Making Definite dates (Corey Wayne) Following his rules but still fearful of being stood up if she doesn't hear from me?

amckenn8
Met this amazing out the other Sunday, we hit it off and also had a really good laugh with her friend. We slow danced and had great eye contact (I can't dance for shit) but she would follow my stupid dance moves and laugh. When we moved to a different bar she stayed by me and also would ask if I would join her in the smoking area. At the end of the night I asked for her number and she said I don't normally give it out. I said okay, well take mine and you can text me if you want to see me again. She said actually... I would feel terrible if I text you and you didn't respond, so here is mine. As I went to leave I went in for the Kiss and sadly got the cheek and she said I don't kiss guys on the first encounter. We made definite plans and she even told me she was looking forward to seeing me. I have only been texting to make plans not to talk. Keeping it short and sweet. On the Saturday, she messaged to apologies and cancel the date but she would call me later. I was a little upset but I replied, 'no worries, talk to you later.' She called and apologized, We spend about 4 mins on the phone and I asked, would you still like to get together? She said of course! So I asked - how is your schedule looking? She responded well you only get two days off work so what works for you? So we booked for Thursday and I was just on my way to the gym so I said let me have a little think of where to meet and I'll text you when I get back. I text her the place and time, she responded sound good :). I said okay brilliant I will see you there, if anything comes up I will let you know otherwise see you at (such a time). That was Saturday and I was the last one to text, I have 2 more days before the date and I'm doing everything in my power to NOT send a, so just to confirm text. Corey Wayne (who's work I follow) Says make definite plans and just meet them there. Do you think I may get stood up or cancelled on if I don't reach out one more time before the date?
Making Definite dates (Corey Wayne) Following his rules but still fearful of being stood up if she doesn't hear from me?
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