What a guy should do if he never had a girlfriend and he is afraid of hypergamy?

[JohnJeremy]

I have bever had a woman i my life because I was not interested. I do not think I have a problem of talking to women and I am not particularly afraid of rejection. I am tertified of a woman's hyperhamy though and that in the end will use me because of my character. So i just want some advise for a better approach kinda and how can I protect myself from soulcrashing hypergamy.

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[Isten]

The whole "women are hypergamous and incapable of love" thing is an internet B. S. Most women are just as human as most men, and if you find a decent girl, she won't leave you because you aren't rich. The 80/20 thing doesn't work in real life. Pretty sure you haven't personally met a guy who is top 20% of society, and still people are happily in relationships all the damn time.

[JohnJeremy]

The amount of cheating that happens in the world , the amount of women divorcing men to be with the better " deal " of a man and deprive men from theur kids. The point is that women have unlimited options and this day and age there is no guarantee that they will stay loyal. And according to polls from tinder 80/20 exists ( it is actually 70/30 but you get the memo... ).

[Isten]

Cheating always existed because humans were humans back in the day as well. I'm pretty sure that a married men who was drafted cheated on his wife when he was sexually frustrated "back in the day".

Also, divorce is more common now because women are legally allowed to divorce their husbands. You will never know the reasons why a woman divorced before talking to her. Maybe the man abused her, maybe he cheated on her, it's rarely the "I want to take his money, muhahahaha".

Additionally, I wouldn't trust a study from these dating apps. The number of men to women is high, because more men use these apps than women. And I'm pretty sure that if you could swipe on people, you wouldn't take the woman with bad teeth who is overweight, but the hot chick who takes care of herself. It's only natural to look for a partner who you would like to be with.

[JohnJeremy]

I agree with the cheating part , I have just mentioned it. There are plenty of women who wanted to be with " a better man ", not because their husband treated them badly but because women ," had better options ". And no matter if you want to accept it 70% of sex is made by 30% of men, it has been always like that. Co nsidering all , I am just thinkinh if it is in my interest to kerp dating or not.

[Isten]

If you do the deed with a woman who plays dead, it just means that she sucks at sex.

And if all women constantly dumped men for "finding a better man", you wouldn't see happily married couples who have been married for 20+ years. I actually know a 3 couples who divorced after around 20 years of marriage, and in the 2 out of 3 the man was the dumper for a "better woman", not the other way around.

[JohnJeremy]

Divorce rate is over 50% , i do not think most marriages after 2000 will last 20+ years.

[Isten]

I don't know the stats, so I won't make up a number now, but many people still rush into marriages, which is the biggest mistake. If you choose your partner carefully, then such problems shouldn't arise.

[JohnJeremy]

Nice periodic tample you have in your prifile... lol

[JohnJeremy]

But as far as dating is concerned , I have decided not to date and never have a girl in my personal life because men like me suffer and get used , exploited and cheated from women in both relationships and marriage.

[Isten]

Sadly GaG cropped the table and it isn't fully displayed. 😂

You do you bro. 🤷‍♀️
I just wanted to prove that not everything with a vagina comes from hell. But the decision is yours.

[JohnJeremy]

Women have men like me for resources and cheat with the " alpha males " to have better genes in their babies. It was always been like that. I am walking away with my head high though.

[JamesRandiDebates]

There's nothing you can do about it. Bitches ain't loyal and they are always on the lookout for a better deal. Most likely she is fucking another guy on the side even when you are together. As they say, she's never your girl, it's just your turn. Never marry, never cohabitate, and never get emotionally attached.

[JohnJeremy]

MGTOW i see...

[JamesRandiDebates]

Realist.