Why do most races not like black girls?

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I'm attracted to any race/ gender. I see no need to judge someone for something so feeble. but a lot if the times when I'm attracted to a guy it's usually a white guy and I've noticed, not just in my situations but in general that they're not really into black girls? why is that? not just for whites I'm talking all races, why are black girls the least desirable? it really gets to me, and sometimes I think " I don't want to end up having kids because I don't want them to feel unwanted if someone rejects them because if their skin, or a stereotype."
a lot of people say " black girls are loud, annoying, obnoxious, ghetto"
I'm black and Spanish and u was raised with the Spanish side of my family, I'm very quiet, I'm more " alternative/grunge" so I don't really fall into the " ghetto " stereotype. so why don't most races like us?

theDailyDazzle · Accepted Answer

This is horrible And i dont know if it is true because i have never been with either but maybe it is about the genitals. So you know how lots af white guys go around saying they like asains because the genitals are smaller? Because Asain men are on the smaller side and so asain ladies were created to fit with asain men. So because black men have a reputation of having the largest penis maybe they think a black woman will be larger inside. Woody Harrelson used to be with Whoopi Goldberg and he once said after they broke up it was like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. Because i have heard men speak this way about Asain ladies, everytime i see a white guy who seems preoccupied with getting with asain ladies only I feel sorry for him cause i know he has a little mushroom in his pants. My husband is a well hung white man who has no obsession with asains. In Fact there are many black women on Tv that he comments an their beauty... his older brother who has a little mushroom in his pantsGot married to a Filipino nightmare of a wife but he has confided that her smaller body has benefit him and he does not want to be with white women anymore. So maybe for some it all comes down to lack of size and sexual confidence.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've seen this question a lot lately and personally I don't experience this.
I'm full black and liked by many races. I've got guys from hispanic backgrounds, Asian backgrounds, european backgrounds and black backgrounds who like me. I'm not ghetto or loud or obnoxious. Mainly outgoing but silent. I don't know if maybe it's just because of the area I live in or what but I don't understand why black girls are being left in the shade. Girl, just don't be ashamed of what you are because of those who aren't noticing you because of the color of your skin. Be proud and teach your children the same. Racial issues are always gonna be there but bae, I promise you some classy guys are gonna fall for you. Keep you head up high princess x

mutedaisy · Accepted Answer

You might find some answers if you check out previous questions.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

* Because Blacks tend to be poorer than average women.
* Because the beauty industry is controlled by White ideas of looks/beauty.
* Because we all are just time servers.

If the Blacks controlled some of the powerful empires of the globe (I don't mean token leadership, as in the case of an articulate Obama), then we would have probably been falling at the feet of Black women! Not White...

As for me, I was pretty happy to note that I'm not a racist, definitely not in bed. I find Black women very attractive... in their own way. Once we decolonise our mind, and don't hold out White-as-the-norm, African, Ethiopian, Black Latina and other women of colour are very charming. What's best about them is that they really treat you like a man, and make you feel ten feet tall!
PS: Must admit that I have a bias against all American women, regardless of race. Perhaps that's because they are all a bit too 'outspoken' and unwomanly (in a gendered sense).
PPS: Another thing about Black women -- I like how they wear their sexuality. They're seldom apologetic about it!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because black women believe that being aggressive and acting like men makes them "strong women" but no guys wants someone who is in your face and will get you put in jail for nothing.
And although there is obviously some black women out there who are not ghetto, there are a bigger percent that are.

rjroy3 · Answer

Because a lot of people have this idea that actually is kind of racist and don't even realize it. They aren't attracted to girls who act like they are from the ghetto. And they define acting ghetto and being black as the same thing. Therefore if you are well spoken you're not black, because you don't "act black" as if being black is a way of life as opposed to your ethnicity like it would be for other races. It's an ignorance in cultural diversity.
It's a very silly point of view, but a lot of people, even those who aren't necessarily racist have that view.

MrLi0n · Answer

I'm a black guy and the only thing I've disliked about my own color in females is that a lot of them are very quick to get loud and physical instead of talking things out like couples should do. As a guy I can't hit her because my freedom will be gone and after soo many times it's gonna be one day where you just can't walk away so I don't even put myself in those positions. Real talk but I know a few black women that I've seen on tv that I would make them have my baby if I could lol...

baarkmann · Answer

I think that many white men are turned off by the fact that a black woman may have larger hips, ass and better body than white girls.

or maybe they don't like fuller lips, soft hair and darker skin.
its not that they're racist, they just prefer to have their own colour i think.

I actually dislike white girls that are too pale, because it's not like my own skin

kheserthorpe · Answer

I'm not sure. I think some guys just only like girls of their own background. I think some feel like they're not hard enough or athletic enough for most black girls tastes so then black girls aren't on their radar at all.

A fair number of black girls really aren't interested in white guys.

I didn't really get any interest from black women till I was at least mid 20s and then by mid 30s noticed more again. And I notice more attractive black women around now.

I suspect I was just subconsciously filtering them out because I couldn't 'see' it happening?

HikerDude · Answer

Most white guys think black girls don't like us and that they think we're kind of a joke. Most black girls say that we're "too white," i. e. we're not cool enough, or hard enough, or masculine enough for them. I think more white guys would be open to dating black girls if there weren't so much animosity between the two groups. People like people who like them.

CreepyOldMan · Answer

There's something around 10 of these questions every day. I'm trying to eat my cookies and milk before bed in my comfortable pajamas and houseshoes. This question is getting annoying and not making my belly jiggle with chuckles.

You people are supposed to be entertaining.

Anonymous · Answer

i have black friends but i can see both sides.

black people make up 70 percent of the prison in america... i can't think of one country run by black people that are prosperous, they always kill each other... in ferguson, 80 percent of gun crimes/murders are black... everyone I've known had a bad experience with them... they dont stick together... their mentality is oftne petty and childlike not undersatnding destructive emotions and way of thinking...

many reasons. its not just skin color or people who discriminate them. they need to do well and change the image they have in society

yes there's plenty of good educated blacks so dont even go there

SomeoneImportant · Answer

This explains it to a certain degree, he's discussing a different topic (also only comparing white and black women), but it's all relevant.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

I just got hit on by a white guy yesterday. I nicely brushed him off tho, but the point was that he is white, I am black and he showed interest. I just don't understand why some black people live and die based on the opinions of other races. why not just date your own kind and be happy with another black person?

doireallyneedone · Answer

It's NOT to do with skin color or the fact that you are black. It's to do with the fact that most black women are taller and more muscular than most white, Asian women and therefore exhibit (relatively) less feminine physical traits than white/asian women. That is the reason period.

If you had a sexy black girl, who was petite and feminine. She will be well received by all men. Unfortunately on average, black women tend to be heavier and larger than most white/asian women.

USMC-Crossroads · Answer

Look into the 'Golden Mean Ratio.' The truth is in there somewhere. Personally, I like petite girls with small, white features. Asian features are also just as sexy. But wide noses, big lips, coarse hair, and the typical 'over-confident, loud, black-girl' attitude is sickening. Asians, on the other hand, are generally more polite, disciplined, and respectful. Sure, its probably cultural more than genetic... but it doesn't change the fact - a turn-off is a turn-off.

PrincessWooo · Answer

I'm white, and I think black girls are beautiful. I know a hell of a lot of white/arabic/asian/etc men who think so too.
One thing I notice though is that light skinned black girls get attention. When was the last time you saw a dark skinned black girl casted as the beautiful girl in a movie? Or in a magazine, or in p*rn? Dark skinned black girls have it worse than any skin color I think, but they're just as beautiful in my opinion.

mistninja314 · Answer

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RationalMale · Answer

Well, why not date black guys instead of chasing white guys? Most men, black men aside, prefer very much to date in their own race. Asian women in American also marry white men at a high rate for the tiny number of Asians in the USA, but beside that... most people just date their own race.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think that skin color is a small thing. It's a physical characteristic and a big one at that. It's fine if you are attracted to any skin color, but it may not be the case for the next person. You might care more about a strong jawline or something while the next girl won't. Does that make sense?
That being said, I have been attracted to various races. At one time, I preferred them, but you quickly realize that as a white guy (and a fairly nerdy one at that) that's a pretty lonely path to take. I moved on luckily.

Dansexual · Answer

It has nothing to do with personality, but more looks, I generally am not attracted to black women, but i am a few, I actually have a  friends with benefits  atm that is black, she is awesome :) huge tits and she sucks dick really really good

meatballs21 · Answer

It's not a question of race, it's a question of attitude and personality. For many black girls, they think that being aggressive, violent and obnoxious is desirable.

Anonymous · Answer

Judging Someone By Color Or Race Has Nothing To Do With Who You Are Attracted To.
I Am Only Attracted To White Women, Some Will Say That Is Racist.
But When My Black Friends Say They Are Only Attracted To Blacks No One Cares.
Reverse Racism Is Alive And Well In Our Country!

AnissiaXO · Answer

Hmm I see it as how many black girls carry themselves that turns off a guy. A bad bitter attitude is unattractive to all men.

babu_001 · Answer

p*rn brainwashing.

p*rn industry is dominated by white girls.

Every men watch p*rn & fantasize about it.
So every men fantasize about the white girls they see on p*rn .

Result : They crave white girls.

abundantlyrich · Answer

They are afraid you got brothers that might come after them if things get sour between you and him.

cjmtherfcker · Answer

Personally I'm not attracted to anyone from an inner city. More so because of culture than race. There are beautiful people everywere

apexalpha · Answer

because of media condition people on what is beauty so people don`t have their own formulated opinions on what is beautiful

Klaatu51 · Answer

because rcists are still around unfortunately

Anonymous · Answer

They find the skin color, black facial features unattractive.

DisastrousQu33n · Answer

There are ugly and pretty people in all races.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't worry hun. It's the same thing with indian and Asian guys

TheGuyFromMiddleEast · Answer

Same question, third time today. What's going on?

Anonymous · Answer

I've no problem with them, just don't prefer them

Anonymous · Answer

Stereotyping.

Dont_Judge_Me · Answer

The stereotypes. Or it could be just preference.

Anonymous · Answer

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