What are the signs of dating a female narcissist?

[Anonymous]

I started doing research on this, and my girlfriend has every sign of being a narcissist, and it honestly breaks my heart. Everything is sort of clicking together and making sense now. What are some of the signs to look out for?

[MlleCake]

Extreme self centeredness, persecution complex, nice when she needs something, overly angry about small things.

But whether she is a narc or not, if you find her troubling to be with, it's time to move on.

[Anonymous]

1. Gaslighting
2. Lying
3. Changing stories
4. Ghost you
5. Blame everything on someone else
6. Say one thing but act Another

[Opinion Owner]

Both my parents and my sister is narcisstic so ask if you need any tip

[syxdeep2]

Signs of wanting to dominate you sexually. Mentions of BDSM or wanting to feel superior to you sexually is the easiest to spot. I had a female constantly mention cops/robbers roleplay with her as the cop as an example. It doesn't always have to be BDSM type stuff but Narcissistic women/men need to be in control and mention always being in control too.

They Blame everything on everyone else and never take responsibility for their actions as they always believe they are the prize and everyone should bow to them. They believe they are above the law even. AKA Gaslighting, Deny/deflect/minimize/blame/shame.

They need to be the center of attention constantly as they do not care about anyone else but themselves and their oxygen supply is attention. They need quantity over quality.

They try to hook up with people with higher social or money statuses and will go from guy to guy if they don't get what they want and they have to be the best at everything you ever had. Sex, cooking, etc. Any topic.

The best description I have heard is that they are like a 2-year-old trying to be the coolest
and richest person in the world but have no real personality they just steal other people's unique personalities. They treat people like toys, not people.
It all comes from what they daydream or fantasize about in their head.
If their fantasy doesn't come true they throw huge fits and tantrums when their "people toys" don't do what they want or say what they want.

Also, silent treatment when you misbehave or disagree with them.
Any narcissist even if they are a friend can just be a huge energy drain.

[Pinay_ako]

It's always about her.

[Anonymous]

Didn't your research tell you that?

[Asker]

Curious to know more and hear personal experiences