Where Do The Players (& the Playerettes) Draw The Line?

[fonduegirl]

in other words the donts of playing the field. What're their limitations? Where do they think they have to stop? When do they reject offers?


PS. please skip this question if you hate the players or their game w/o knowing a-z about the same.

[AdrienneLaRussa]

It's funny because, from what I experienced, the worst players are already in a relationship, even married. They stop the game if they get caught, or feelings come around (especially if the victim is in love with them) or they were just playing to boost their Ego. I wouldn't mind about a player who's single because these people like the game, the attention, the excitement, even if they settle down for a while, perhaps to fulfill a void or because they feel lonely or for the status, they will go back to these games eventually, they will cheat sooner or later because you cannot easily change your nature and your old habits, that's why most of them are married and not so young, they were probably players when they were younger. With that being said yes they might decide to settle down just to feel complete or gain the status and please their parents, to be honest I don't think they do it for love, that's very rare and they usually end up with a trophy partner, they never leave their shallow behavior and choices. And experience taught me it's better to stay away from their narcissistic ass...

[Gottabsavagee]

When he finds a woman of his dreams, that’s when he calms down.

You can’t do anything about it to be honest. You can kick his balls all you want, play hard to get but if you ain’t the right woman in his eyes that won’t work. It’s impossible to fake it. It’s either there or it’s not.

[Kaazsz]

The line is, as far as I know, that they realize a relationship is better.

I’m no player, but my understanding of players is they often spend a time fucking as many people as possible. But eventually realize a solid bf/gf is more beneficial, and that they can find someone really great to spend a longer amount of time with. So they bang tons of people until they find one that’s really great and make them their bf/gf for a time. Some may even get married, I suppose that depends on them.

Makes me wonder if it’s worth it to just become a player, fuck 10000 women so that I can find the perfect one instead of waiting around like I do now. Only reason I don’t is because everyone hates players and says they are bad people.

[fonduegirl]

the game's kinda thrilling, from the young and dumb POV

[Kaazsz]

I’m sure it’s great but deep down I believe they are horrible people and women will hate me for it. I could, all my female friends say I could and even offer to train me. But I feel too guilty about how women view players that I don’t know if it’s worth it to try lol.

[fonduegirl]

i think it's only fair (I'm afraid of intimacy) so it works fine

[MusicMayhem]

Well you know they've had to work hard to earn their success picking up so as much as people don't like it, they ultimately get to choose what they do.

Problem is most people settle and hope they can change a player rather than going out and practicing meeting people heaps so they can get game and have better options.

[Anonymous]

There is no such thing as playerettes... There are players and skanks.
Men have to PLAY the game to get sex, women create the game, so they can't be "players".
Players don't have limitations because they are playing the game and therefore don't make the rules, they have no time constraints, etc. It's either you win or you lose.
Women have an end game and they have an expiry date. So as they get closer to the expiry... they switch to end game mode and start looking for someone to settle with. Someone who will hopefully accept their easy past or not ask about it... so they can get through the not so attractive years.

[ItsTheNephilim]

No player ever hops in with a girl who isn't the hottest one around him. Girls other than her are rejected. Other than that, it might be something going on in their mind and they don't wanna get laid atm for whatever personal reason.

[bamesjond0069]

No such thing as a playerette. And a player won't settle down until an actual girl worth his time presents herself. They are rare asf. I dated lots and honestly most girls are skanks so obviously since im no cuck they are not suitable for anything serious. When i find a girl i match with who isn't a ho ill gladly settle down.

[Carefuloutthere]

A girl worth her salt doesn't waste her time with players.

[bamesjond0069]

@Carefuloutthere yes and no. Some guys are players because they are sneaky and mistreating girls. There are also genuinely just very attractive charismatic men who are also called players simply because they can always date who have some standards and aren't playing anything. The outward appearance is almost exactly the same.

[winterfox10]

I think they draw the line when things start getting real. They feel attached, or they feel like the other person might start creating problems for them

[ylliB]

Speaking of guys, they have no intention of a cap. It is when a strong woman kicks his ass that he calms down. Not before unless he is a mommies boy, best run from that.

[Reviller17]

Well I usually draw the line if it involves someone I care about that is going to get hurt, but most of the time most of the things are permitted