Are you an incel / femcel?

[Anonymous]

"incel" is a guy who can't get sex from women he finds acceptable (escorts don't count)

Women of course can't be "incels", because ALL can get laid on Tinder.

However, a "femcel" is a woman who can't find a RELATIONSHIP with a guy she finds acceptable, according to r/trufemcels (sic)

So it's not a question of ugliness per se, but of being too ugly to people you find acceptable yourself.

Yes

No

[ObscuredBeyond]

Nope. I'm a guy who is taking a break from relationships because my health has deteriorated and because bad luck seems to follow me and the girl everywhere we go. I'd rather not date again until I'm stable, or find some gal who is and can tolerate my luck. I also have high standards for intelligence from a woman. If she's a blithering idiot, hair trigger outraged feminazi, etc., I have little patience for that. I want a healthy home life; not slashed tires and anxiety.

Why date, if I only seem to attract crazy-in-a-very-bad-way?

No point being bitter about it that much. I don't get mad at "you're not my type." I do, however, get mad at backbiters.

[Asker]

"I only seem to attract crazy-in-a-very-bad-way" -- if you only attract women you don't find acceptable, this falls under the definition of an incel, I think.

[ObscuredBeyond]

When I do find her acceptable, something bad happens to her, and I can't do anything about it. I'm jinxed.

[PrudentGuy]

Guy here.

Incel is defined as "involuntary celibate".

And I think I'll limit myself to that definition.

This means any gender who desired sex but could not get it is an incel.

With this definition, I'm not. (Sorry I don't accept the additional details from your details, nothing personal).

[PondyPand]

Not a femcel. Also, plenty of women can't get laid.

[Anonymous]

I am not an incel. I've had sex with more than a few women and am now married.

That said, Femcel is synonymous with feminist, and there are a lot of feminists on GAG.

[Asker]

That's not how r/trufemcels define it, and they are probably the biggest "femcel" community (only one I know of)

[Anonymous]

Oh god... what new demonic abomination has the internet brought forth.

[whitehide]

No, I'm not an incel. A woman founded the incel movement, by the way.

[name_is_eric]

Incel is an incel, "involuntary celibate". There's no " femsel", they're incels too.

[Reapous]

Nah. I'm no where near being one.

[Zerstörer]

I am not an incel as far as im aware

[Cammy137]

Absolutely not

[CocoBat]

OwO OwO OwO

[bangyourhead]

I am not an incel.