Guys, Is infertility a deal breaker? (Page 2)

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Guys, Is infertility a deal breaker?

justme1171 · Answer

Yeah it is actually. Women are for breeding, not careers. Infertile women (whether due to medical reasons or being useless old bags over thirty who failed to fulfill their biological purpose) are useless and not to be fucked with. Sorry hon but it’s the truth

Shiver · Answer

Depends, if I'd want to have children with you specifically, not adopt, then yes. In every other scenario, no. Infertility is almost never a deal breaker, because adopting a child is always an option and ruled out by only a small amount of people.

TheTorontonian · Answer

Not for me because I already have two beautiful daughters if I didn't it would be a lot tougher to answer this question it just might be the deal-breaker and down like that other lady I love kids infants even the pregnancy I found exciting yay for Repro creation if I said that right yay for sex for kids and fun yay for nymphomaniacs and yay for the job that supports whatever you're into

BeMuse · Answer

It’s not something that’s going to come up during a one night stand, but long run yeah that’s an issue when it comes to commitment.

major42 · Answer

It's not a deal breaker by any means, to have kids both of you need to be 100% committed to it from the heart. If one even has doubts then it's cruel to bring a child into the relationship where they won't be loved or resented possibly.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah. If I'm in to the girl I could go either way on having kids or not. Not a huge deal for me.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

My idea is if you don't want Children or don't want be a Mother than it's your business and if you can't have Children that is sad sorry for you?

jae_jae · Answer

Honestly if the person dosent want kids it shouldn't be.

Schloss · Answer

Having kids isn't for everyone, and guys do have preferences to have or not have kids. So, it would be good to know if who you date has thoughts of having kids. I can go either way.

MannySimms · Answer

No. If you're foolish enough to want kids, you can adopt.

winterfox10 · Answer

No, not for me. Also, you are definitely NOT the only woman who doesn't like kids.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman who is infertile in not necessarily a deal breaker for me.

But a woman who doesn't like kids and who wouldn't willingly and enthusiastically carry my children if she could... now that's a deal breaker.

Anonymous · Answer

That's very mean of you to say, please don't ever insult a carrying woman like that. I personally prefer a "functional" woman, in case I do want to have children someday.
I'm going to assume that your obvious disgust towards pregnancy is linked to your own infertility, but please take a moment to understand that these women are not at fault for wanting to bare a child and should not be scrutinized, especially by you.

that_oneguy · Answer

I wouldn't say so. If it was with the partner that I love then if we were to want children we could see someone about it. Or if it was a "fling" then perfect, I don't have to worry after.

chickenneck75 · Answer

If it's not it might be when your ready for kids, when a woman wants to get pregnant she's on a mission. Here hormones are hard to ignore,

Avicenna · Answer

I would like to have more kids if she's a great partner, I could overlook it.  If I was younger and didn't have kids, it would be.

red324 · Answer

The last thing I need right now is a kid, so not at all.

Steve_Case · Answer

I have adopted another mans children. I have raised 5 but only one of them has my bloodline. And I love them all the same.

As far as being infertile, I call that getting rid of the crib and getting a playpen. :)

Anonymous · Answer

For me yes. I don't fully believe you though. You sound like you're projecting and that maybe you are desperate to get pregnant but can't because of infertility so now you 'hate' pregnant women and want to 'lock them up' because you 'hate *seeing* them in public.'

Emphasis on seeing.

HerryBells · Answer

That is a hard one. I have dated a girl for almost 8yrs when I knew she could never have kids. I was at peace with it but now that relationship has stranded I would still like to have little mini me's running around one day

Beta_Wolf · Answer

Well damn sounds like the good beginning of my dream women 😊 u still single? Cuz i'm up for a date?

broken_heart_at_48 · Answer

That's terrible but to each their own and it would depend on the guy. There's plenty of guys out there that would have no problem with it.

TremorJay · Answer

It's a bummer, but we can adopt! I have no problem with it

Mehzmeh · Answer

Nope, because I don't wanna have my own biological kid's.

darkangel1986 · Answer

No not at all dont get me wrong I love my children but I'd had still been in love with there mother if we wasn't able to have them. Now would I'd have said as long umm probably not.

ask4any · Answer

No, not a dealbreaker! That's pretty shallow. Imagine how a woman who wants kids feels when she finds out she can't. You want to compound that by leaving her? I couldn't do that.

Shamalien · Answer

depends on the guy, depends on how amazing the girl is. If I met legitimately the most amazing person in the world, it's something I could consider looking past, so long as she was open to surrogacy

SingingSerpent · Answer

Infertility is the best!

Antoniosavemylife · Answer

No it isn't. I'm neutral to kids. I would like to have them but I would value my partner above my want to have kids. Also I'm bi so there is technically a 50% chance I won't have kids. and the bit about locking up people is... weird

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Nope! I'm infertile, we can be infertile together lol

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