Yes. I view being liberating is a kind of revenge too. But it's very illogical. I found the response to "Free milk" with "Why take home the whole pig if all you want is a bit of sausage?" It doesn't make any sense. We are procreated differently, biologically. The more strangers a woman let them touch, the deeper depression and emptier self it seems. Women produce Oxytocin after being intimate with someone. It's impossible that they won't feel anything. There IS a bonding. You're right hookup culture exists because of women. Maybe just have to wait for men to grow up and ready to settle down? Well, until then I'll be too old. Or try to convert MGTOW, persuade them to come back? LOLThank you for your insight. This is very valuable.
It is illogical, but those arguments as true as they are don't even work on younger women because they've basically been taught that they should ignore all of that. Plus while they're young they're at their most attractive, and they don't realise that it gets harder as they get older, partly because feminists will tell them that it doesn't - you'll see feminists on here try to convince women for example that the only reason men say it is to control women, when actually the real reason is because it's just true. Also partly because they seem not to care about looking too far ahead while they've got it good.In our culture also, it seems like feminists especially just like to blame men for everything and come up with social conventions to try to justify women's behaviour. Like for example, a woman has her fun in her 20s avoiding commitment maybe. Then she reaches her 30s and looks to settle down. She meets guys who are turned off by that, because guys naturally don't want a woman who has a high number of sexual partners. What do they then do? Well, feminism has taught them that they shouldn't care about what men want, so rather than encouraging women not to sleep around they attempt to shame men into accepting it. Call him insecure or attack his masculinity in some way. That doesn't work. So the ones who end up losing out there are those women. But then now what we're seeing is women who are telling other women never to reveal the number of past partners, and are telling men that they shouldn't even ask. Another attempt to manipulate men into accepting it.There are so many other examples of this. MGTOW guys, at least the ones who aren't just incels, are guys who see all of this and can't be bothered with it. They won't come back, especially because they already know that many women are already trying to do that, and they don't trust it at all.
I agree with you. And "Cheating the game"... I like this words. Let's see when men who chose to have the easier choices get bored of them. From asking some of people I know, even they're in a relationship for 3-6 years, they (the boyfriends) told me they didn't want to get married with the girls. Plus, there are more single moms who are left after the men knew they're pregnant. So sad.
Many (not me) got scared like geese over the thought of technology and artificial intelligence emerging and becoming self aware and that machines will enslave us. There's no need to be anymore because it already happened: We humans have already lost to the phones and computers (way before the hypothetical skynet would be born)However I do not consider machines or AI to be our enemies, who hold us back. That would be a quite hypocritical thing to do. But the people, who lost to it? I am not sure if it's worth saving them. I believe natural selection knows it's way.= Scoreboard =Humans: 0Machines: 3 billion (presumably)I harness it like the stone-age people harnessed the discovery of fire. Many others got burned.
Technology causes us to be less patient... it seems. Ones who offer what should be the prize for free indirectly teach men to assume all women are the same, should be treated the same. Very sad.
@Unit1 Speaking of AI. Have you found bots on any apps?
Nope. I did not see any AI in my experience. Yet.
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I do think so. Lots of couples these days communicate via social media. It's boring to see them being dramatic and let everyone see, hoping people would take their side. They complain about their partners online. It's disrespectful. I wouldn't like to be criticized like that if I happen to do something wrong. Direct communication and manner are things people whose lives are into this new world lack of today. Young men who are single would romantically rave (I don't know what the exact word) about their crushes, but don't have courage to tell them in person. Weak. With dating apps, people have more choices. Then they don't stop at one. Even though it's not easy to trust people whom you can't see in real life. They prefer to take risks.I like your idea of saving the planet haha. Anyways, I don't think people would survive without phones. My students went on camping recently. Their phones weren't allowed, so they didn't touch phones for a couple of days. They told me they had no idea what to do. Kids now are addicted to online games as well. Playgrounds are filled with kids sitting and interacting with other kids via screens of their phones. No more marbles and cards.
I know... what a social mess:) I really think it is bad for them and society, research showing impact in many ways. I admire these girls in my neighborhood who like to get their bikes out and ride at least... that's something. I think the trees, trails, creek are good for the mind and spirit... it's where we come from. Another teacher... lots o teachers out here! ... not me...
Okay. Good to hear that. Thank you.
so sad, it's become their sense of security, even when it's totally fake. only way to make it happen is meeting people in person.
@lightbulb27 Fully agreed!Truth be told, I hate social media (but I'm not telling them that)! Not even having a warranted girlfriend will make me create one.
I see lots of people relying too much on social media. Ordinarily, if it's my country, you might be assumed that you're in a relationship already. But people online can make up any fake stories as well. Once a man lied to me that he's single. He thought he hid his tail well. No. Just trailing back to see who's the most active commenters, all tagged photos the man tried to hide popped up right away.Now I deleted my fb account for I would like to know if I'm viewed as a player as well.
What's your country?
Thailand. Isn't it that country, where it's easy to get a girlfriend from? Especially if you're a man from Europe or the US?
I think it depends. Where are the references you got from? From people you know or articles/news?
I suppose in a country this poor it will be easier? Do the citizens or at least the women in thailand assume, that europeans or americans are relatively rich?
Ones who assume all westerners are rich could be from the North eastern part of the country. And that was a stereotype from a couple of decades ago. Now we have a better education. People have learned what the reality is. Internet provides knowledge. Actaully, it's because of the cost of living. In Thailand, expenses for food and residence are a lot cheaper than in the US or Europe. Workers with low-average wage can live here comfortably. Yup. Some might think it's easier to have a girlfriend here. It's not about the poverty alone. It's about the attitude towards a relationship too. Thai men cheat and think it's normal. Modern women prefer a foreigner. We think they would be more faithful. Hopefully it's true.
It's hard to tell for me since I am a wanderer and never really stopped to look deeper by how much faithful or unfaithful people from various cultures are. Not really that social either :/But there's this understanding of "wanting to have their cake and eat it too" --- You can't have your cake and eat it (too) is a popular English idiomatic proverb or figure of speech. The proverb literally means "you cannot simultaneously retain your cake and eat it". Once the cake is eaten, it is gone.In this case about infidelity, there will be those subhumans out there, who at the same time want a monogamous marriage, yet they will cheat around.
Cool. Which one? Shenron or Kaido?
Shenron of course. DBZ all day.
Sha la head cha la~~
Naw... this one. DRAGON DRAGON, DRA DRA DRAGON! DRAGON BALL ZEEEEAAHH!
i saw more open lesbians in germany last summer than ever before oo but im not saying thats a bad thing... it just means they dont have to hide anymore
Please explain self destructive presumptions.
But this is not even a relationship.
At least, yours were a relationship, right? In my case men don't want anything committed. I don't care if someone compares me as a cow because the intention is to warn that giving away for free is not good. After breaking up with the man, you're less desirable because you 're used.
Hahaha 😂😂😂 I actaully think about letters.
Okay. It could be that SOME are just thirsty and don't want to put effort?
I don't know seems like most of them.
I meant it... since I was born. 😂
Well thats good
Well, I don't think saying "Yes. You can have sex with me even we are not in a relationship." is the answer. If there are 100 men approach me only for hookups, I should let all of them have what they want for free? It's a nature of female to be selective too.
No, I hope not. Based on my mixed experiences, I made them illustrated. Basically, it's more about online.
Well, these things happen but I don't think it's close to being the majority.
Frame 1: A man confessed to a woman that he liked her.Frame 2: The woman declared that she didn't agree with hookups. She would like to have a relationship.Frame 3: Another woman showed up offering free sex to the man without any commitment. ("Free milk" is from a quote "Why buy a cow when you can get milk for free.)Frame 4: The man left with the second woman.Frame 5: The first woman felt awkward; knowingly, she thought it's how the modern society goes based on her experience and research.
Yeah... I still don't see the point though. It's not like it reflects well on the first woman. She does research I guess? Why is it "keep researching"? Was she correct about something or was she saying she was incorrect and needs to keep researching.It doesn't make sense.
I referred to my own research on society, behaviors of modern men and women, psychology. Self-improvement, of course.
From who? Single moms?
From the laboratory baby!!
We need a father. I do at least. So a lab baby is not the choice. Adopting a child would be better.
thumbs up in that I hear you, but don't fully agree. some do, but it's worse than it used to be by way of the corrupting influence of the females "freedom" ... in my opinion... that's a primary root. If you give a baby candy.. that's what they want...Whom holds the keys to the kingdom and all power? The females! Females own the solution...
At least we're honest , you girls pretend to commit to us and then cheat on us
It isn't the guys you should be complaining about. It is the girls that have dropped the price for sex to near nothing.
I don't care what girls do. I'm only interested in guys.
"I don't care what girls do. I'm only interested in guys. "You can't ignore your competition.
Guys don't commit to useless girls. Girls that are fun and sexy and outgoing get wifed up all the time.
did you use " i don't want to see this " on me or was it the question asker?Pathetic!
@el_Te_de_la_RosaHey. Just keeping it real.
@Unit1 Not me. I'm okay with all comments. (Non sexually suggestive) Likes are not what I want. I want discussion.
Then it was *her* how hypocritical 🖕Thanks for letting me know.