Is the famous "Once you go black, you never go back" true or false? Also why many girls and women tend to strictly date black men after they date one?

[Anonymous]

In my experience it is true but I'm curious to hear what you guys and girls have to say!

[capncool]

Many girls and women who previously dated men exclusively within their own race/background and had mostly bad experiences tend to associate the bad experiences they faced with the men in their own race. When they eventually decide to try dating or hooking up with a man from a different race/background they may have a different experience that they might see as refreshing, and they positively associate that with the man being from a different background.

I'd say not completely true but definitely not false since there's some truth in it. But it does NOT just apply to white women and black men, it could apply to black women being tired of dating black men and dating exclusively white, Hispanic, or Asian men instead. Or Asian women who are tired of Asian men so they date exclusively Indian men instead. Or so on.

[Asker]

So far the best answer here! thank you, my dude! much appreciated!

[capncool]

Np :)

[name_is_eric]

False.
"Once you go black, we don't want you back."
"Once you go white, you know it's right."

[Asker]

Racist!

[PondyPand]

False. It's like being retarded enough to claim all women are bisexual.

[Asker]

How do you know? have you been in that position or?

[PondyPand]

No. I'm just not dumb enough to assume its true when its not. Heard many stories.

[Asker]

Stories such as? so why do you think it's false?

[PondyPand]

Because. I'm. Intelligent.

[Asker]

Weird. Most people here believe it is true. I guess I'm not intelligent then!

[ciitruskiwi]

For me it's false cause I've gone black and went back

[Asker]

Care to explain?

[ciitruskiwi]

Had sex with a black guy, wasn't all it's cracked up to be, went back to white guys. I'm more attracted to white guys anyways

[Asker]

It is told by most people that black men are actually better lovers than white men.

[ciitruskiwi]

That's what I thought and heard but I wasn't impressed.

[Asker]

So you actually prefer white guys?

[ciitruskiwi]

Yeah, I find them more attractive

[BananaGrey]

As a black person/biracial to some, I find some of these bs
sayings as offensive as the racist
tweets I often see posted on social media. I'm not open for
being a skin trend because people see Kardashians and Jenners with black guys and
assume this is the new in thing.

We're not all ball players,
we're not all entertainers
and rap friendly. We're not
all criminals and thugs,
that being said is the taboo
draw for a lot of women of
other persuasions to pursue
Black men solely based upon
sexual myths... Believe the bs
is ya want to.

[Anonymous]

GOD DAMMIT... almost... almost a whole flipping day without a dumb question... and then YOU happen.

thanks man.

[thiizu]

Its funny cause a lot of escorts won't even see black guys lol

[Asker]

How would you know? *HAHAHAHA*

[thiizu]

Because when you search for an escort a lot of them have NB (no blacks) in their bio lol

[Repa33]

False. Totally false. I mean I've gone back haha. Plus most women dont exlusively date black guys

[Asker]

I thought you preferred white guys... lol

[Repa33]

Lol what?

[Asker]

Well I always see you saying stuff like: most girls prefer their own race, most people date their race etc. I would have thought you prefer white guys by now

[Repa33]

Nah. just facts that most people are married to someone with the same skin colour (at least in the usa) i dont really have a preferance

[Asker]

I don't really believe so. What do you date more often? outta curiosity?

[Repa33]

Well thats the facts. Its based off the latest US census. None. I've dated a black guy and am now dating a white guy

[Asker]

You only dated two guys in your whole life? a bit hard to believe but okay.
If I told you to choose between white guys and black guys, what are you more likely to find attractive? ignore your current and ex boyfriend

[Repa33]

Welp. Doesn't matter if you believe me or not. Your opinion doesn't impact the truth. I honestly can't say because it depends on the person. there's ugly and handsome guys from each

[Asker]

Yeah.. not really the type of answer I'm looking for, but okay.

[Repa33]

Well the truth isn't always what we want it to e

[abc3643]

In my experience also, it's true.

[Asker]

Care to explain? give me some details? why? how?

[abc3643]

White women I have known who had black BFs stayed with the black boyfriend or married him.

[Asker]

That's now what I meant... The phrase basically means once you date black guys, you only date black guys and nothing else!

[Anonymous]

True, only cos they are not wanted anymore.

[maadison]

It's not.

[Asker]

Care to explain? please

[Anonymous]

True

[Asker]

Why? explain please

[DeviloftheValleys]

Dat big dik