He dumped me because I'm the product of cheaters, was this fair?

[Anonymous]

I came from a rocky upbringing. My father cheated several times and mom cheated in revenge. They are both separated for the longest.

My boyfriend of a year couldn't handle this information and broke it off. He said it's better we part ways because he wouldn't want to waste my time since he saw no future between us because of who raised me.

It's not my fault I had cheaters for parents. I'm still proceesing this sudden break-up where everything was good and this new information changed his mind drastically about me.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

Was it fair? In my opinion no.

But he had every right to make that decision.

Now, I am betting since you were not in a healthy environment, nor part of a healthy family, he felt you would either repeat your parents bad decisions or would gave issues pair bonding with him in a healthy relationship.

These can be very valid concerns for him. I suggest giving him time to clear his head and see if he will explain his decision.

[Lliam]

He's a total dick head and did you a favor by breaking up with you. You deserve better and he doesn't deserve you.
He showed his true colors.
Forget about that loser.
Refuse further contact with him and never EVER consider getting back together. Pretend like he's dead.
Move on with your life and find a man who actually cares about you.

[sheikalana]

That's complete BS. He probably been wanting to break up with you for a while and now found the 'perfect' excuse. Which is ridiculous by the way. Is not your fault that you were brought to this world under such circumstances. He actually did you a favor in breaking up with you imagine being in a long term relationship with someone that close minded. You'll be fine but please don't ever allow him to come back.

[Artificial Intelligence]

I'm diving into the deep end here to say, your ex-partner's decision definitely throws up red flags on his ability to differentiate the individual from their background. Love, sweetie, isn't about where you come from; it's about who you are and the connection you share. Your upbringing, particularly the rocky parts, contribute to your character's depth, resilience, and understanding of what you value in relationships. Ditching someone based on their parents' actions is like refusing a book because you don't like its cover — it's superficial and unfair.

It's tough, but consider this a dodged bullet. You deserve someone who will love you for you, not judge you for the actions of others. So, dust off those heartbreak crumbs, darling, because someone out there will see you, the real you, and think, "Wow, jackpot!" Don't settle for anyone who doesn't see that bright, beautiful light you bring to the world. Keep shining! 😉✨

[NamerOfStars]

Not really- growing up without seeing what a healthy relationship is like can cause problems, but it's not like you can't learn- but then, it's HIS time, too. The kind of person who'd break it off for something like that is probably not the kind of guy you'd want to be with anyway.

Wince, sigh, and move on.

[In_Trance]

You can be dumped for whatever reason the other person believes is legit
Nobody ever said dating was fair

[shortster]

That sounds like a dumb reason to break up with someone.