Why do people call a white girl racist for saying she's not sexually attracted to black guys?

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When I say I'm not interested in black guys, I don't find them sexually attractive, many people make a big deal of my dating preferences. I'm tired of hearing people say it's racist, I can't control who I'm attracted to and having a preference doesn't mean I hate black men. I'm simply not attracted to their features, it's not like I need to find a good black guy to change my mind or whatever as many claim, I think I just won't feel romantically attracted to them anyway, we can be friends but not lovers.

Do they expect me to go on a date with a black guy, have him spend all his money on me, just to respond back saying, "Sorry I was never attracted to you but just thought it was nice to say yes". Or are they going to force me to have sex with a black guy even though I'm not attracted to them? How is this racist?

EmperorOfRussia · Accepted Answer

I will tell why some people act this way with you, Asker. Just notice how people will not argue with me... Because they know I'm telling the truth about them and they can only clench their fists and cry (before they downvote me).

I will start by showing who are these people that keep trying to put you down for not liking black men and their reasons to be judgmental against you:

- Some of them are Liberals doing a "virtue signalling" display, they do it to score brownie points with minorities.
- Some are black men who think high of themselves and can't deal with women's rejection because they are just insecure guys pretending to be a sort of "god's gift to women".

- Some are losers (both women and men) who just envy you because you can afford to have dating standards. You have enough options, they don't. So they have to accept whatever dating proposal is presented to them, otherwise they will be forever alone. Then they be embittered towards you.

- Some are trashy White women who have a fetish for black men. They don't want to be the only weirdos in the world...

- Some are closeted homosexual men who have a fetish for black men, too. In these two last cases, they think they can "open your eyes" for what you are supposedly "missing out". It means, be like them and having the same fetishes, because they judge the whole world according to it. If they like something, how dare you not like, too? They don't want to feel alone in their weirdness.

You never will see these types complaining when:

- Someone is bashing White men.
- A woman says she hates White men and only dates Black guys, to the point of being a servile "Becky". According to the same people who call you racist, this is not racist for some unfathomable reason. Apparently, racism can be only one-sided...
- A woman who puts her health at risk to indulge in a "gang bang" with groups of men.

Instead, they all will praise it!

That said, do you really expect any positive insight or vibe from them? They are expected to throw negativity on you, look at how much they lack in character! Have you ever heard that failure loves company?

But don't worry, for each of those judgmental, hostile cretins, you will meet humble, good-hearted people who accept you for who you are and will stand up for you!

I'm with you! 😉🌹

sawno · Accepted Answer

Saying that is racist is equal to saying homosexuality can be cured. People simply do not choose who they are attracted to. I am very much the same.

EyeAmNiceGirl · Accepted Answer

We all like what we like. I know some white girls who will ONLY date black guys. Does that make them a racist because they won't date white guys? As for me, I like a good solid white man. not too hairy, and knows how to carry on an intelligent conversation. And when a black guy hits on me (happened a lot in college), I politely as possible say no thanks, and move along. I don't mind that they hit on me, but I get pissed when they can't take no for answer, and get all mouthy and start calling me names (ho, bitch, etc.) because I turned them down for a date. I mean, white guys never act like that when I turn them down. I never once had a white guy say "my dick is bigger than your boyfriend's dick" when I turn them down for a date. (I no longer tell guys I have a boyfriend, I simply say "It was sweet of you to ask me out, but I'm not interested."

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Forget about being PC. It's a pile of horseshit. Date who you want to. Don't offer any explanation or excuse for not dating anyone from a particular group. Don't bring it up. Don't comment on it. It's nobody's business who you date but you. Everyone in America is somewhat racist. But for someone to say to you HAVE to date someone to prove you aren't. It's absurd.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

It's not usually racist but it is a from of colorism. We already know why most people wouldn't want to date a black person and that's usually because of the color of their skin. Black or darker skin in society is seen as unattractive, bad, linked with slavery etc. It's also promoted that way in the media while lighter skin has and still is promoted around the world to be the most attractive to every race. Even black men do the same to their women cause they share the same skin tone. Anyway, you don't have to date a black guy if you don't want to, men tell women all the time shouldn't have to accept or date women they don't wan't to due to race, skintone, hight, weight, and beliefs. It is what it is.

cavmanier · Answer

In western society, there's a double standard where society and culture is pressured to silence or stop things that can be seen as offensive to groups historically seen as having hardship. So if you say you aren't attracted, the sjw police of public outcry may come for you.

"Or are they going to force me to have sex with a black guy even though I'm not attracted to them?"

Sounds like cultural rape huh.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Because in PC world, ANYTHING YOU SAY is racist!! Just ignore them!! They're assholes!! how many black guys have they dated? How many girls have your girlfriends dated? If they say, "None", call them sexist!!!

just_a_potato · Answer

That's the case for me too I'm not a white girl, though I face the same conflict. I think people just don't like having their own beliefs fought against ma'am

TheFlak38 · Answer

Because the dominant narrative says that White people suck, White people are evil and have no right to exist. As a woman you're the gatekeeper of relationship and sex, so the establishment wants to indirectly force you to hook up with black guys and become a single mother to contribute to the extinction of your race.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, but I'm glad you're not one of those white girls that find black men "interesting". Save the remaining good black men for the black woman who need and desire them.

JayParris · Answer

All it means when someone calls you names is "you're not doing what I want you to do". It's that simple.

Just like when kids tell their parents they hate them for not letting them sleep over at Becky's house.

Anonymous · Answer

And your point and reason for pointing out or wanting other to know is because?

SexyAshh · Answer

Its not racist at all. But yes you will hAve dumb people try to make it racist

Just_a_human · Answer

It's not racist. Those people are just offended for whatever reason.

Jersey2 · Answer

Tell them you have a boyfriend. Get a friend to help with that and then date anyway. It will reduce the drama.

Secret6620 · Answer

That's not racist 😇👍

Badkittymeow1 · Answer

I'm black and don't like black guys either

BengalTigress · Answer

Because they're stupid.

Tyffen · Answer

Because they're dumb af

name_is_eric · Answer

Some people lack comprehension.

Anonymous · Answer

Ignore them. You have a right to your preferences.

Anonymous · Answer

Because she's racist. Sorry if the truth is unpalatable to you.

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