Why don’t some white people like black/mixed girls?

[Prettyapathetic]

I’m curious. I know the stereotypes but what are some reasons that a white person wouldn’t like or be attracted to a black/mixed girl.

[Metallsturm]

From biological point of view? Self-preservation.

It's okay to date them, have fun with them and have sex with them, but marrying one and/or producing an offspring with them is basically genetic suicide (and also dooming a child to never fully belong to either group, not mentioning the lower IQ and increased aggression a child will inherit due to increased pigmentation as scientific research shows www.sciencedirect.com/.../S0191886912000840 ), as a child will look nothing like a guy, hence he won't be really able to relate himself to a child as much as a parent of the same race.

From social point of view? During my time in the UK (where I've spent a few years studying) I've noticed that Negroid or Mulatto females are significantly louder than their counterparts of other races (Europeoid, Asian, Middle-Eastern etc. or other mixes) and usually have a "sassiness" about them, which I've personally found to be extremely off-putting.

[Prettyapathetic]

I see your point of view and I understand. I am really quiet and I sound like a little girl which makes me feel like an outsider.

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

dude that is really obnoxious, you are generalising

[Metallsturm]

@Parkwayvwhitechapel
Whether that's obnoxious is irrelevant. That was my personal experience in your country.

[Starrk]

Stop using science to push your racist narrative. No reputable research journal has ever published an article pertaining to there being a correlation between pigmentation and aggression. That's completely idiotic and goes completely against history.

Also you know an article is full of shit when...
1) It's not peer-reviewed,
2) It's in a research journal with no credibility.
3) The in-text citation in the articles leads you back to the previous article
4) The author is an unreliable source
5) There is a shit ton of bias and inaccurate information.
6) The sources being listed are bias and inaccurate.

You can be racist all you want, but don't bring bad science/research as your backup. It makes those of us who call ourselves "scientists/researchers" look bad.

[Metallsturm]

@Starrk
"Reputable" and whatnot is subjective, really. Considering the degenerate climate western media is in currently, I highly doubt they'll post anything that isn't politically correct, since apparently feelings are more important than facts in the west. I mean, you even had degenerate feminists getting a scientists fired over a shirt he was wearing, without a single care given what he was talking about. I simply cannot imagine that happening in my country, as it's impossible.

In any case, I assume you're typical "yous raceest nigguh" screeching degenerate who gets triggered over nothing, hence your opinion to me is worth as much as your existence (which is somewhere in between from "none" to "zero"). Good day.

[Starrk]

What is considered a reputable source or not is not entirely subjective especially when we're talking about science. If you knew anything about conducting research (which I have done) then you would know that some sources are better than others. How do I know this, because they check all the boxes when it comes to reliability, validity, little to no errors, lack of bias, and on top of that being peer reviewed by some of the best minds in the profession.

Your source would never cut it in any academic setting. Not because its controversial, but because it doesn't check any of the boxes mentioned above. That so call source of yours is as credible as some regular guy stating his opinion which you are foolishly taking up as fact.

You can make all the assumptions you want about me, because at the end of the day that's all they are "assumptions". But based on what you have shown me so far, I can guarantee that you are not the sharpest tool in the shed. Go get some education little boy.

[Metallsturm]

@Starrk
"Reputable" in the west IS subjective; after all, they're basically telling ill folks that radio is indeed talking to them, instead of trying to cure mentally ill person (i. e. if a guy thinks he's a girl or vice versa, instead of curing that person they treat that person with hormone therapy and expect surrounding people to adjust to individual's in question sense of reality). They even built a pseudoscience around it, which is as legitimate as drapetomania; let alone what happened to a James Watson (person who discovered DNA).

Go on, tell me more how it's not "subjective" if it "hurts" someone's "feelings" in the west, I'll listen.

[Starrk]

I find it funny how you're preaching about us believing in pseudoscience when you were the one who was talking about Pigmentation = Aggression, IQ being racially determined and genetic suicide. Anyone with the most basic knowledge of biology or psychology or genetics could tell you why all of those things are ludicrous and objectively incorrect.

And the fact that you think research articles are determined based on if someone's feelings will be hurt is further evidence that you don't know what you're talking about. Many controversial articles have been released. The problem is that not too many people can release such articles without letting their bias/prejudice seep through which thus contaminates the entire study. If you're going to produce a controversial study, then it better be a damn good study with a shit ton of evidence and sources.

[RolandCuthbert]

Good luck with that question. Takes courage to ask that in GaG.

I can't speak for "White" people. I can only tell you about "Black" folks. As you probably know many "Black" folks are "Mixed" or could lay claim to a "Mixed" identity.

But they don't. And "Black" folks in general, can give those folks a hard time if they try to.

THAT HAS TO CHANGE!

"Black" people must evolve on that issue. We have to stop preventing people from laying claim to other cultural identities. We have to stop mocking them or trying to control their search for group acceptance.

I think we are evolving in that direction.

At least I hope so.

[Prettyapathetic]

I mean I only said some. I’m half white and half black so I’m not going feel scared lol.

[Prettyapathetic]

On yubo some white dudes would point that I was black and say rude things or remove me from the chat group because I was black

[RolandCuthbert]

It is an assessment of your politics. If you were a Trump supporter they would hold you up as a token. They would accept you into the chat, etc.

So you can win some acceptance if you are on the right side of the politics. But that acceptance will never be acceptance into their definition of the "White American" cultural identity. Of course, many "White" people can and will stretch that definition of "Whiteness" to include you.

And mam, I am quite aware of the word "some". That's why I posted Soledad O'Brien with her "White" father and "Black" mother. She is accepted among many Irish folks as being Irish.

Certainly not all. But again, we are evolving on this.

[Prettyapathetic]

I am a New Zealander and it wasn’t really the Americans saying those things but mainly the Australians and British. I would say some of the things they said but I think they are too offensive.

[RolandCuthbert]

Oh!

That's different.

I certainly cannot speak for British and Australians.

I don't know what to say to that. I know that at least some British folks would accept you. But I am quite sure that all would not. And it has to feel terrible when you meet those people.

It is unfortunate.

But you seem mature. I am sure you know why they reject you.

[Cynicaldreamer]

It really comes down to preference and tastes. Some people just prefer to date their own race.

You could even look at location as a factor. Where I'm from, interracial dating is still considered taboo. So while the interest or attraction might be there, a guy might be afraid to approach a black woman out of fear of how others will look or talk about him or her.

[Lillian33481]

Because we are black. Society has made up its mind that we are bottom of the barrel. Even Meghan Markle who hardly looks black is getting a fight from everyone.

[Prettyapathetic]

I think it’s a shame to think that even though scientists discovered that all humans have black DNA

[Lillian33481]

I know it's disappointing but I'd like to say that you're gorgeous. Don't let anyone rob you of you joy. You deserve happiness and there's someone for everyone.

[Prettyapathetic]

Thank you 😊

[OlderAndWiser]

Attraction is not something that we explain because it is not something that we consciously choose. Are you attracted to tall guys> Why aren't you attracted to short guys? Do you like guys with long hair or short hair? Attraction seems to either be determined genetically or at such an early age that we are not aware of how we became attracted to whoever.

[madhatters4]

some may be racist.
some may have a preference for something else

[JMghow]

With some it is an ascetic preference, similar to only like a certain build. However, these are likely few since that level of fetishism is rare. With others (most others, I'd say), it's racial tension. There is just too much risk of either a family member being an issue, or an issue arising if things go south. Keep in mind that for a white guy, getting called racist can result in loss of friends, family, career, and even safety. People have actually been killed for it. Hell, when I was in the military riding the bus home, I nearly got attacked by an entire bus of black people because one of them thought my buzzcut was me being a skinhead. Seriously, a haircut! Needless to say, I did not stay in the military long after that (who would risk death to defend that?). Guys mostly want simple, peaceful lives. Even if the reality is far from it, the mere idea that we'd have to walk on eggshells and face constant drama just isn't worth it. Obviously, though, this is only going to be a portion of guys. Some white guys just don't care what your race is and don't think about or aren't bothered by all the rest of that. Also, a lot of white guys just never considered that you might be interested in them. They may be fine with dating a black/mixed girl but just not realized it was an option. My advice? Don't be afraid to make the first move. Even if you don't get them, so what? You didn't have them before anyway, so nothing was lost.

[rpgkira]

Mixed girls are awesome, (white guy here) I use to date a mixed black girl with the green eye that would make me melt. I loved her how sassy she way, she put up with no ones bullshit.

But that sassy attitude could be a turn off for guys. I'm sure race has something to do with it but I don't think it's as much of a problem as it was years back but people do tend to be attracted to other people of the same "tribe" or same looks and background.

For a example. I doubt I could ever date a girl from the hood because I'm not "gangster" she would eat me alive Ahah (I say that jokingly)

but seriously any girl is good with me as long as they are respectful, a little bit can go a long way.

[OverwatchPlayer93]

You can't simply expect everyone to like you. It's not even about race most of the time. Some people will like you, some will not like you.
It's about chemistry, physical attraction and personality.
Based on my experience though, most of the white guys I know find mixed girls to be very attractive. I myself find your kind to be some of the most gorgeous girls/woman that have ever walked to Earth, but then again for most part I don't notice race as I try to focus on girl's look and personality.

[nonratracereality]

It's how you're raised. You grow up with scruples about life and everybody involved. Some accept and some don't.

[WalterRadio]

I wouldn't know. There are some BW girls that have fat butts and huge boobs that are a turn-off and some that are ghetto, but there are so many that are very pretty and pleasant.

[Prettyapathetic]

Well I am one of those girls with big boobs and a big butt. I understand your point of view.

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

i like big boobs and big butts

[Alessus]

I mean it's not like I like every white girl I've ever seen either. Personally I see attraction on an individual level, if I find a mixed girl attractive, then I find that particular girl attractive regardless of her ethnicity.

[Berethor]

Well it's a totally legit question, after Meghan's wedding to Harry.

[Prettyapathetic]

I said some like the ones on this app yubo who are rude or dismissive

[Prettyapathetic]

Plus Meghan looks pretty white with a pinch of black

[Berethor]

You said both black and mixed so it didn't matter, and her mother look white too?

[Prettyapathetic]

Don’t you know what I mean? I look black so I come across some people who don’t like me because of that one thing compared to other mixed people who look more white. I mean the majority do look mixed or black but like Wentworth Miller some look white.

[Berethor]

Doria Ragland is black, and yet she find a white man who find her attractive, and she was also accepted by Harry's family, as she was in the wedding of Meghan. You saying that girls who look more white seen as more attractive, and at the same time you say that you mixed, something that make you more white than fully black girls. Everything is relative, and there are black girls who was able to get a white guy, in any case I find it odd that you complain about it, in a era when there is a partly black girl in the British royal family, while you acting as if it's almost impossible for a black woman to attract a white man.

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

I don't see why they wouldn't like black or mixed girls. there are ones out there that are beautiful

[ATuairiscean]

People have their preferences - I don't think it is malicious by the way I think black/mixed girls can be beautiful

[AynonOMouse]

I would bet that even if some were attracted to them, most still wouldn't want to date one because of all the race BS they would have to deal with from her family.

[PetrovaFire92]

My twin sister is dating a white redheaded guy... I like vwhite guys lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm attracted to all mix girls it makes no difference to me
I think some people just have issues that we have to overlook.

[PetrovaFire92]

True. This guy I like is not attracted to any black girls... but I like him so much lol. He says I'm the only exception Though LOL 🤣 🤔

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@PetrovaFire92 Awe sorry about that yeah you meet all types of people. Makes you wonder sometimes LOL

[PetrovaFire92]

Lol 🤣 yeah he needs to broaden his Horizon a little bit. if you ask me.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@PetrovaFire92 Yes i agree with you :/

[QuietRunner]

For me it isn't a problem. I judge the Individual for beauty and the time I could spend with her. Some girls are just sexier than others.

Some may not like a mixed girl because of the family prejudice too

[Surely]

Color should only be skin deep. It is what is between the ears that matter. Still not totally accepted in all parts of the country..

[Browneye57]

Quit making racist comments. Or you'll get the boot.

[Prettyapathetic]

I’m half white though

[Browneye57]

How does that change anything? There will always be people that don't like others for some reason - it's just not all about race. Why do you keep trying to make it so? Just. Stop. It.

[Prettyapathetic]

On this app yubo some white people made the most offensive statements I’ve ever heard and talked about me being black . Yes, there were kind white people but I’m just wondering what is the cause. Especially since when I was a little girl in New Zealand... a group of white kids tried to beat me up.

[Browneye57]

It's just all about YOU isn't it?
Egads.

Bye...

[Prettyapathetic]

No it isn’t because there are other black and mixed people in the world who have experienced similar.
I guess you are having a bad day.

[Volb3at]

Because some guys are blind? Even shallow guys can see beauty in a girl, regardless of their race.

[Anonymous]

Why don’t some black people like white/mixed girls?

[Prettyapathetic]

Probably because of the way they feel about themselves or the media

[Opinion Owner]

True. The liberal media doesn't allow that.

[Anonymous]

Is this really a question to be asking? on here at least? lol

[Prettyapathetic]

I mean it is GirlsAskGuys

[Opinion Owner]

also also, this is the first time i hear this.

If anything, light skin, and mixed black people actually get a pass and are preferred more over dark skin/full blood black

[Prettyapathetic]

I meant why don’t some like mixed or full black because they are sort of different but usually considered the same

[Opinion Owner]

Well, its just how people are. There just are some really terrible people on this planet. There still some really racist people on this planet.

I had a follower on twitter who constantly said negative thing about black people.

She would make comments such as" you people are ridiculous, you have no creativity and such, referring to black people of course". Then she would also compare her race, to black people saying: look at us, look how we are doing better than you, was a comment she made on a picture she retweeted of a group of kids (white) that just graduated.

I instantly blocked her cos i don`t need that type of shit on my TL.

And the bigger problem is that they are sooo comfortable with the racist shit they do and say

But there are just bad people in general. This is not only a issue with the minority of white people. This hatred is even within the black community

[Anonymous]

White guys prefer black women.
Black men prefer mixed women...

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

they're insane, have you seen napkweenninteyfive she's hot as fuck

[Parkwayvwhitechapel]

Maybe they only like the paler black/white mixed girls. But me personally i love mixed raced girls

[SilverRain92]

I like black and mixed girls, but there are few of them here

[TacoFamine]

Just not attracted to them like how some black girls don't like white guys.

[Anonymous]

Because their typical features and characteristics aren't as attractive.

[YourMomIsCool]

To white people you mean

[YourMomIsCool]

Cause I know black people are beautiful

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, because that was the context of the question.

Okay, if that's how you feel.

[Anonymous]

A lot of White people don't like the ethnic girls' attitudes.

[PetrovaFire92]

I'm sweet 😮😞 an a guy still talks to me even though I'm black an he's white an isn't attracted to black girls...🤔 Except me... or some shit like that.. lol oh well.

[Opinion Owner]

All of this is just generalizations! I'm sure you are very sweet.

[PetrovaFire92]

I am 🤗😇❤️

[Logorithim]

Most seem to like them, as far as I can tell.

[catmandoes]

People have different tastes

[Anonymous]

Usually racists if they do not like all of them.

[GreatnessBack]

Because you they don’t turn them on. That’s all.

[ItalianGuy77]

I think mixed girls are mostly always hot