Due to medical issues, I've struggled with weight for years. I've tried many, many things, and the only way I personally lose weight is to not eat. That is not healthy, and I don't plan on doing that. However, there has got to be something I haven't tried yet. (And before anyone goes there- trust me, diet and exercise have been tried and are a big part of my daily life. Have been for years. Haven't lost anything.) I was told (by a guy) that I'm too fat to date recently. I know that I am not physically attractive, but is it to the point where I'm so physically unattractive that you wouldn't consider dating me? I've been told some very harsh things; I not only can handle honesty, but would appreciate it. Thanks!!
I'm the far right in the first two, middle in the third, and far left in the fourth.
Guys, is to the point where I'm too physically unattractive to date?
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You don't "Try" exercise or "Try" eating healthy. You're supposed to maintain the habit and try to surpass yourself every few months if you want to take it slow and steady.
There's no miracle solution to instantly lose weight beside surgery, which I don't suggest since you'll hardly overcome the core issue.
As for the other question : Being over-weight is a turn-off for many people, even if you have the most charming face on earth. That said, you do seem to have a charming looking face and a bright personality so I wouldn't worry too much about that ( Kind of remind me of one of my old crush ), if you set up a goal to lose some weight steadily over the years and keep yourself healthy you'll be on the right path to finding your prince in shining armor. ( If you're into that kind of thing )
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By try, I meant I've been told before to just start eating healthy and exercising. I eat extremely healthy, and I go to the gym at least twice a week most weeks. I DO stick with it. I really appreciate your advice though; I'm definitely into that kinda thing.
Larger girls actually have a cult following, same thing I try and tell my sister. Just try and act cute or something and I guarantee someone would fall for ya. The question is would you accept who accepts you?
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