He took 18 hours to reply to my text, is this a lot?

[undercoverirish]

We had started to organise plans on Thursday for Sunday night but we hadn’t confirmed the diner details.

I sent him a WhatsApp yesterday morning at 11am asking him if 7pm tonight was ok? He didn’t reply to the message until nearly 4am this morning to say yes ok!

Is that acceptable do you think?

[Sambelfast34]

He defiantly shouldn't take that long to contact you. Next time you met up don't give him anything.

[undercoverirish]

We’re meeting tonight

He was with his kids all day yesterday, I know that. And then champions league football last night - hence him responding at 3am 🤣

[blkgold33]

Is this guy your boyfriend or something? If not then he probably busy doing stuff

[undercoverirish]

No this is a second date

[blkgold33]

You worrying to much I have girls not text me for a week. Until you are actually dating him then you should be worried

[undercoverirish]

Ok so I will go make myself a coffee then and chill the fuck out 🤣

[blkgold33]

Good lol

[undercoverirish]

And I’m dating other people so it’s not like I’m pinning all my hopes on him 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’ll just treat it as a casual thing

[blkgold33]

Really you dating other people you complaining about this one guy dang you so issues

[undercoverirish]

Haha yea I know. I should chill

[blkgold33]

Yes please chill

[Anonymous]

He said it’s okay, so he’s not texting late on porpoise... he may be absent minded, or doesn’t check his phone.
You should ask for his phone number.

[undercoverirish]

I do have his phone number. That’s how we were able to text...

[Opinion Owner]

I ment talking on the phone.

[undercoverirish]

Ah ok

[SAVAGE222]

He just ignoring u. Dont want to meet u.

[undercoverirish]

But then why reply to confirm plans 🤷🏼‍♀️

[SAVAGE222]

Bkoz he wants u as back up plan.

[Razal]

well its a lot of time.

[Twenty2]

Nope! That's a lot.