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Bae you're not going to get a straight answer out of anyone. The only kind of guys that's going to answer your question is the kind that thinks being an asshole is the only way to attract women. All this "alpha" and "beta" stuff does is fuel the already massive ego of assholes. Most guys are afraid of their feelings. They're also afraid of the guys who are not afraid of their feelings. The second one guy shows his feelings he's automatically a wimp. You know what they say. Hate and Jealousy go hand in hand. When someone feels the need to insult or even fight you that either means you have something they want or you don't have the flaw that they have.
Here's why:
Because a simp doesn't "get it". A simp might be favourable among women at the beginning but in the long run the simp is the one who gets divorced and loses it all.
As sexist as it may sound, marriages where a man keeps his woman in her place, where a woman is constantly on edge... these are the marriages that last the longest. A lot of girls refuse to admit this but statistics show otherwise.
With the advent of the internet, men have learned these sorts of things. Naturally someone who kisses ass or has a white knight complex is shamed.
Cheers
If someone else says simp i assume they mean mentally slow or immature and also boring. If i say simp i mean more that they seem to be easily satisfied in all areas in life, not very ambitious in the girls or careers they choose. That being said they are usually also chill and sweet and considerate
I've never heard of that but I think people should be sensitive to one another.
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Avoid any guys calling another guy a simp. They’re jealous and just being catty if men who are kind.
I have checked all day for a clear definition of simp, but I see that neither I nor no one is going to go anywhere, and they will use the term by personal convinience.
It can refer to being a fool, an idiot, a simpleton, put women in a high pedestal or in other words, treat women as queens (being feminazis or third wave feminist but in man version), or a cuck.
However, the fad meaning right now is a guy who doesn't want a no as an answer, who feigns being a "good guy", a "gentleman", a nice guy who "begs" being with you even as a friend but in reality, he only wants to have sexual satisfaction and he is just disguising his harrassement like courtship or friendship.
If that is the definition, yes, it is bad. I dealt with one in the past, he took advantage of my naivety and he invaded my personal space when he had the chance (he kissed my neck, that pig), even if I put clear that I didn't want to be his girlfriend, but when I got wise and I had to take drastic ways, he already had my mom's favour, who obliged me to be with him and treat him well because she thought he was a good catch (my mother has been a very overcontrolling person). It took me three years to get rid of him, but during this time, I didn't give him more than a kiss in the cheek, hugs and touching my hands (although it seemed that it sexually excited him and it disgusted me).
However, I saw in Internet that the term of simp has been abused. It seems to go to a point where being nice equals to be a doormat, a real gentleman is like being a sucker, a real nice and sweet guy who only acts shy and awkward is a creep, a harrasser who wants to be laid. In those cases, people are exaggerating, probably because it is a response on being politically correct, the third wave feminism, feminazism and the paranoid they put on society about sexual harrassement.
Because a simp is a guy who continuously bends over backwards and drops everything he's doing for a woman who doesn't really like him, care about him, or even know he exists. If there's no reciprocation and he continues to do those things in hopes that it will turn the tide, it's simp behavior. And that's BS because that guy could spend his time pursuing a woman who actually gives a damn about him or focus on improving himself. Instead he focuses on trying to show off and pursue a woman who doesn't even want him.
1. A man is responsible for 100% of his choices, unlike women who are allowed to play victim almost any time they feel like it by the legal system & society. Because a man is responsible for everything he'd be very foolish to let a woman who has zero responsibility lead his actions. Simps, let women control them. They have no backbone.
2. Experience has shown men that women don't respect simps, regardless of how good having a simp kiss her azz makes her feel. Guys who want respect --- and deserve respect, aren't simps.
3. It's hard for many people to wrap their mind around this because culturally, there's many 'things' trying to program boys & men into being simps like romantic songs that paint women as angels and perfect beings who deserve to be worshiped just because they have a vagina.
a simp: a male kowtowing to female superiority
a simp is unattractive to women because he has no self respect... but women who EXPLOIT men LOVE simps because they can get boyfriend behavior without giving anything back. Simps get used, and it's their own fault.
I show MAD respect, generosity, and caring to a girl who deserves it... but treating ALL women like princesses? FUCK THAT, i ain't holding your door, most women don't even say "thank you" and I deserve to be in line first, cuz i GOT HERE first, etc...
some of us men VALUE ourselves and we despise men who hate themselves, also known as SIMPS
Simps are guys (and girls) who chase a person interest
and bendover backwards for said person while that said person
is nothing but trash and horrible to them.
But saldy, the ONLY time I EVER see or hear a man label
another man a "simp", is when that man is treating a GOOD woman
the good and loyal way she deserves to be treated.
And yet, those same guys that throw around the word "simp",
be the same dudes that bendover backwards for some 2-faced skank.
So tbh, the only "simps" that exist are the typical douchebags
that chase temporary hoes out of pitty and desperation.
I have never heard the word "simp" before.
But from what you are saying I would gladly be called a "simp" and wear it proudly like the label/title geek or nerd.
It's because he's a guy that lacks confidence, is too nice and giving to everyone and often gets taken advantage off. He can't stand up for himself or his beliefs and is a pushover and a door mat for everyone. It's often these guys that think of themselves as "nice guys" and wonder why the ladies don't find them attractive.
"In my experience, guys who get called simps are very sweet and just respectful of women versus the guys who call them simps who are more often than not very disrespectful and unpleasant in general. Hence why I see nothing wrong with a man being a "simp". What is your definition of a simp and is it a negative thing in your opinion?"
Yeah, of course you see nothing "wrong" with a man being a simp. Because those are men that you milk for time, validation, attention, money, and just about every other thing he throws at you in exchange for practically nothing. While you're off chasing Chad, who you're actually attracted to. There's a huge difference between being respectful to a woman, and going absolutely overboard in a desperate attempt to receive any bit of attention from her.
I’m going to attempt to answer the question honestly and objectively...
The problem with “simping” is not exactly about acquiescing to women to curry their favor, but what doing so with the motive and expectation that women or a particular woman will reciprocate by rewarding the simp with kindness and (yes) sexual attention.
The underlying purpose behind simping is what is wrong with it.
Women take advantage of simps. How do I know this?
Because as someone else mentioned already, all men are guilty of simping at some point in their lives. Usually with a woman that they are pining for or are in a committed relationship with.
Simps lose themselves in trying to extract quid pro quo from women through pathological acquiescence and excessive validation and virtue signaling.
Being an obedient, submissive simp for the beautiful women I serve is an unbelievably thrilling experience, especially since I know I'll never be allowed to get my little piglet penis inside any of them. My only purpose is to be the perfect pay pig and personal slave, maid and even her whipping boy if she so chooses.
It's not, it's just yet another buzzword used by reactionary right-wingers with highly fragile boy-egos. Before that it was "soyboy" and before that it was "cuck" and so on. They keep creatinh new ones because people rightfully stop taking them seriously very quickly. My rule: If someone unironically uses one of these terms to insult someone, I know to not engage with them. Not worth my time.
Being a simp is bad because your a laughing stock. Your being used by women. Usually mediocre women too.
You can be a simp but it doesn't even work lol. It's just like being called a fool but in terms of how you deal with women.
I have never heard expression before but I would agree with your definition and it doesn't seem a bad thing.
What they mean by a simp is someone who just pines over a woman, and sort of takes a backseat to them. That's not what women want, regardless
It is because a SIMP is a guy who idolizes promiscuous, valueless skanks who are not deserving of it. They are laughable.
only ugly bitches like simps
Bad bitches want a mean dude too fuck them good and fuck them over
Yes, women see nothing wrong with simps. Us men have to look out for our own though, and being a simp gets a man very little
Simps pander to women and have no self-respect.
stop defending the simps... ur doing them a disservice.. they won't ever get laid if u encourage it...
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