Girls, Ladies - What do you think of a guy that volunteers?

[Anonymous]

I'm volunteering at a women's self defense class as the "attacker" and there are some very cute girls in the class.

Do you think this is a good place to meet someone to go out on a date with?

[vintagegirl90]

It is but I’d really wonder why you’re volunteering to meet a girl? I’d be slightly confused because the intentions aren’t normally to meet a potential partner, it’s because you care about whatever it is you’re volunteering for. If you really want to meet someone I’d suggest do something else like pick up a new hobby, do a karate class, go to a gym, try a new sport or do a fun event with friends that enables you to meet new people?

[Asker]

Yeah true, I'm not using the class to hit on girls, it just kinda happens ya know? they have given me a hard time (jokingly) on how easily they can take me down with a groin shot.

[Asker]

I hope they still think I'm manly

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Maybe after all the classes are finished. You did say self defense classes, right? So the point of the class is for women to defend themselves from crazies, stalkers, attackers. Even though you're just "playing" the attacker, if you use your volunteer work to hit on members of the class, that could come off little creepy. And make the classes more awkward.

[Asker]

Yeah true, I'm not using the class to hit on girls, it just kinda happens ya know? they have given me a hard time (jokingly) on how easily they can take me down with a groin shot.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lol have fun. It's commendable of you to volunteer your time.

[Asker]

But do you think they think less of my manliness when they get me down with a groin shot?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No most men are gonna go down. Why it's effective way to take a Man down. Actually shows you are a man lol

[Asker]

How does it show I'm a man? I just thought women expected guys to be tough and manly with injuries

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That was a joke. Lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

And just going down don't make you less manly it's how you handle it and if you get back up.

[Asker]

so you wouldn't think less of a guy if he got taken down by a hit in the balls? even he is was bigger than you?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No I wouldn't. That is a very sensitive area of a man's anatomy. It could take ANY man down.

[Asker]

I guess I was just embarrassed because some of the older women were giggling about how it was cute even the strongest guys have vulnerable jewels

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lol that's why the saying
"Protect the family jewels"
They weren't meaning the family silver 🙃

[Asker]

lol during the actual class I was wearing a cup, but before class one of the older women gave me a light tap during a slow motion drill and caught the unprotected jewels

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lol well maybe not funny at the moment, but kinda funny now 🤷😂
🎄 Merry Christmas to you and yours

[Asker]

haha i think it was okay to laugh because she only gave me a light tap, but it was a bit embarrassing because she knew it still doubled me over a bit.. is that why women tend to giggle at taps in the jewels?

[Asker]

I hope they still think I'm manly

[Asker]

the rematch didn't go so well for me!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sorry to hear that

[Asker]

Why do u think the older women like practicing groin shots on me?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I don't know maybe cuz you let them? Lol or maybe it makes them feel younger to take down a young man 🤷😂

[Asker]

they keep saying "its so cute that even muscular young men have vulnerable little jewels" lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Lol be careful taking too many shots there if you plan on having kids some day

[Asker]

during class I wear a cup for protection, but twice now 2 older women asked to practice with me slow me when I wasn't wearing the cup, they were super light but made contact

[Asker]

did you see this?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Just saw it now. Don't let them without protection

[Asker]

she said she wants to practice in slow motion to make sure she gets the groin slap down

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Or she just trying to cop a feel.
Seriously tho, you need to say no, and protect your body because getting hit there too many times is not good for you

[Asker]

Do you think she is tryng to cop a feel? The lady who is asking is like mid 50s. She isn't very strong so I doubt she could do that much damage, but she said she would be extra careful not to hurt me