What’s The Game Being Played?

[ineedanswerspls]

TLDR an ex (20) of mines (26) have recently kept in contact after breaking up 4 months ago and going pretty much no contact for 2 months after. We had sparing conversations in early January but nothing consistent. How ever, over the last maybe 2 weeks, she will text, I’ll respond and she’ll leave me on delivered for a day or two, then text me again like she didn’t text me a couple days before. A couple times we’ve had nice convos and even talks of meeting up again but mostly it’s just a hello, then she doesn’t respond or if she does it’s really dry. I’ve asked her why she does it but she just laughs it off. Also she checked my tiktok account page for some reason. Can a woman tell me if this is an attention seeking situation or she just playing the field and seeing if I’m available.

[Anonymous]

The only way I could imagine her playing games is if she’s got some sort of vendetta. Like if you broke up on bad terms, she got hurt, etc. But in the hopes that she’s not playing, it may just be a thing to where she’s being casual. Since you aren’t in a relationship, getting back to your conversation in a more timely manner probably doesn’t hold the same prioritization as before. Anyway, I don't know where your head is at when it comes to her or what your intention has become but I would suggest that if you’re still interested then maybe you should let her know. Depending on her response she could engage more in conversation or just back off completely. However if you aren’t interested and just confused by the situation then maybe you shouldn’t focus on it too much. Don’t anticipate her responses, do your thing and get back to her a day later too. Not to be petty, but just to show that you aren’t waiting around for her response or super eager to respond.

[ineedanswerspls]

Thank you a lot for your response makes me feel somewhat sane. I honestly don’t know what I want out of her anymore, whether to go back or not. But I also don’t want to be strung along and be a second choice. I planned asking these questions in person but if never happens that’ll be my answer.🙏🏾

[Guy13]

It sounds like she is holding a grudge. She is preceding with caution as it relates with you. It is likely that this grudge pushed her into looking around at other guys. She may have simply gotten board of the LDR. These things happen in LDR as one fades away over time. Might be someone local now?

[ineedanswerspls]

We never were LDR

[Guy13]

She still got bored LDR or not. Act or someone else will. Risk or don’t and wonder and cry about not doing it. Risk.

[Wise4myage]

I think she is just playing the field and you should do the same thing.

[ineedanswerspls]

You’re right, I was just confused on how I should move didn’t wanna any bridges by overthinking

[gorydetails]

do you like being her bitch?

[ineedanswerspls]

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