Ohhh MAAANNNNNN there is absolutely NOTHING more annoying than when a guy you like and who likes you is CLEARLY ONLINE and isn't even trying to hide it by turning off his active light status or anything.. and yet, he won't respond for hours even tho he's online that whole time. Even worse is when u can see that he IS INFACT reading your messages right as u send them.. and yet still doesn't reply for hours. Its only annoyingcause it leaves you wondering WHAT THE F*CK could he POSSIBLEY be doing ONLINE for this long that is so consuming that he can READ my messages but not find a few seconds to write back? SUPER annoying, and rude. I feel u completel y. In fact, the guy i been seein for a whole yr now i finally broke up with last week and it was over this type of stupid BS that i'd kindly talk to him about having better communication THATS ALL i ask from him, i litterally do EVERYTHING else & pay for everything, give him everything. So if he can't even just do me the courtesy of not ignoring me while clearly online talking to others then he's just not puttin as much effort into making things work as I am, and a relationship should be a two way street. I've had too many ex's like that as well, so i just won't even mess with it anymore so i just ended it.
HOWEVER... l you did JUST meet this guy, so althought its just an irritating im sure, at I would try to keep ur cool with him and act like it doesn't bother you.. u guys have no commitiments to eachother right? Not dating? Not even living in the same country it sounds like! So he might be realizing that things could never really go anywhere serious, so why allow himself to dive all in or get too attached.. maybe he's a bit hesitant now that he is back home & reality is setting in. It sucks. Im sorry. Its always the good ones that are too far or married or addicted to drugs or SOMETHING! I wish i had some more advice for ya! I would if this were a guy you lived or something.. but with him being in another country, trying to treat things or look at them as if this was the start of a new relationship could just end with pain. I wish i could tell u what to say to him, but all i know is most likely what NOT to do and that is show too much concern about him not replying fast enough or being onine and not talking. I imagine it would just concern him that u might be expecting things to aotually be going somewhere when they can't. But I'd say after at least 3 or 4 weeks of him doing this it would be fair enough and warrant some kind of explanation as to why he ignores u (even if u guys were just being friends) but i just wouldn't just give it a while and not do that too quickly OR too often. I know this is totally off topic and personal and u dont have to answer, but the whole situation makes me wonder if u guys ended up having sex or not while on this vaca?
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Your relying on texting to keep this going? Lol... dont even bother. It won't work.
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