If you made plans with an online date but she hasn’t replied to any messages since, are you within your rights to not go?

[Anonymous]

If you asked her about the plans by saying “Just making plans for Saturday - what kind of snacks do you like? And do you have a mat? Ill bring some cups and snacks. And we can both bring our favourite drink. 🙂”. And she never replied. And she also hasn’t replied to another message.

Yes don’t go

You should still go

[OlderAndWiser]

Had you already agreed to meet at a specific time and place?

[Asker]

Yes.

[OlderAndWiser]

Was all this done through texting?

[Asker]

Yes. It was.

[OlderAndWiser]

That's the problem.

[Lowiu]

Id suggest to ask again if the date still stands and if she doesn't reply to that or says no dont go

[Asker]

I’m wondering if there’s a point of this if she doesn’t reply to my text asking about the plans a few days before the date.

[Asker]

Or the text before it

[Anonymous]

Yeah don’t go, sounds like she’s fixing to not show up.

[Astarlessnightsky]

In my experience, you'll wait for someone who will never come.

[Astarlessnightsky]

If this kind of thing happens.

[Jazzy54]

She might be a catfish. Proceed with caution.