Is it a waste of time when someone won’t make definite plans with you?

Anonymous
Here’s the scenario: guy told me Friday but it was a “maybe” and he is supposed to tell me today.. last time he didn’t even tell me but I didn’t make plans and I did end up seeing him but that’s because I feel he didn’t have anything better to do.. it’s still early but I’m not reaching out to him. I think if he really wants to see me he would make it known... I don’t think it’s showing you value the persons time or the person if you leave it to the day before. I should have told him I need more notice so that’s my fault. I just don’t like leaving things to the last minute. Lately, unless I text him he won’t text or call.. he will call on his own but lately it’s only after I have reached out to him first. So basically I feel like his backup plan and I really don’t like it
Is it a waste of time when someone won’t make definite plans with you?
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