Is online dating real dating?

[imortalshadow]

So I online dated for three months is that ok because I never seen her irl but I thought she was the on is it ok for me do be sad and is it real or not

[DivaMonae]

Okay you said you've never seen her in real life. Have you ever seen her at all? At least a picture and then video chatted before?

I'm just asking to confirm that you're not getting catfished. Once you can at least say that make it known to her that you're serious. That you want to meet her and want to make it work.

And hopefully you'll have one of those rare chances seen on tv that it really is her, she's not using you, and wants things to work out with you to 😊

[DivaMonae]

... oh 😯
Scratch that I didn't know you were only 14.

[DivaMonae]

New word of advice follow JustinR46's advice only filtered and don't rush into sex you have pleanty of time for that.

[imortalshadow]

Lmao

[cayliexo]

I’ve dated someone for 3 years and he was from Indiana and my best friend is dating someone from Canada and she has truly has not been this happy and I am so supportive. Everyone is going to give you a different opinion but if you’re happy that’s all that matters. Both of you should make an effort though!

[TsundereMatrix]

If you actually video chat them and talk on the phone, then online dating is basically a long distance relationship if you live in different countries or regions. If you’re in the same city then I don’t think online dating is really a thing because you can see that person more frequently in person.

[browneyes13]

It’s real but if you meet them. I’ve never understood how people can date and love someone you’ve never met. Communicating through phone is not the same as in person.

[DiegoO]

Video call exist, mailing exist. Human emotions has no boundaries.

[HOAAH]

Yes, i dated online before on Craigslist and there are real people on there

[Anonymous]

Online dating is real dating. You talk, you hang out, you do activities, have fun, and share your time. It's a great example of a pure emotional connection. For some people, online dating will find you "the one", other people will be out of luck. It's 100% okay for you to be sad about losing a girlfriend, in-person or long-distance.

[JustinR46]

Bro, get some confidence and go after women irl so you can get some fresh pussy. Don't settle for some online bitch when she ain't even putting out for your ass. I understand you're only 14 so you have a lot of things to learn. You'll laugh at yourself when you're older for doing this now. Best of luck to you kiddo

[imortalshadow]

Thanks man

[DiegoO]

Online is also real. A different reality but not less real than offline daily life.

[slatyb]

No that's not real dating. The idea of online dating is to ask someone for a meeting. Then go meet them. Extensive texting or even phone calls is a waste of time. You finally meet them and no chemistry.

[IntuitiveMuffin]

You're 14. Why are you online dating? Wait until your in your 20s the deal with that cancer. Presumably you go to a school filled with girls. Date them.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Not unless you've met the person because for all you know you could be talking to anyone.

[Shelly444]

I have boyfriend from the other side of the world. Believe me I eventually dated another man to measure my feelings. Still I am not sure about the future.

[WhoDatGuy]

Sorry but if you've never met then no. She's nothing but a glorified pen pal

[Lance1965]

It is not dating. Any girl you meet online is just a acquaintance at best. Even calling them a friend is a stretch.

[Eleni91]

I did once never again went to meet her turns out she turns out to be a he. “She was looking for girl to share with husband” I an’t down for that.

[errrrrmkewlm8]

Great in it when I was 14 I was knocking on doors and running off, water fighting and wasn't worried about online dating or dating in general

[puddi_11]

Personally not really, there’s something that’s lacking without meeting in person, the way they speak, they’re mannerisms, how they talk to other people. Lots of different aspects

[DiegoO]

Very real, as long as both are in the same page. Simple? Fucking complicated.

[ChocolateDip]

Yeah you can meet lots of people online. Tinder bumblebee hinge okcupid.

[GalaxyCat]

I think it's real as long as the girl is real. Maybe you guys should meet up though.

[Sha84]

no just amusement when bored

[Northern_star]

she's actually told the honest truth from the general female perspective. listen to that dude.

[axelco12]

TRUTH!

[legalboxers]

its reall... and sucks!

[rrrpostmannn]

no it’s immature