Girls, Are women turned off by sensitive men?

[JamieRobinson1994]

Many women, particularly those influenced by the red pill ideology, expect men to suppress their sensitive side, viewing it as a weakness and preferring a more robotic demeanor. There's a delicate balance between emotional control and appearing emotionless. Throughout my life, I've been deeply sensitive—I cried while watching Dumbo, mourned the loss of loved ones, cherished animals immensely, and found myself easily hurt by women. In recent years, I've made a conscious effort to suppress these emotions, fearing they might repel women and diminish my perceived masculinity. During my teens and early 20s, my sensitivity often served as an excuse for why I didn't have a girlfriend, why women overlooked me, and why I avoided approaching them.

[Cutegirl06]

I love sensitive guys!! I find guys that try being macho a real turn off! Don't ever suppress your sensitive side!! Society says a guy has to show no emotion to be a man. That's such BS!! My boyfriend is very sensitive and he's not afraid to show his emotions. How do you relate to a guy that acts like a stone wall? I know I can't. Never lose your sensitive side. Guys that act all macho are the ones who are really afraid. I respect a guy who is real and not afraid of showing who he really is.

[JamieRobinson1994]

I’m naturally sensitive guy since I’m on spectrum. You’re right but apparently showing your sensitive side isn’t masculine.

[Cutegirl06]

That's what society says. It's BS

[Alayla]

I love when men are expressive! when I'm dating some one I want them to trust me with the weight on there shoulders. I find it attractive when they trust others with there sensitive side, I would never judge a man for his sorrow.

[sunflower00]

No, I much prefer sensitive men. I dislike it when they try to suppress their emotions and feelings, it can come off kind of cold and off putting.


Majority of people following the red pill ideology and pushing these sorts of things are men who have no clue what women like.

[DishLady]

It depends what you mean by sensitive.

Being a gentleman who is consistently attentive to situations around him and the needs of others is very rare and stems from a heightened mindfulness and sensitivity to the needs of those around him.

Being a guy who is willy-nilly crying at every corner... perhaps not so much.

[dreamelle]

The right woman for you will not be turned off by this and you won’t have to take away that aspect of yourself. Everyone has feelings and different ways to express them.

Personally I want a sensitive man as a partner. I’m very sensitive myself, I love animals, I’ve resented myself for feeling so much. So with a sensitive man, we would get each other hopefully and be able to support each other if he was sensitive, and be more considerate and get through things together.

[Anonymous]

Not all of us prefer robotic, “hard” men. All I can say… the right person for you won’t find YOU BEING YOURSELF as “too much”! There is nothing wrong with being sensitive in the way you described ☺️

[JamieRobinson1994]

When I around public I see so many girls in your age and even up to their 30s holding hands with those macho typed of men.

[Opinion Owner]

I know but it’s not all of us lol.. sometimes looks can be deceiving though!

[AngelLily]

Women like Men who are willing to open up about how they feel in a very intimate way but not men who whine or cry all the time while doing nothing

[bobalife]

I definitely love an emotionally mature man who is open and able to be expressive about his vulnerability

[4ngelic]

no as long as they're not crybabies

[Jennz6]

Not me, I love a sensitive man

[frabuco]

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