Simple That it. The action is wrong but the actual question is why and what? And that is subjective. Sometime it is man faults and sometime it is the woman faults
Anyone will cheat with anyone when what they want from their partner isn't coming from them and someone else is willing to give it. Mom using sex as a weapon to manipulate dad for example, dad will find it somewhere else if it goes in for a long time. Girl isn't getting cuddles like she wants, she'll get them elsewhere.
I have NEVER cheated, and I am very aware of my GF's definition, for that, because I have female friends! No kissing, no breast-grabbing, no bottom-groping, under her short skirt, and definitely, NEVER, EVER a 'quickie', in the Copy room with the cute 18-year-old intern!! LOL!! Really? What D-bag are you with, to ask this?
in Most cases I would say yes... but not all cases You have 1. The rare percent of men who actually respects the relationship And 2. The one that gets that opportunity with a very fat girl or just someone they really have no desire to fuck.
Other than those two exceptions, I’d say most men do go for it given the opportunity
Sad but true. Most men are weak links when it comes to being seduced.
No, I wouldn’t. I think I would have to divorce the wife or breakup with the girlfriend if things were THAT BAD that it would get me to consider cheating.
I’m very much aware that there could be hundreds of consequences that would not make it worth while.
And if the girlfriend or wife was that great, I wouldn’t be stupid enough to risk everything like that on something that could be temporary, let alone doing something to hurt the girlfriend or wife like that.
"All these guys saying they wouldn't cheat if the hottest girl gave them attention, oh please. You'd drop your girlfriend or wife like a hot potato."
If you think that all men are untrustworthy, then your attitude will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. But, if that is really what you think about men, become a nun, be asexual, or be lesbian. The rest of the males on the planet do not want to have their ear chewed on by you because of what your dad did to your mom.
the evidence that some of us may be geared toward multiple partners is also in our genes. One study found that people with a specific type of dopamine (the pleasure-reward neurotransmitter) receptor gene reported being more sexually promiscuous and were 50 percent more likely to cheat on a spouse.
Scientists in Finland also looked at a gene that’s responsible for receptors of vasopressin (a hormone associated with partner bonding, and also peeing), and observed that having lots of vasopressin receptors correlated with women’s infidelity—but not men’s.
“The research is clearer and clearer that we are wired to be nonmonogamous,”
No, I won't cheat. Life and relationship isn't just about sex. I want an exclusive relationship, I don't want to share the sexual experience with anyone else. You're worrying too much. Most guys don't cheat, it's just Hollywood and media perpetuating this thing by glamourizing it, coz it sells their content.
Maybe you should go and see a therapist, I think you're traumatized by what your father did to your mom.
Also, based off of what you're saying, please get therapy. (I don't mean this in an insulting way.) You seem very insecure and unhappy. If you don't try to work these insecurities, you won't be happy in your relationships, and you won't be able to trust your partner at all.
Some guys are like roaming dogs who have that natural instinct to spread the seed. That’s not to say they all are like that. Love is important too. I personally would hope I’d never do that. I’m pretty good about it and stay away from all that stuff and have been practicing for years. I’d like to think yes that I’d never cheat.
I don’t believe that. In the end, regardless of the attractiveness of the other person, your partner had to make a choice. I believe most people are good and that they would make the choice not to hurt their partner
I'd never cheat. Instead I stay single because most women are not nearly good enough. Many expect a lot, but bring next to nothing to a relationship in return. When i do find one that is actually attractive she usually has a bad personality and morals, is either greedy or has a past of being promiscuous, used drugs, or has very little in common.
I too witnessed the same thing. Even worse, I'm the one who had to hreak the news to my mother. I was only 7! That's extremely fucked up. Because mother and I are really close. I gotta be the one to break her heart, and console her. That was torture of the soul. I have never cheated. I never will. I have been cheated on many times over the years. Still fucking hurts.
There are guys who are always faithful to the person that they are with (my girlfriend has told me about her past, I don’t hold it against her for it). She keeps bringing herself down because she thinks that I will hold it against her. (I made sure that as soon as I got home after dropping her off after she told me her history that our conversation was only between the two of us I never would tell anyone
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sex can be simply a fun thing to do, we can do it without ANY emotional connection to the person. (like a female getting a massage from a male masseuses.) We can be happy with our partner and love them more than life, but new pussy is something we can't pass up. Women get emotionally attached during sex and often need it in order to have sex. So it's hard for a female to understand that sex doesn't mean anything to us. (Yes is can mean something more when we already love the person) Technically it's no different than masturbating using a strangers vagina instead of our hand.
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My step father cheated on his ex wife many many years ago and to this day he still has so much regret about it and still says he wish he never did it... his ex and him are friends now and our families are close and spend time together now... but it's one of the biggest lessons he tried to teach us was never to cheat...
With this attitude its going to be hard to find someone. I get that your parents messed the bliss off a happy marriage and a commited relationship for you, but you need to let it go. It was their mistakes not yours.
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I guess so, if I become confident and love myself will the right guy come along eventually?
Of course, he will! but it will be a lot of hard work. Relationships are not easy. Its all about dedication, love, and understanding and sometimes being selfless. If you need to see someone to talk about how your feeling deeply on how your parent's divorce affected you then i would suggest getting some counseling or reading some self-help books. good luck xo
Cheating is a moral and character flaw. Very few people have chacter and morals these days. It is not a question of if he has tge opportunity.
But if you won't blow me or have sex for a long time i will leave you. I have needs. Now if you are unable to because of medical issues fine. I can jack off.
Men of a certain age sure do. I THINK the awnser is dual fold. It is partially due to our ancient ansestors who would fuck any female as a need to maintain population growth. To enlarge the tribe. Secondly it has to do with impending life ending and chances of feeling young fleet. My take on this.
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That it.
The action is wrong but the actual question is why and what?
And that is subjective.
Sometime it is man faults and sometime it is the woman faults
Anyone will cheat with anyone when what they want from their partner isn't coming from them and someone else is willing to give it. Mom using sex as a weapon to manipulate dad for example, dad will find it somewhere else if it goes in for a long time. Girl isn't getting cuddles like she wants, she'll get them elsewhere.
I have NEVER cheated, and I am very aware of my GF's definition, for that, because I have female friends! No kissing, no breast-grabbing, no bottom-groping, under her short skirt, and definitely, NEVER, EVER a 'quickie', in the Copy room with the cute 18-year-old intern!! LOL!!
Really? What D-bag are you with, to ask this?
in Most cases I would say yes... but not all cases
You have
1. The rare percent of men who actually respects the relationship
And
2. The one that gets that opportunity with a very fat girl or just someone they really have no desire to fuck.
Other than those two exceptions, I’d say most men do go for it given the opportunity
Sad but true. Most men are weak links when it comes to being seduced.
I'd say it must be the opposite. More women must be cheaters since more women have liberal morals.
No, I wouldn’t. I think I would have to divorce the wife or breakup with the girlfriend if things were THAT BAD that it would get me to consider cheating.
I’m very much aware that there could be hundreds of consequences that would not make it worth while.
And if the girlfriend or wife was that great, I wouldn’t be stupid enough to risk everything like that on something that could be temporary, let alone doing something to hurt the girlfriend or wife like that.
Are all women gold diggers?
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"All these guys saying they wouldn't cheat if the hottest girl gave them attention, oh please. You'd drop your girlfriend or wife like a hot potato."
If you think that all men are untrustworthy, then your attitude will become a self-fulfilling prophecy. But, if that is really what you think about men, become a nun, be asexual, or be lesbian. The rest of the males on the planet do not want to have their ear chewed on by you because of what your dad did to your mom.
You're my favourite person on here.
@Harmseygrace
Definitely he is jewel of GAG town as well as mentor. Shoot out to Older and wiser.
@Being_a_good_Indian Yup, he's awesome. Make him king.
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Our kind words aren't enough? I don't think he will accept the proposal for becoming President of Girlsaskguys.
@Harmseygrace That is such a very sweet thing for you to say! Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk in private.
@OlderAndWiser You're welcome and thank you.
@Being_a_good_Indian Where there's a will there's a way. He'll be king. 😂
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Definitely. 😂😂
All women aren't gold diggers but there are a lot of guys who are.
the evidence that some of us may be geared toward multiple partners is also in our genes. One study found that people with a specific type of dopamine (the pleasure-reward neurotransmitter) receptor gene reported being more sexually promiscuous and were 50 percent more likely to cheat on a spouse.
Scientists in Finland also looked at a gene that’s responsible for receptors of vasopressin (a hormone associated with partner bonding, and also peeing), and observed that having lots of vasopressin receptors correlated with women’s infidelity—but not men’s.
“The research is clearer and clearer that we are wired to be nonmonogamous,”
Man like always.. You nailed it again
No, I won't cheat. Life and relationship isn't just about sex. I want an exclusive relationship, I don't want to share the sexual experience with anyone else. You're worrying too much. Most guys don't cheat, it's just Hollywood and media perpetuating this thing by glamourizing it, coz it sells their content.
Maybe you should go and see a therapist, I think you're traumatized by what your father did to your mom.
Not all, but I think quite a few would.
Also, based off of what you're saying, please get therapy. (I don't mean this in an insulting way.) You seem very insecure and unhappy. If you don't try to work these insecurities, you won't be happy in your relationships, and you won't be able to trust your partner at all.
Some guys are like roaming dogs who have that natural instinct to spread the seed. That’s not to say they all are like that. Love is important too. I personally would hope I’d never do that. I’m pretty good about it and stay away from all that stuff and have been practicing for years. I’d like to think yes that I’d never cheat.
I don’t believe that. In the end, regardless of the attractiveness of the other person, your partner had to make a choice. I believe most people are good and that they would make the choice not to hurt their partner
I'd never cheat. Instead I stay single because most women are not nearly good enough. Many expect a lot, but bring next to nothing to a relationship in return. When i do find one that is actually attractive she usually has a bad personality and morals, is either greedy or has a past of being promiscuous, used drugs, or has very little in common.
I too witnessed the same thing. Even worse, I'm the one who had to hreak the news to my mother.
I was only 7! That's extremely fucked up.
Because mother and I are really close.
I gotta be the one to break her heart, and console her. That was torture of the soul.
I have never cheated.
I never will.
I have been cheated on many times over the years. Still fucking hurts.
There are guys who are always faithful to the person that they are with (my girlfriend has told me about her past, I don’t hold it against her for it). She keeps bringing herself down because she thinks that I will hold it against her. (I made sure that as soon as I got home after dropping her off after she told me her history that our conversation was only between the two of us I never would tell anyone
sex can be simply a fun thing to do, we can do it without ANY emotional connection to the person. (like a female getting a massage from a male masseuses.)
We can be happy with our partner and love them more than life, but new pussy is something we can't pass up.
Women get emotionally attached during sex and often need it in order to have sex.
So it's hard for a female to understand that sex doesn't mean anything to us. (Yes is can mean something more when we already love the person)
Technically it's no different than masturbating using a strangers vagina instead of our hand.
My step father cheated on his ex wife many many years ago and to this day he still has so much regret about it and still says he wish he never did it... his ex and him are friends now and our families are close and spend time together now... but it's one of the biggest lessons he tried to teach us was never to cheat...
With this attitude its going to be hard to find someone. I get that your parents messed the bliss off a happy marriage and a commited relationship for you, but you need to let it go. It was their mistakes not yours.
I guess so, if I become confident and love myself will the right guy come along eventually?
Of course, he will! but it will be a lot of hard work. Relationships are not easy. Its all about dedication, love, and understanding and sometimes being selfless. If you need to see someone to talk about how your feeling deeply on how your parent's divorce affected you then i would suggest getting some counseling or reading some self-help books. good luck xo
I'm not looking for someone perfect, just looking for someone who isn't creepy or addicted to porn like my last boyfriend
Cheating is a moral and character flaw. Very few people have chacter and morals these days. It is not a question of if he has tge opportunity.
But if you won't blow me or have sex for a long time i will leave you. I have needs. Now if you are unable to because of medical issues fine. I can jack off.
Communication.
1) Yawn. Do all females ask this question all the time every day? How pathetically typical?
2) The term "cheating" is erroneous and stupid, and no one should use it. ↗
Men of a certain age sure do. I THINK the awnser is dual fold. It is partially due to our ancient ansestors who would fuck any female as a need to maintain population growth. To enlarge the tribe.
Secondly it has to do with impending life ending and chances of feeling young fleet. My take on this.
Pfft. I wouldn't cheat, I'd make sure to break up with you first before banging your replacement.
And really, I wouldn't commit to a woman in the first place if she left something to be desired.