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tbh im one of those women who hold everything inside. I had one boyfriend who let a girl grind on his lap when I was sitting right there. I find it disrespectful, but as other guys I have dated have backed away, never touched her, and will move over to me and make me sit in his lap. but as standing side to side, I know men have girl friends and not girlfriend/fwb, and would trust him enough if he said they really are just friends.
If that's their friendship dynamic even before I became his girlfriend then I don't think I should be upset or have the right to ask him to stop it.
Just like how if I acted like that with a male friend my entire life then a guy comes along and says he wants me to stop it I won't be that much pleased.
Nope, lol. He knows what's acceptable and what's not. I'm not gonna beg for him to be a certain way. He's a grown man.
He knows how to behave in our relationship and the consequences if he doesn't, so I'm not bothered.
Il pinch him immediately. A extremely sharp pinch. And then he's goona get a dose from me when we reach home.
If you think a girl would get mad about that would you think she is insecure?
No. Thats not being insecure. How can I allow another girl to sit on his lap? What am I then? Just timepass.
Of course I'd be mad. Someone in a relationship just wouldn't do that with a friend. That's just so weird.
I'd calmly tell him that we're done, and wish him the best with his new girl. That would embarrass both and they'd talk about it. Then, I'd move on with someone new. I don't have time for people who respect me.
I mean, for people who don't respect me.
Of course I would be. It implies there is something more between them and I would be upset with them both for being so rude
Hed no longer be my boyfriend thats for sure she can have him.. if they are doing that in front of me what are they doing behind closed doors?
Yes and I would cut his 🍒 (jokingly). I'd dump him.
Well I'd have to sit on my male friends lap and hug him like that then *-* just saying :-P