I don’t need answers like «yeah! The same way Girls go for bad guys». I have seen a lot of Nice, pretty, caring girls that tried to stay with nice guys but they always leave them for a woman who obviously has no "good" quality. She is considered selfish and not really appreciated, especially by other women. In addition, this "witch" is not even really pretty. Oddly, this kind of woman often manages to conquer the man of her dreams. The problem with these guys is they spend up to 30 miserable years in a stress filled marriage with a mean girl that usually ends up in a divorce bitter. After that experience they are ready to give a nice girl shot.
However, by the time these guys make a mistake, the girls want nothing to do with them. They are fed up with being touted for being “too nice” and would rather be able to do anything with an uncompromising clueless guy who only sees a backup plan.
Why do guys always treat mean girls like princesses and nice girls like doormats?
Nice, sweetheart girls are my favorite ♥️ That is actually my top sought after quality.
I did leave a really attractive, nice, sweetheart girl once for a girl that was pretty nice as well. The new girl turned out to be not nearly as nice though which I didn't realize at first. Why did I leave the old girl? Well I had moved so I was about 1.5 hours away from her which wasn't too bad. The newer girl seemed much more intelligent to me and more assertive. That choice was probably right for me at the time but it turned out that the first, nicer and sweeter girl is much more my type now. I was basically dumb at that age. I'd never date a girl like that second girl again! I had enough of that. So you are kind of right. But ehh I can still get a nice girl and I bet there's a decent chance I could reconcile with the original girl if I tried. She would still ask old friends about me years later and tried to get back with me for a few years. She actually told me she never felt treated well or enjoyed time with another guy until me. I felt super bad.__. Love can be terrible.
There is nothing odd about less-than-approachable people being more desirable than "nice people".
People don't want "kindness" what they want is to feel special, and "bitchy" people make them feel that way because affection coming from a generally unfriendly person feels far more special than affection coming from someone who is friendly to everyone.
I’m not necessarily convinced that’s true. Anyone who maintains value in themselves will usually get treated better. There’ll always be certain people looking to take advantage, but don’t let them. That’s not being nice, that’s being naive.
I hate mean girls and completly ignore them tbh. when a girl isn't nice to me I'll never be attracted to her. But I think mean girls might more often be more outgoing than nice girls... And if a girl seems outgoing and apporachable more guys will try their luck there. But I hope noone becomes mean because of this... We need more nice people in this world. :c
because people will treat you like you let them treat you. if you don't have a backbone, they'll push you over. humans just are opportunistic like that.
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