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Because loud and outgoing girls may not be to everyone's taste.
I have a couple theories:
1. Guys who want to ask you out immediately assume that you already have a boyfriend. The way I see it, the more attractive my crush is, the higher the chances she will already be taken. This repellent is especially effective if they see you talking to another guy
2. Super outgoing and talkative might give off a high maintenance vibe. Not true for everyone but that’s speaking from experience.
3. She might be happy just the way she is.
People are like onions, lots of layers. Just because you see someone confident on the outside you dont know whats happening inside.
Is that a Shrek reference?
No idea, never seen shrek
Alright but you just quoted Shrek almost word by word.
Great minds think alike
Some girls are perfect and yet never even get asked out directly.
No one is perfect
@Twenty2 you know what i mean, i exaggerate but essentially i know girls that are problematic, drama queens, ask for too much, and treat their men like trash if he doesn't magically guess what she wants from her "clues". I also know women who are just as attractive physically, kind, not dramatic or spoiled, and generally always nice to be around.
Guess which one gets the date? :/
The first one. Tho I want to ask, how long does the relationship lasts? Because I don't think they do.
@Twenty2 I dont know im pretty surprised myself. So far I've seen one last at least two years. Another a full year and theyre talking about engagement. That doesn't seem long right now but when you consider that its because they started when they met, i predict all these relationships have a lot more time before falling out if they do. I dont really get it lol
You see men are protectors, providers, etc. in nature. They like being dominant and like taking care for women and stuff like that. The weird ass girls give men a chance to be the dominant, protective and providers that they so much want to be. The beautiful perfect girls don't give this chance. That's why they don't get a boyfriend. And on the topic of why the relationship don't last! You see relationships are meant to be two way thing. When a girl is weird and guy tries to comfort her, she stays weird because she's getting comforted. The guy doesn't like that always and as time passes, gets bored.
Maybe she is secretly one of these...
Multiple reasons
She doesn't want one
Guys are too scared to approach her
She has an unapproachable vibe
She's looking for a specific someone
She just got out of a relationship
1. Lesbian or
2. Doesn't want one at the moment (maybe she just got out of a relationship, too busy for one, taking time for herself, etc)
Doesn’t want one at the time. Haven’t met one she wants to put time into.
The same way an outgoing guy doesn't have a girlfriend. Either bad luck or unattractiveness. Plus guys tend to care much less about a girls personality.
She has no interest in having one talk to
@Neverthesame
takes more than being outgoing to maintain a successful relationship
Not everyone needs a mate. Sometimes women like other women also maybe she's not ready to date.
Because some people dont wanna be held down or defined by a man?
seeing you describe her as loud may intimidate some guys
Hrm, let's see. "Outgoing" to someone from a distance can actually be bitchy, demanding, entitled, psycho bitchy, batshit crazy, gold-digging, and a whole host of other female traits.
Two possibilities.
1. she's a slut playing the field.
2. She is looking for that one and only spectacular man who will sweep her off her feet and she's waiting for him.
There are a lot of guys like me that are intimidated by confidence so it will look like we are trying to avoid you but you can just try and ask us out and see what we say.
She doesn't let herself become vulnerable and she may be insecure in that department.
I don’t see any correlation between being outgoing person and staying single
Because men don't want a long-term relationship with a woman that easily jumps in bed with any guy she finds attractive.