That is unambiguously racist, yes. Race doesn't exist on any biological level so it's not like you can have a race sexuality.
Personal racism isn't nearly as important as institutional racism, however.
Uh, yeah, no. Try reading the science.
I have. And any unbiased scientist or doctor will tell you that there are biological differences. And its weird that you'd say otherwise because you can literally see them. Do you think skin tone is not biological? Do you think the way Asian people's eyes develop is not biological?
Yeah, phenotypes are not race, grow a dick.
Yes she is being rascist
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Now someone's racist for who they find attractive and who they don't... OMG can we just quit with this shit already🤦🙄
No doubt.
Well, if she truly believes in the nonsensical concept of race, maybe.
But how about this? Why can't a "White" American person be attracted to other "White" American people? Especially since "White" American Culture is its own thing.
Or if it is just about physical attractiveness, maybe she doesn't like brown skin. How can it be racist to be attracted to physical attributes? There are plenty of "Black" folks who look "White". There are plenty of Latinos and Asians also. If she would date those men too, because they pass the physical attractiveness standard, how on earth could she be racist?
People forget just how nonsensical race is. Racists can't even define what it means to them. They usually just resort to claiming it is common sense. They can't define it using science, heritage or skin color. They talk about concepts like bi-racial or quad-racial. Just like these concepts are real.
Leading to the weirdness of claiming that someone like Blake Griffin is a member of another race.
Remember Nikki Glaser said she would fuck Blake in front of her grandparents. But she is probably not attracted to dark skinned men.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/LwpoyagJ_3Q
Your question is a highly racist question, everyone has their preferences and reasons. One could have no issues with another race but merely not want to date outside of their race or as I call it culture.
It could be many reasons, she may have family that will disown her and can't lose her family. She may no issue with skin color but not like other cultures from past experience that seem strange and odd to her.
Just let it go and move on, blowing it up like this is what makes you the racist.
There was a time I didn't date white guys (I'm not white) so by your logic that made me racist, I just found them all boring and bland like the same old same old. Nothing against them, just wanted more experience with other cultures and races.
Itās not a Fāing preference, itās a REQUIREMENT. An preference is like me choosing between burgers and hot wing I like both but prefer a nice burger.
By the way it is 2021 and her family would get wrecked for being racist POS!
Not wanting to date someone of x race is not a preference it is a requirement. Quit calling it a preference!
Would it be okay for you if she dates a black man and see him from eyes of criticism every day? Well it is not her fault. She have grown up that way only and her mentality became like that. If you want to change this then change the lifestyle of people. And everyone have preferences. Whatever in end only love from heart remains alive. Some like white and some like black. It is not racist unless she starts to criticize that race. If she is only having it as a preference then nothing is wrong. She can't control whom she finds attractive.
I donāt find guys outside my race attractive either and Iām not White. I only find Indian subcontinent guys attractive because Iām also Indian and I sometimes like Afghans/Persians because they look like some of us as we are a diverse bunch. I think people like what they find familiar and the great majority of people stick with their own type of people.
That's called a preferrence, it's not racist.
If said she "I don't date people outside of my race because other races are inferior," then it'd be racist. Or if she said "I don't date people outside of my race because people outside of my race are ni****s, ch***s, and sp**s," then it'd be racist.
Saying she's racist for not being attracted to people outside of her race is like saying you're hair-ist for not being attracted to people without brown hair. It's a preference. Now her attractive could be based on racist notions, but you'd be merely assuming. Based on what you're saying she said, it is not racist.
Oh for god's sake, it's a personal preference! Like not wanting to date someone who is a certain age, or unemployed, or lazy, or who watches too much sport on TV, or smokes cigarettes, or gets drunk a lot.
"Anybody who says otherwise is racist as well".
Really? Screw you!
"Prove me wrong"
I just did.
Itās a preference to hate melanin?
She never said that she hated it she said that she isn't attracted to it there is a difference. Having preferences on what you are attracted to isn't necessarily racist. Just like not being attracted to old men isn't agest, and not being attracted to someone of the same sex isn't homophobic.
Not racist. Just closed-minded and discriminatory. But racism requires actual malice or superiority over other races. And yeah, I've met PLENTY of closed-minded women like that, before. I don't like them either, but saying that deludes what actual racism is. It'd be like calling me "homophobic" because I'm a straight man and don't ever want to date or sleep with other men.
Having a preference on what you find attractive is normal. Like saying I only date people with brown hair, or only people who are over 5'10". Is it personal preference on what you find physically attractive. Would you ant to date someone who isn't physically attracted to you?
No absolutely not, it means she is quite simply voicing her own personal preference, which all of us have the right to do.
It not a preference it is a requirement. You got to be white is a requirement. I have a preference for light skin girls but donāt dismiss dating darker skin girls, this is a preference, because I am willing to date outside of what I like more.
Prejudice maybe. I don't and won't ever understand people who say they aren't attracted to an entire group of people. Preference is an overused word when it comes to this topic. Especially since most times the reasons people give for having said preference are negative AF. I can't care about people like that anymore. If they wanna limit themselves to dating one group of people, that's on them.
Yea, girls like that are on the line. It's not racist but ignorant as fuck. But in that moment it's all about goals. Like do I really care about this chick and her ignorant ass? No. Anything I could say she would even take seriously or comprehend? No
Like as far as her intent. It was at best dumb
It's one of those close but no cigar moments lol. It's not racist but damn girl. But in all seriousness I've slept with girls who didn't like black guys and after sex said as much.
That she wasn't even sure why she did but something felt different about me. Attraction is a weird thing. You don't control it. So saying you're not attracted to something is at worst agnostic
Those are two separate things. There is no law that says you must date/marry outside your race. Nor does taking a partner in your own indicate a bias. You can have a partner from another race and still be a racist. Racism tends to involve hating a particular group, rather than everyone not like you.
i mean u can't choose who youāre attracted to and you dont have to find everyone attractive at the end i think its her lost tho
Do you prefer black guys?
Can I dm u
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No because attraction is not a choice. It would be different if she said another race was undateable because of X characteristics or stereotypes, but if itās just an attraction thing then I wouldnāt call it racist
I don't like what she said but she's allowed to say it. If she said "Guys outside of my race are unattractive" then THAT would be racist. But she said "I don't find guys outside my race attractive" so it's just her personal preference not a statement about races in general.
She may be, but her dating preference doesn't necessarily indicate that. People can date whoever they please (who is willing to date them, obviously). There is no reason preferring the look of a certain race is any more nefarious than preferring bald men or people without glasses.
Sheās not racist but you are in fact stupid for calling her so. (Iām black by the way) yāall need to stop using the race card people are sick of it.
Maybe she's racist, and maybe she's not but if she doesn't get a lady boner for black guys then let it go.
She may be racist but if she is it is not because she only like white guys. That is her preference and her choice. No one can force someone else to like them for any reason.
why else do you think she is racist beside that she only likes white guys?
Thatās not a preference! That is a requirement!!!
No she is not racist. Everyone is allowed to choose what their preferences are for dating, marrying, or even friends. It's just racist in your mind.
She likes what she likes. I rather people be honest then date just to try to like something they know they don't. They hurt others when they do that!
She feels what she feels. If sheās not attracted she just isnāt. Thatās not racist. She didnāt say that men of other races are unattractive, just that sheās not attracted.
I donāt think itās racist. She just has a preference. I think itās unfair to generalize an entire race though.
Nope. Maybe you should work on your English.
Racism: The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.
No she can choose what she likes. Some people like one type a few years then a different type later.
If this girl is rude to people only because of their race, yes she's racist. But in this case she was just having a dating preference. It's her choice whom to date anyway
No it's not racist. It's common for people to want to date someone of the same race.
Not racist at all , everyone has their own preferences on what they like and what they are into so No she isnāt racist
Let me guess
you are black guy , labeling every white girl racist!
Most of yāall are racist but not every and all
Your question makes you racist
You call me racist but not this white girl that called all non white men ugly?
Yup.
Do you see anything wrong with what she said?
Yes and no.
Explain
Her opinions are personal and not malicious. Wouldn't be racist with the races swapped either.
Who cares bro. Youāre acting like white girls are the only option. Stop c00ning and labeling white people as superior in the dating world. Youāre probably An insecure black fool
This is a preference, not racism. I am not attracted to black women romantically, but I like them as friends a lot andI appreciate the things about them I am attracted to. I don't think this makes me a racist.
āProve me wrongā = I hate myself and I want to yell at random people until I feel better about hating myself.
Everyone accepts things that are similar to themselves more quickly. Psychology also tells us that we find people similar to ourselves more attractive.
No anyone who says yes has contracted terminal liberalism but luckily uncle buck has a shot for that, cures liberals really good and permanently to boot
I have leftist and I find this incorrect. I will say this does have it roots in racism.
Whoa. Someone sounds like a butthurt black guy.
Just find yourself some white girls that virtue signal and support BLM
Per your update, you can go and f yourself.
Nobody cares about your whining
Why is it racist when a girl doesn't want to date a black guy but okay when they don't want to date a white guy?
Both are racist.
Polemical... hahahaha
I agree it's racist. But I guess it's common in the USA.
Sheās not racist. If I said I only wanted to date black women it would makes sense because Iām black also. Canāt call someone racist for wanting to stay within their race.
Being prejudice against dating x race is racist. You are judging based on race.
No, but lots of liberals will call you a racist. Its just what you prefer.
Why is preference racist to you?
We was just talking and I asked her for her number and got personal and asked her why she wouldnāt give a chance and she said that shit
Well at least she was honest to you. You are better off just moving on than making a big deal about it
What I donāt understand is her friends were saying sheās not racist when I called her that
Well her saying that she only dates within her race, isnāt racist. She didnāt say anything bad about your race personally.
Answer me one question. Did you vote for trump? Because you look low key racist too
I actually didnāt vote at all lol. Itās great that you throw around the word racism so loosely. Or are people just racist when they donāt agree with you?
But you look like a Republican low key though
I donāt understand how looks make you one side or the other. š¤·š»āāļø donāt know how being a republican or a democrat makes or breaks you being a racist.
If you are butt hurt that you got rejected, just say that though. Someone else will come along.
You donāt know how being Republican makes you racist? You for real?
If you think every person on each side has the same thought process, then thatās on you. Many republicans donāt even like trump, others know he has personal issues, and some adore him. That doesnāt make one side completely racist, but I can see why this girl isnāt into you. Immature with ignorance
Did you not read my post? I was denied based on race
And that is called a preference , just like thereās white girls that prefer black guys out here š¤·š»āāļø
And your reasoning on many things is immature.
She basically called any other guy that wasnāt white ugly
And thatās her preference š¤·š»āāļø you can either choose to let it bother you or move on and find someone that enjoys the way you look
That not a fāing preference it is a requirement. G
@Assessino13 is preference not a requirement? So if I donāt prefer a guy with a criminal background isnāt that my requirement?
And another question does this post make this guy racist to his own race? Yes it does. He has so many black women that would probably date him, but prefers white women š¤·š»āāļø according to his post, he must be racist to his own race then
Noo kylee, an preference is when you have like 2 options that you like, for example I like burgers but I also like hotwings. However I like burgers more so I prefer burgers over wings. An preference is to let X be a option not completely dismissing the choice.
How is judging someone based on race not racist?
Lmaoo on how you try to turn things around.
You could just say why donāt you stick to your own. š
@asker having a preference is not judging. And if thatās the case, I have been judged by an old black lady assuming I dated an old black guy friend of mine. She didnāt like the fact that she thought I was dating someone black. So is that racist to you? Probably not
@assesino13 well arenāt you a retard not understanding the double standard Iām pointing out.
@asker so how does your preference of white women not make you racist to your own race according to your explanation
My ancestors died for me to have interracial sex and relationships with white women. This is 2021 not 1952.
Your ancestors have nothing to do with your double standards on dating and I am sure they would be disappointed you prefer white women anyways. So whereās your explanation on you double standard? Or do you just want to agree that according to your own explanation, you are a racist š¤·š»āāļø thank you for coming to my Ted talk.
Your double standards *
Answer me one question if you prefer black or white men?
Why does my preference matter to you? We are talking about your preference to white women, meanwhile you are upset that a white woman rejected you because she prefers her own race. Yet you are upset that she has a preference and so do you. Make it make sense z
Because you took the side of a racist over mine. I already explained this to you and now Iām tryna figure out if you are racist too
What makes you not a racist in this situation according to your explanation? You donāt even prefer your own race. Again, I can see why that girl stayed far away from you, you are immature, and donāt deserve to date anyone. Iām sure women stay away from you like the plague
If I ever see you in real life, I will charm you, make you fall in love, get you pregnant and then leave.
Nah Iām good, my boyfriend Charms me a perfectly fine āŗļø
You havenāt seen me yet. I could easily take you away
Yeah lmao okay. You called me a racist, but interesting you want to date every woman you consider āracistā
Also @assessino13 I prefer hamburgers over hot dogs. I simply wonāt eat hot dogs because I donāt eat pork, so your explanation about burgers and wings is a dumb explanation
I bet your boyfriend is black
@asker my boyfriends race shouldnāt matter to you š¤·š»āāļø
It may have more to do with values than skin colour.
Maybe you should prove your claim first. Most people would say that is just her preference.
I am attracted to women and it has nothing to do with the skin color.
Anyone has preferences and anyone has the right to stick to it.
Someone sounds insecure and petty.
Did someone get turned down by a white girl?
Thatās exactly what happened if you read his comments š
@WhiteBoyChill
people are people.
my first two wives were black.
just listen to this guy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dU03Y-9NkbE
You slimy POS.
The Asian girl, a Black girl, a Latina... all said this girl you reference is NOT racist in their opinion. As soon as a girl said "I'm not racist, I prefer black men" you're trying to hook up.
Fuq you.
You are a race Bater. No need to prove you wrong you prove yourself wrong with your attitude
No everyone has a right to preference
You're a fucking idiot.
Why?
You find racism in everything. Get over yourself. You're a loser. Deal with it.
Whatās wrong with non white guys?
Did I say anything was wrong with non-white guys?
You on her side so yes
No, I said YOU are an idiot because you cry "RACISM" every time someone says something you disagree with. What she finds attractive is up to her. She doesn't want to date them. Doesn't mean she hates them and wants them to die. I don't find red headed people attractive. That doesn't mean I want them all to die. Just get over it. Move the fuck on.
Well, this girl was my coworker and I was starting to like her but then she says some racist shit like this? All you white girls are the same and will only date a black guy if heās over 6ft and has more European features than African in him.
Ok, again, THAT DOESN'T MEAN SHE'S RACIST you stupid fuck. In all likelihood she doesn't find YOU attractive (probably because your IQ is smaller than your dick size) but didn't want to hurt your feelings so she just said she isn't attracted to black men in general. But if Shemar Moore asked her out you better believe she would bend over for him.
You need to learn to read. Do you even know definition of what racism even is? Or you just taking her side because sheās white?
Stop being a fucking idiot.
The definition of racism is someone who judges based on skin color. Isnāt that what this girl is doing?
No. The definition of racism is one who wants people of other races to suffer. That's NOT what she is doing. She is not trying to get you fired or killed because you're black. That would be racist.
You are both right and wrong. That is racism as well but choosing not to date someone because they are black is racist too
No. It. Is. Not.
Big fucking deal. So somebody doesn't like you.
No thatās not racist at all thatās a preference
blacks are racist too but whites are more racist
Dating preferences don't mean u r racist.
It isnāt a preference. A preference is like you willing to date any race not only picking your own, that is called a requirement. I have a preference for light skin girl but wonāt dismiss dating darker skin gals.
stfu.
š„šš½š
Yaaaaawn.
Its also preference
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