My boyfriend isn't the biggest fan of clubbing, parties and only drinks occasionally. His roommate and his friends asked my boyfriend to join them for a night out and theyd mostly go to a bar. My boyfriend asked me before going and told him if his heart felt like it, he should go. My boyfriend doesn't fully trust the boys but went anyways. I told him to be careful because as per him, his drunk self is tough to manage and he goes back into a player mode. He told me he wouldn't drink and i told him if he wanted to he could as long as he was careful. It also takes many drinks to even get him drunk. he reassured me the boys would take care of him. Our chatting was good till I went to bed and they were at a bar. He told em clearly he has a girlfriend (2 guys in the group already know of me) and that if he does get drunk, to take care of him. Later in the night they dragged him to a nightclub and told him that he should fuck around and no one would say a word to me. My boyfriend stopped at the second drink and then just stood in the corner the whole night while the rest tried to woo chicks but couldnt.
My boyfriend seemed a little off but finally opened up in the evening and told me what happened the night before. He also reassured me he did not fuck around and the moment such a comment was made he stopped drinking as well. While i trust my man, my ex did something similar where he said he was at a bar but ended up at a club. My boyfriend ofcourse updated me on where they went while my ex kept denying it tho i had his location. While i can't trust my bfs friends anymore and i dont feel anything as my boyfriend reassured me, some part of my suddenly starts overthinking and gets anxious on what if something happened and im deeply analyzing every move my boyfriend is making on text and social media.
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I have never and would never cheat, and from the way you explained it, I think I would have done exactly the same as him, by telling you absolutely everything that went on.
If I thought you had something to worry about? I would tell you. I honestly don't think you do!
thank you, honestly i know for a fact he would never cheat cause he does seem like a man of his ideals but my overthinking and anxiety always get ahead of me
Overthinking and anxiety attacks are terrible because you have no control over them. Well you can actually control them. Go for a run or tire yourself out with a workout. It blows the cobwebs away and gives you something better to focus on