If she's not looking for a relationship it's really Nobody's Business. People need to stay out of other people's lives and stop assuming a certain type of person is going to have apartment or not. Other guys just may be intimidated by her because of her character. Girls like that often tend to know what they want and because a lot of guys are not interested in going after a girl whose firm with her beliefs, they'll still clear from her. A lot of guys will often go after naive girls who are easy to sleep with.
Lol would love to hear that saying about guys, now we must be realy cerefull not to be labelad as creaps, perfverts or rapists, of them last one is realy popular xD talking about not assuming stuff about other people and staying out of other people buisness.
Ps. I totaly agree to you, if girl seams to be perfect, she's assumed to be tacken. Knowing how man often try to pick girls up, it would not be surprise. Thought i dont agree eith going after naive girls, they are way to much hassle after it. Confident girls know what they want and are more open about there kinks.
The ones that you think that are confident it is sexually like that are the naive ones. You're actually getting it twisted. They don't want static Wick to open up their legs and then be upset when the guy is not around. They may behave confident and bold but it is all an act. And those are the ones that will put you in a bind because you did not keep your junk in your trunk.
Maybe because she doesn’t want one right now and she’s enjoying her singleness having fun with her life
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Get this... not everybody likes to be around loud people. I certainly don’t. Maybe she doesn’t want a boyfriend. Maybe she actually has a bad personality once you get to know her. Maybe she’s lesbian. Maybe she does have a boyfriend and you just don’t know about them. I don’t know your question is so vague I don’t know how you expect any sort of meaningful answer.
Because for most men that type of confidence is intimidating. Sure there could be many other reasons but Men are afraid to approach women to begin with... so this would definitely be someone they won't say Hi too.
There are many reasons why she may not have a boyfriend. If you are interested in her, don't overthink this; just go ask her. Maybe she is waiting for you to make a move!
Well with her being outgoing her goals could matter more to her like my rich friend she is a 45 year old sculpting artist. When we 1st met we spoke got to know each other. I learned she was born rich and lost her parents at a young age, she travels the U. S and the world. Even so she hasn't met that mate who likes her for her instead of for her wealth. I'll admit she is pretty beautiful for her age. All I know is maybe if she left that part out, a guy may look at her beauty and dig that more than her riches
I'll start this by saying I'm a very outgoing and maybe a little above average in the face, definitely above average body-wise.
When I didn't have a boyfriend, it was because I didn't want one. When I decided I wanted a boyfriend, it took me about 6 months to find the guy I'm with now.
Many reasons, 1. Doesn't want one 2. Haven't found anyone interesting 3. Is always seen as 'just a friend' 4. Many people assume she has a boyfriend 5. Doesn't meet too many guys 6. Lesbian 7. Can't flirt/is awkward with men 8. Likes casual flings 9. Has some sort of issue that keeps her from being in a relationship, like not reliable, lies, doesn't open up etc.
Boys are difficult to understand that’s why no matter how we analyze ourselves we will always wonder endlessly about what criteria they are looking for.
You may be a model like Gisele or an intellectual, you will always be yourself but that can intimidate them into performance anxiety in relation to your attributes.
How do you know that? I notice a trend now where woman don't want to tell other women about their boyfriends. There a lot of thirsty thots that will try or steal your man if you gloat about him too much. Maybe she does she just keeping it on the down low or she a secret in closet lesbian or hasn't found the right person yet.
These girls are all going for a reason. They don’t have anything holding them back such as a boyfriend or girlfriend or anything like that. Although they could potential he be good in a relationship it will be very difficult for them to express what they’re doing and with who because they haven’t had to do it before
"outgoing" does not necessarily mean she is desirable as a companion. I know an "outgoing" lady at church that thinks God died and told her to take over. I know another "outgoing" lady that screwed over my brother-in-law (not the good way). I know another "outgoing" lady that can't plan her way out of the driveway, going downhill, in a sled, on ice! A good "match" needs more than outgoingness.
She might not be outgoing all time. Someone might see me and think I'm outgoing when I'm around my best friends but I'm only outgoing when I'm around them. Other than I'm shy and quiet. Maybe she's the same way. Or maybe she chooses to be single.
Quite simple actually: 1) she doesn't know how to relate to a guy in that way. 2) she doesn't want a guy, cause she is having too much fun. 3) her personality is more annoying then anything else 4) she is more of a boyish boy than he is...
What difference does it make whether she's shy or outgoing? Maybe she hasn't met the right man, maybe she's not interested in dating at the moment, maybe she's recovering from a previous relationship. Any one of a number of things.
- she doesn’t want one - she has a girlfriend - she has a sugar daddy - she has std’s - she has high standards - she’s asexual - guys are afraid of her
What does her being here have to do with anything? She says she looks down on people who use this site for dating. This site isn't a dating site so I don't blame her.
Because loud and outgoing girls may not be to everyone's taste.
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Anonymous
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I have a couple theories:
1. Guys who want to ask you out immediately assume that you already have a boyfriend. The way I see it, the more attractive my crush is, the higher the chances she will already be taken. This repellent is especially effective if they see you talking to another guy
2. Super outgoing and talkative might give off a high maintenance vibe. Not true for everyone but that’s speaking from experience.
3. She might be happy just the way she is.
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1. Lesbian or 2. Doesn't want one at the moment (maybe she just got out of a relationship, too busy for one, taking time for herself, etc)
@Twenty2 you know what i mean, i exaggerate but essentially i know girls that are problematic, drama queens, ask for too much, and treat their men like trash if he doesn't magically guess what she wants from her "clues". I also know women who are just as attractive physically, kind, not dramatic or spoiled, and generally always nice to be around. Guess which one gets the date? :/
@Twenty2 I dont know im pretty surprised myself. So far I've seen one last at least two years. Another a full year and theyre talking about engagement. That doesn't seem long right now but when you consider that its because they started when they met, i predict all these relationships have a lot more time before falling out if they do. I dont really get it lol
You see men are protectors, providers, etc. in nature. They like being dominant and like taking care for women and stuff like that. The weird ass girls give men a chance to be the dominant, protective and providers that they so much want to be. The beautiful perfect girls don't give this chance. That's why they don't get a boyfriend. And on the topic of why the relationship don't last! You see relationships are meant to be two way thing. When a girl is weird and guy tries to comfort her, she stays weird because she's getting comforted. The guy doesn't like that always and as time passes, gets bored.
Multiple reasons She doesn't want one Guys are too scared to approach her She has an unapproachable vibe She's looking for a specific someone She just got out of a relationship
The same way an outgoing guy doesn't have a girlfriend. Either bad luck or unattractiveness. Plus guys tend to care much less about a girls personality.
Hrm, let's see. "Outgoing" to someone from a distance can actually be bitchy, demanding, entitled, psycho bitchy, batshit crazy, gold-digging, and a whole host of other female traits.
There are a lot of guys like me that are intimidated by confidence so it will look like we are trying to avoid you but you can just try and ask us out and see what we say.
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