its so much better, and in my opinion more attractive, for a guy to be comfortable and laid back. It shows he's comfortable in himself and is a genuinly nice guy. "Dominant males" tend to take themselves too seriously and just act like jerks. And I hate that honestly
Im going to be weird. I want both. I want a dominate man to take care of me in bed, when things are rough, when I can't handle things and I need him. But a chilled laid back guys through usual things. Nothing too demanding
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Try being yourself. It's far less exhausting.
I'm laid back mostly, but I have never lost a fight. I don't go to the gym but I can walk miles.
Most women want a masculine man, not a dominant one. Someone who will build her up without flattery. Someone with integrity.
A stereotype "alpha male" is useless because they have zero empathy.
Be true to who you are. In nature a real Alpha male is more than a sperm donor. The Alpha Male lion protects the pride. As does the wolf.
Be yourself dude. If you're laidback, then be laid back. If you're a dominant alpha-type, then be a dominant alpha-type.
i don't know why the term alpha male is so triggering to me xD
Dominant alpha male that's the way to go can't be laid back I don't know how to be that. So I just do what I know diamond is always been my personality so it comes natural to me
Girls want chads that order them around. They don't admit it but that is what they secretly want.
If you need to ask that you are neither
The one who is hotter.
Chill and laid back
l am a dom Daddy
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