I am an attractive person with a ugly vagina. I’m ashamed to date. Do I still have a chance to find a decent guy who looks further than my vagina?

[Anonymous]

I have an ugly vagina. My vagina actually looks flat out weird and disfigured. Do I still have a chance to find a guy who will look further than my vagina? I’m a decently attractive person otherwise.

[SueShe]

Ugliness is very subjective attribute that people give.

To you, your vagina seems ugly because of whatever reason or comparison you make.

Some girls have naturally protruding labia major or any other aspects that the bearer defines as ugly or not appealing.

Every vagina, actually vulva, is beautiful.

You must also differentiate between vagina (the inner part, or vaginal canal) compared to the vulva (the outer and visible part of the vagina) that includes the clitoris, outer and inner lips.

If your vulva gives you such psychosomatic issues then you can always talk with your obgyn and ask her/him if some corrective surgery can be done. That type of surgical intervention is called a labiaplasty if your dissatisfaction is concerning the outer and inner lips or vaginoplasty for tightening of the vagina.

[Levin]

How do you know about labiaplasties and vaginoplasties. What a strange creature you are.

[SueShe]

@Levin What makes me a strange creature in your eyes? Is it because I inform myself before posting something? I am interested in why I am strange in your eyes?

Of course I could have said that some girls are born with ugly and some with nice vulva.

[Levin]

I just mean, you're curious. Most 17 year olds aren't like you.

[SueShe]

@Levin I am curious enough to be interested in the question and to give a reply. If I don't know the answer, then I research it. That is the basis of my understanding of a subject I am not all too familiar.

I have learned something today that will hopefully help me in answering another question related to that situation.

[elizamichale1]

Honey you got to own your body and your self and you need to have confidence in yourself no matter what body type or a certain type of body part you have
You can't really change it, can you? so just own upto it and be confident, i can assure you it won't be much of an issue for guys at all as long as they can push their cocks in it.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well its hard to say without knowing what it looks like but their is a decent probability that your over thinking it. Vaginas come in many types, and to be frank most guys are going to be fine with any of them (as long as it doesn't look like they are diseased). I think your worrying over nothing, a man will love you (men are not as picky as every one seems to think and women are more neurotic about their appearance then they need to be).

[ShadowofRegret]

I honestly do not even know what would make a woman's privates "ugly", as long as I was in love with and married to her, I would not care what her genitals looked like.

[TadCurious]

I don't believe your vulva looks weird and disfigured. My guess is that you've just bought into the negative body image thing that so many girls have these days about perfectly normal labia and vulvar appearance. Somewhere along the way it seems lots of girls think their vulvas are supposed to look like Barbie dolls.

[Grobmate]

This, This and 100% This^^^^^

[TadCurious]

I do what I can. The self-loathing so many girls have about their normal bodies these days is at epidemic levels.

[Grobmate]

It is. I blame the media and retail industry. This site is so sad sometimes. Girls being told what men find attractive by... other women and gay men. It is disastrous and so very very wrong.

[Anonymous]

Guys are more interested in how a girl's face is and how her physique is. Vagina is down the list of priority.

I have dated a woman who thought her vagina was very ugly and felt she looked really good otherwise and I honestly never saw it. What she should have been worried about is her personality but that's another long story, perhaps for another time.

Moral of the story, it's not how your vagina looks... it's how everything adds up together, your looks and personality!

[Asker]

So you think that my ugly vagina shouldn’t be holding me back from dating?

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely not!!!

[Opinion Owner]

I also think your vagina probably doesn't think look as bad as you are making it out to be.

[boggboss]

You are simply a women that's insecure about her vigina no vigina is ugly and most men couldn't draw you one from memory so don't waste your time worrying

[SentientBrick]

You have do have point

[Passinggas]

I have seen that and I was surprised that it didn't bother me. She was so attractive in her plain way somehow, that I just came to like it that way. Piv it was like having extra there in a good spot.

[Bigfappa]

the only reason id go out with a pretty girl who has a ugly vagina is if we never have to have sex and she jus masturbates herself, i wouldn't even wanna do it in the dark with a ugly vagina girl, ew

[SueShe]

That is exactly why you would stay a big fappa yourself your entire life.

Because you are so ashamed of your appendage that no girl want to be with you and that is why you have such stupid replies.

It is a self-esteem issue that you have an extreme complex of inferiority. But that can be cured, don't worry.

[Bigfappa]

@SueShe i will stay a big fappa because i would only choose girls with pretty pussy instead of ugly 1s?
thats the most stupid shit i ever heard... there is more girls with good looking pussys than uglz 1s so i am more likely to have a chance with a good pussy girl,

also... the reason im a bigfappa is because i have very bad social anxiety, not any of that shlt u jus said,
i infact had at least 6 hot girls i could have smashed in my life but chose not to due to social fear, get ur facts right,

anyway... do u really think id name myself this if i was ashamed to be a fappa?
i couldnt give a fuck less if i remained a virgin all my life, obviously,
girls are bitches

ur jus offended and mad cos ur thing is ugly,

[Bigfappa]

@SueShe also what the f does my appendage appearence have to do with any of this?
that was uneccasry and unrelated to this because i did not mention my dick at all and u have not seen it. so u cannot say shit about it because it could be big for all u know,
infact its only average size but im jus saying

[Bigfappa]

@SueShe also i dunno where u pulled that shit out of ur ass that the reason i said mz 1st comment was because low self esteem and feelings of inferiority,
that is jus a normal way any guy would think, no man would wanna fuck a girl with a uglz pussy, no matter how confident or underconfident he is, thats jus a normal persons reaction, no one would wanna fuck something disgusting, it would be like putting ur dick in horse shit or something,
so think a little more before u jump to the concliusion that its because i feel inferior, dumbass,

also im sorry no guy wants to fuck ur ugly thing, but thats jus the way it is, get over it

[SueShe]

once an dumbass always a dumbass.

Get some basic education and come back when you have a minimum of education and not just trolling habits.

[Bigfappa]

@SueShe explain why what i said makes me a dumb ass,
i understand you are trying to impress your little gag friends here,
but im sure no one reading ur shit will aree and be like "yea, she is right, he is dumb"
so until you can back up to ur point as to why i am dumb, then your point is invalid

[EdwardMoon]

One part of your body dosnt define your attractiveness

[Anonymous]

Unless you have some sort of severe genetic disformity or disease then I think your fine. Just a little FYI most guys for some picular reason find vaginas to be rather nice to take a look at so dont worry about it 😉

[Harmseygrace]

All vaginas are ugly. I don’t get what guys like about it.

[Any1iguess]

If your a fun person To be around and someone likes you for that they won't care

[Haelaeix123]

Yes, there's always guys who will look past it. I'm sure it doesn't even look that bad

[chriscdi]

i dont think the form of your vagina can turn anyone off unless they are pretty shallow

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry, men don’t really care about vaginas. They like dicks and assholes too much. Ur vagina might as well not even be there, really.

[SentientBrick]

I'm going to call you SJW Jones. Now can I get some comments about the cloud people? Or maybe a angry rant about fluoride? I got my tin foil hat and popcorn ready!

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry, my specialty is male sexuality.

[JamesBoradil03]

trust me gys are gonna think its attratctive asf when they goin in.

[Cowboy6666]

I need to look at your vagina first before i can say anything?

[Cowboy6666]

Thats fine by me, if you are open minded, with nice behavior and aren't racist, you are fine to me..

[Anonymous]

Honestly I wouldn’t have known it was weird until you brought it up so maybe you can just trust that guys are dumb enough to not know the difference.

[datgirl]

That's what you think. Men dont care. As long as they get vagina they are happy.

[Gedaria]

Should be alright. most guys never look. As long as it's a vagina...

[zagor]

Has anyone actually broke up with you because of how your vagina looks?

[Anonymous]

There's a very good chance it's only ugly to you. I've never seen an "ugly" vagina.

[JGiraffe]

Everyone's is different, don't be worried about it, be proud, no one's looks great.

[blakeguy]

It's probably not that bad plus is well tight u think? That's what matters

[blakeguy]

Huh why u think it's ugly? Hairy?

[Tyffen]

Hairy and "disfigured" aren't really the same...

[Asker]

No clitoral hood, clitoris is positioned quite high and my clitoris is big and I have barely any inner labia , only extern labia

[GreenGold1992]

You have just as good a chance as anyone else

[dog1712]

All vaginal are beautiful

[OfDeath]

Weird in what way?

[Asker]

It looks disfigured. My clotoris is very big and positioned very high. The labia minora are barely there, I have very pronounced labia majora. I don’t have a clitoral hood. My vagina feels very nice inside though according to the couple guys I had sex with. It’s just aesthetically ugly.

[OfDeath]

It doesn't sound that off-putting

[OjaeNova]

Aha what?

[Tyffen]

Yes...