He’s been bread crumbing me, after sex. is he using me?

[Anonymous]

This guy been trying to get at me for months and we had a dateWe had sex, but he’s been texting less for days now before he would text fast and if I took long would get mad now he doesn’t. He won’t text me unless I double text him and I’m not gonna do that. he always gives me excuses saying he’s been in a complicated situation or weird” but been posting on social media, watching my stories but won’t text back? The sex was good for the most part and after he said that he can’t wait to see me again. Did he use me? Or am I overthinking? I don’t even know and he been posting a lot of stuff about babies saying he can’t wait so is that baby fever? Or he has one on the way and that’s what’s the complicated situation? I’m just confused.

[loveslongnails]

Anyone who gets angry because they don't get a text back in their time frame is an idiot and that should be a big red flag. It should also be one for yourself if you put up with it. Both of you need to grow up, and yes girl, you've been used for sex. Welcome to the real world.

[Asker]

Should I say something or just delete him and go on? I just don’t get the trying to talk to me for months finally get some pussy then start being weird lol like wtf 😭😭

[loveslongnails]

What DON'T you get about it? He talked to you for months so he COULD get your pussy. Once you gave it to him, he got what he wanted and it's time for the next one. What part don't you understand?

[spartan55]

What are you confused about? Dude's actions are painting a very clear picture. Seems you just don't want to believe it.

[Asker]

Lol I was confused if he had a baby otw or not

[spartan55]

Don't see why that would make a difference?

[Gwenhwyfar]

He used you. He wouldn’t mind banging you again but doesn’t care that much and just wants to keep his options open.

What does bread crumbing mean?

[Asker]

Basically like watching your social media , texting you alittle bit then going ghost without acting going ghost. And that’s what I’m saying but Every time I text him he keeps making excuses like I’m sorry I’m just going through something complicated , or something weird going on & I just be like okay he’ll talk about coming to get me then starts doing other stuff

[Gwenhwyfar]

I don’t trust him. You should dump him.

[boggboss]

If his intrest has gone down after sex then sex seems to be what he wanted

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking cause he been posting on social media but not texting back , but then when I text he makes it seem like he going through something

[boggboss]

Seems pretty obvious

[Asker]

Should I say something or just delete him?

[boggboss]

Upto u

[Drumlin2001]

Just sounds like a weird situation, keep yourself away from him.

[GMANN56]

Sorry, I quit trying to keep up with all the labels for people and things they do.

[Wise4myage]

Than do the same thing to him.

[GlassTop]

You made the mistake of having sex with him. Oops.

[driven159]

he got what he wanted now on to others

[steveRogers12]

He's looking for something better

[In_Trance]

yeah