I don’t understand why girls say they are anti racist but still date and prefer white men secretly. Why is that and be honest?

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You’re not really anti racist if you are dating white men out of preference secretly. Yeah, I had a crush on a coworker and come to find out she is dating a chad looking guy that has blonde hair, blue eyes and is taller. Yeah, what about being anti racist? She has Blm posts on her profile but is not really for that? What is the situation with these type of girls? Explain.
Out of all the bad things white males did in the past and still do today and you still prefer them?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

Are you racist for wanting white girls?
Are white people who prefer blacks or Asians prejudiced against whites?

Racist: a person who is prejudiced against or antagonistic toward people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.

A person can have a sexual preference and have no prejudice or ill feeling at all about other races, ethnicities, or body types.

Having a preference for a certain body type has nothing to do with racism. Everyone has preferences when it comes to physical attraction. Some prefer short/tall, thin/lean/soft/thicc, straight versus curly hair, eye color, pale versus dark skin, male/female. That's not hateful, phobic, or antagonistic, it just is what it is.

ZackBan · Accepted Answer

So are you saying she somehow owes you to go out with a black guy to balance out her white exes?

Not how attraction works budy. You need to play the game same as them that means looking good firting correctly doing all the things it takes to be intersting and even then you still might fail because people have physical types as well as intellectual ones the fact that she doesn't wish oppression upon a certain ethnic group doesn't lean she's into their physical appearance and will want to have a romantic experience with them.

I am an arabic guy, and sometimes I could be the most intersting guy in a room but my dark hair and beard will probably still turn off the girl who's into smooth faced Asians. It's just how it is, different strokes for different folks

Seinna · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry, but what things white men specifically did in the past? Every race of men did it and some are still currently doing it to this day. Slavery? Rampant in Africa, TODAY.

But to answer your question - I don't have to find you attractive to believe you deserve to be treated fairly and like a human being. You don't have to be gay to support them.

Being "anti racist" doesn't mean hating white people. That's what racism is and you are racist. So maybe that's why she won't date you because she's indeed anti racist?

soccerchick4eva · Accepted Answer

Just because they date a certain colour doesn't mean they they only like that colour or whatever.. 👀

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Tell me what kind of girl is your ideal for physical attraction.

ohshee · Answer

You could line up five hundred different women all shapes sizes colors and I would walk down the line of all 500 of them I would say Hi how are you I would Shake Your Hand how to Five Hundred there might be five let's say that I can feel their energy from I would pull them out and then I would talk to them again to get to know them a little bit deeper and if you're not what I like I'm going to walk away from them it's that simple it doesn't mean I'm a racist doesn't mean anything except I'm a picky motherfuker that's all and I would hope that just because I didn't pick somebody did they would call me a racist will it be further from the truth just because I did not take them

Rob596 · Answer

I feel like every other day, I’m always talking about race whenever I’m on here when I’m bored, lol. Just let her be, if she likes him then good for her. Focus on yourself. Be the guy you want to become. Work on your flaws. And just because some guy has comes from a group, doesn’t mean he’s apart of that group. Don’t be racist yourself by generalizing them. Heck, I made friends with some white women who are opposite in my political views (I’m a Mexican American guy), and even dated one in the past. But I like to just treat everyone the same because at the end of the day, we’re all human beings.

notwoke · Answer

Umm, this is idiotic, people can't help who they're attracted to. If a girl doesn't like bald men, that's just the way it is. If your not sexually charged by fat Asian tranny's. that's just the way it is, it doesn't make you a homophobe. I wouldn't date a black girl for no other reason that there is about a 99% chance one of the men in her family is going to have a problem with it and I don't need to complicate my life, the world is doing a good enough of that without my help. stop with the victimology already, that's was causing 99% of the "racism".

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah in your own racist mind you miss out the factor of Preference.

“You’re not really anti racist if you are dating white men out of preference”

preferring something does not make you something.

a guy that prefers the company of other guys is not gay.

a guy that prefers not drinking in gay parts of town, is not homophobic.

Not a surprise from a post by a fuckwit blue Anon racist.

noohair · Answer

Are you talking about a Black woman dating white guys? I am white and I am attracted to dark skin women. But I never considered it a racial thing. Just what I was attracted to. I would suggest that you take off the race glasses and try to give every person a chance to be who they are without judgement.

PrettyPriya · Answer

Do you have data to back this up or just the opinion?

HighValue · Answer

You are just racist and jealous. If someone hates White men so much like you do then don't use their inventions. So pretty much don't use almost anything man made that exists.

Avicenna · Answer

There are too many fallacies in what you posted to address, but your viewpoint is itself very racist.

Molly_16 · Answer

It’s a preference. people don’t k the difference of being racist and just not being into black people are and it’s sad.

Anonymous · Answer

Because anti-racist is just another hashtag to be part of the latest liberal dogma groupthink, anyone make a liberal statement on my line and they're out until they grow out of such inconceivable fallacies

FunkyMonkee · Answer

That's got NOTHING to do with racism!! That's called, "preference"!!

Anonymous · Answer

Not all girls are like that, or prefer white men...

loveslongnails · Answer

Do you actually need to DATE someone of a different race to NOT be racist? I think not.

Hulk30 · Answer

it's a hypergamous agenda if it's black women that want white supremacist men damn em and find black women who actually want good black men

Anonymous · Answer

Dating preferences =/= racism You can't expect women to date people they are not attracted to.

LegendaryIcon · Answer

aren't you the one making it about race i know lots of white women who prefer black men

jahaims · Answer

Sexual preference isn't racist

Wise4myage · Answer

Its called personal preference and its not racist.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

Race and sexual interst are different

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