Promiscuous people have been linked again and again to... ... mental instability and higher rates of mental illness ... higher rates of STDs (It's a numbers game) ... be more likely to be a single parent (numbers game) ... have higher rates of abortion (numbers game) ... have less stable relationships and higher divorce rates ... have increased chances of having been in an abusive relationship ... be more likely to cheat ... be more likely to become addicted ... be more likely to come out of a broken household.
www.ideals.illinois.edu/.../Saroj_Hardit.pdf -> Promiscuity is linked to sexual aggression. -> Page 59. "The number of sexual partners was positively related to parental violence." -> Page 70. "As the number of sexual partners increased, so did the propensity to sexually aggression."
http://www.bradley.edu/dotAsset/165862.pdf -> Page 4. "Perhaps the strongest personality correlate of risky sexual behaviour is impulsive sensation-seeking" -> Page 8. Promiscuous people are more likely to be impulsive, have low agreeableness, low conscientiousness, sensation-seeking and a higher level of sexual infidelity. -> Page 14. "People who describe themselves as more unfaithful tend to have personality traits linked to a lack of trust and empathy (i. e. low agreeableness)"
www.sociopathicstyle.com/psychopathic-traits/ -> Point 11. Promiscuity is a common symptom of psychopathy. Goes hand in hand with the other study mentioning impulsiveness as it shows it here on point 14.
ink.library.smu.edu.sg/.../viewcontent.cgi -> Page 8. Higher amount of sexual partners is directly linked to higher degrees of psychopathy, narcissism, machiavellianism and an increase of any combination of those 3.
To put it into my own words: I think promiscuity is a symptom of mental instability and is a way of self-destructive behaviour, just like i. e. Obesity (not physical-health induced obesity). It's a huge red flag objectively, biologically and evolutionary for anyone who wants a comitted and successful relationship. Thus there is no logical argument to me that promiscuity is in any way to be seen as positive.
Thots exploit their own sexuality to get away with things and receive special treatment. They sleep around without respect for themselves because apparently it's empowering to give yourself away without letting the men earn it. Thots teach us that men don't need to respect women because women don't respect themselves. It's buying into the idea that women are just fuckbags. And the women are glad to be used the way, then they complain that men don't respect them or see them for anything other than a hot piece of ass.
Playing with boys, what does that mean? Does that mean being a promiscuous whore or playing with their minds? Or something completely different altogether?
That is messing with their heads though men know girls never make the first move instead they just give signals so they may take your play flirting as signals to approach so yeah you kinda are messing with their heads
Shrug, if a man or woman wants to be a thot, then so be it- as long as you own up to it and don't treat another thot as immoral cause they've had 20 partners but their so much better than them cause they've only been with 19. Like a lot of people be acting like their in the world's national thot Olympics and have to prove to themselves and their world that their less of hoe than last person. Like no bitch-yous a hoe.. I don't care if you got a dick or not... you still a hoe.. whatever.
Why do you play with boys in your dorm? Has it become a habit? Do you do it because you are lonely? Do you do it because of something that happened in your past? I'm trying to understand. You seem like a nice young lady, and there are always underlying reasons why a person behaves the way they do, even if they can't see it or deny it. I'm interested.
Well yeah my last boyfriend cheated on me and I haven't gotten over trust issues since, so I like to flirt with the boys in my dorm because I know them better.
I'm sorry you went through that honey. I understand why you do it now. I'm sorry he broke your trust, but even when other people do things that hurt you, you can do your best to come out better! Perhaps it is a coping mechanism to deal with that hurt and it makes you feel better, but at the end of the day, it will probably not satisfy you. I know you can get over the betrayal, I've been betrayed by friends and family (even though my family doesn't see it as betrayal) but I can't let what they do shape how I interact with everyone else! You are a sweet and smart girl! I recommend only flirting with the guy you like, truly like, but in the end it is your choice. I'm just here to talk with you about it hon.
Oh. Thanks. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm available to listen whenever. Thanks for your time honey. God bless you and I wish you the very best. I also hope you see that you are a valuable individual. Bye bye honey.
All depends on what you identify a "THOT" to be - If it is something you are proud of then great for you - You live by the positive attributes you ascribe to it and let the negative aspersions some of the public slide of you like water off a duck's back. Some labels are only degrading if you believe the negativity of others. Decide for yourself if it is a good or a bad thing.
nothing wrong with it tbh, as long as you are happy and ok and that you dont hurt anyone (to a serious degree that is) then i say do what makes you happy
also nice pic, not sure why anyone would choose to make fun of you though
Nothing! As long as you aren't cheating on someone in a monogamous relationship and everyone's on the same page about it being a casual thing, being a thot can be an empowering, fun experience. No one can tell you how to live your life, just as long as you aren't hurting anyone ^^
To me you don't appear to be a thot but if that is how you self-identify you should at least have fun with it. Always make sure your partner (or yourself) wears a condom.
What's wrong with being a bad and manipulative person? I thought it was obvious. That said, do whatever you want as long as you don't do anything bad to me.
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