Guys: Where do you wanna go on the first date?

Question

Straight to the bedroom or somewhere else?

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

well, straight to the bedroom is great and all... he'll love it. But... he won't think very highly of you. It says "this girl will fuck anyone" she doesn't even know me. She does this with everyone. Every guy will have a great time with you, but it'll definitely send the wrong signal if you're hoping it grows into anything more than casual.

Generally, though, a first date should ideally be something low-key, low-pressure. Go for a walk then for a coffee or something like that. Going out to dinner for example, not ideal for a first date. Too formal, too pressured, too restrictive,. Basically somewhere you guys can talk and feel relaxed.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If she goes to the bedroom with me on a first date, then she's been to the bedroom with a lot of other guys on a first date, and that means that she's not a contender. I rather go to a nice, leisurely dinner and perhaps a drink afterwards for some extended conversation. The most I hope for on a first date is a good night kiss.

Eagle_93 · Answer

Absolutely not straight to the bedroom.

I'm not really a one night stand type of guy.

I want to get to know her.
Hear her story (I love hearing people's story).

Tell her my story.

So, probably a nice relaxed dinner setting or lunch or coffee.

farhaan7 · Answer

Depends on the type of relationship I m seeking ( IF LONG TERM then I would invite them to a game like football or anything that involves teamwork so that I can know about each other's co ordination and yeah sex is another icing on the cake and if SHORT TERM then I would make her seduce as much as possible make her feel as much as loved as she can and do it's so much that I'll make Shure she won't be able to stand nxt day , but even that seduction will be slow but spicy to experience)

AynonOMouse · Answer

An arcade that has air hockey and one of those shooting games with gun controllers like T2 or something similar.
Or go bowling and eat pizza.

It kind of depends on how long/well i knew her before going on the date.

AdyMac · Answer

Depends on the chick, can't be too presumptuous. Sometimes a series of coffee or cheese dates, sometimes the back of my car jk. If she isn't local somewhere interesting like a lookout or museum gardens, that way of it doesn't work out she experienced something. If she is local I like botanical gardens, somewhere natural.

different83 · Answer

Depends on the time of year. This time of year... I'm going skating with a girl next week and then coffee after.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

it's stupid i know, but the eifell tower is one of those things that i want to look out at after making love

Rangers · Answer

I've never been on a date🙃 at least I've got Buddy to bring a smile to my face☺️

your_guy_23 · Answer

A nice meal, either at restaurant or home cooked by me, maybe sit by the fire watch a movie with a glass of wine something like that lol, only most women don't seem interested in that idea tbh

soleil2666 · Answer

Makes no difference as long as you are prepared to go with the feeling. If it leads to bedroom, you go there/none of that artificial 'now let's put up a road block and make him wait to see how frustrated he gets before dumping you'

Avicenna · Answer

I've had sex on the first date a few times but I've learned not to be in such a hurry and focus on getting to know her a bit.

LiamSawyer · Answer

Well, that's an interesting question. I never was acquainted with a girl that wanted to go straight to the bedroom.

TheAteam1978 · Answer

Always out for a drink on the first meeting (I dont even consider them a date). You will find out very quickly if you get along without it being to awkward.. The more chemistry that builds the better the bedroom will be!

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

Something fun... then something romantic... then to the bedroom. OR... start in the bedroom.. then do fun and romantic date stuff afterwards.

lernulo · Answer

Straight to bedroom is a good answer, but I don't think any of us expect it. What I ask for a first date are fun moments, on a theme park, cinema, a pub...

jss123 · Answer

Not straight to the bedroom. Somewhere fun where we can get to know each other. Last first date we went ten pin bowling and played games in an arcade. Then had a fun meal. Yes, I'm old school lol.

OddBeMe · Answer

Well ultimately all guys want the bedroom. But I like talking on first dates, so movies are out. Louder places can be overwhelming. Depends on what activities are around.

IsenhowerJ · Answer

I would rather go get dinner to get to know her first.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

Coffee date. This way I can see if we have potential and can also weed out the food whores. Second date? Somewhere nice.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

A walk is the best first date. No fucking, money, or mostly expectations needed. Just scenery and conversation.

seexy · Answer

My first dates were only calm walking it the park woth a great chat 😏

Jamiealan · Answer

Definitely not the bedroom... yet. Somewhere that allows for easy conversation and. The chance to process and then depending on where that goes...

D9652 · Answer

I'd want to take her to a Widespread Panic show and then take her to my bedroom

jamesgoldman · Answer

Dinner, a drink and maybe a show

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

To a tennis court or to a museum.

legalboxers · Answer

a nice place to eat for dinner.

ivbnlknfru · Answer

Coffee, dinner and some alone time...

Ben228 · Answer

A nice restaurant or someplace we can talk.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The shooting range.

skittles2017 · Answer

Somewhere else

notshyguy1985 · Answer

Mexican

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