Will it be hard to find a boyfriend without big boobs?

[yeonwu_oh]

I've been dumped for being too flat before, and it seems like the only people who are really in relationships are people with size C and up.

[SteveSmith1985]

Oh absolutely not! It's funny, I had a long talk just today with a friend of mine on GAG (she's my age) about this very thing. I suggested she also should search this topic. A similar question to this one is aked all the time. Often it's a "poll question". In fact it's been asked so much, that you can actually draw some meaningful conclusions from it due to the sheer quantity of data. But to sum up the general picture of what your question asked in it's thousand variations is this:

"Men don't care about breast size very much. Not at all. Breasts of all sizes are loved by almost all guys (with a tiny minority with a specific preference).

Guys, generally couldn't care less if a girl had big or little boobs. they liked her the same either way. It's a deciding factor in dating a girl for a tiny fraction of guys (maybe 0.025% of them).

I've never seen or actually heard a guy give breast size serious consideration when looking for a girlfriend. In fact, It's far something important for guys.
It's you women who make a big thing of it. And we wish you'd realize, you have no reason to be insecure.

In my own experience, My two longest relationships (many years each). The first one had big breasts. I wanna say she was 36-D but I'm not positive. After that relationship ended, I later got together with the second girl. She was a 32-A and was super worried about it.

It didn't matter one bit to how attractive I found her in the least. Not once did I ever think "gee sure was nice when my girlfriend had big boobs" or "I wish my current girlfriend's boobs were bigger. In fact, if I had a magic wand and could put the first girlfriend's big boobs on my new small-boob girlfriend. I wouldn't have bothered. Seriously. It does not matter

Small breasts won't make it any harder for you. BUT the shyness and reserve brought on by worrying that guys are going to have an issue with your breasts... that can make it harder. Confidence is attractive. It sounds cliche but its true. Small breasts... nothing to even think twice about.

[chistonejr]

Listen! Do not pay attention to that. There is nothing wrong with you. It doesn't matter whether your chest is big or small. If someone doesn't see you for who you are, then what is the point of them bothering you in the first place.

This is something that a lot of us guys do subconsciously. Heck I do it at times as well and it needs to stop. When I do get to know a girl though, I pay more attention to her personality and how well it nitches with mine.

Pay attention to the guys who try to pay more attention to you personally rather than anything else

[wingattebaby16]

Unfortunately, I have to agree most men want to date girls with large breasts over those of us that are small A cups or worse, flat chested.

My girlfriend Renee is half Korean and half Japanese. She used to be a very tiny A cup. Basically nipples and circles on walnut sized bumps on her chest. Also she had a flat butt.

Rarely got asked out on dates and never a 2-3 date.

She got D cup implants and did Brazilian booty for 6 plus mos to get a curvy butt, and she was turning guys down all the time.
She married a blonde 6'2" tall surfer dirty with a great job.

She said being flat sucked

[MissDawn7961]

it is not true that a girl has to have - big boobs - to get a boyfriend ! I have had boyfriends from - first grade ( when I had no boobs ) and I am small now and still getting their attention and they do not see my boobs now either - ! I have been complimented by young boys to men over 60 years old ! so big boobs do not a woman or a lady make ! try this ! when you make eye contact with a man then - wave and smile - at him and see how he responds back ! if he - waves and smiles - back then you can either walk over to him and introduce yourself to him or let him come to you ! Thanks

[Account]

Well, it won't. Also no one cares that much about boob size

[Craftsman]

There are those of us men who like less boobs. My opinion is that anything more than a mouth-and-handful is waste. Besides, speaking as a health care professional, (I'm a nurse) you'll find that smaller breasted women have less back pain, more athletic agility, fewer upper chest and neck stretchmarks, and easier time in doing basic activities of daily living. Some women get breast reductions because the 'big boobs' get in the way of doing things like cooking, typing, and computer work and car mechanics, for a few examples.
Give yourself some time. You will find a man who appreciates you for what's in and on your mind more than what's on your chest and in your bra.

[JackSmy]

I never imagined a lady wanting a boyfriend with bit Boobs!! LOL!! The way you posted made me laugh!
Some guys, like me, REALLY, HONESTLY LOVE, and ADORE wonderful ladies with smaller breasts!! Just perfectly beautiful, and the ones that don't need a bra, and that discomfort, and being 'strapped in' and like confined!
Not every guy wants the 'porn girl' and huge, and kind of uncomfortable, maybe?
What do you like, and want? It's your body, and you should choose, and love yourself, as YOU choose to be.

[markscott]

Most guys will not worry about your boob size. You weren't dumped because your boobs were small, you were dumped because the guy was an absolute idiot. That's about the dumbest reason I've heard, to end a relationship. To answer the question more clearly. No, you do not need large boobs, or even average size boobs, to find a good guy and to have a great relationship. If a guy cares about you and loves you, he will love your boobs, no matter what the size. For real.

[User_Friendly]

It won't be hard but its not as easy as having a big perk rack for the boys to oogle. But thats life. We all have something that isn't in the "ideal".

Being 6ft would be nice but im only 5'9". I try to be positive about it. Like i know im more agile this way bahaha

[Screenwriter]

I don't and never had a C boob. I had ONE negative comment in a lifetime. I never met up with THAT guy again. If someone removes you from their life because of ONE part of your body, they don't see you as a whole person, but as something that fulfills their fantasy. Be glad you found out about that jerk. You don't need those types in your life.

[ohshee]

You will have no problem finding a boy friend your boobs are fine. And you don't want to date someone who is dating you for your boobs size. U want to date someone who can see your beauty within and loves it your beautiful so be patient and the guy who dumped u for being to flat don't worry about thst ,, you should thank him for showing who he is smile ur perfect

[AaronKrieger]

You're going after the wrong guys and I'm not sure how, since most guys don't care about boob size.

Literally the girl I've been talking to is pretty skinny and likely flat, but I could careless. You don't need big boobs to be attractive and most guys feel this way.

[Anonymous]

This shows that the guys that have shown you interest, aren't really interested in YOU as a person at all. Otherwise this wouldn't matter. Breast size doesn't matter to me at all if I like her. Instead of taking this personally, think of it as a very good thing, you don't want these types of guys anyway do you?

[Dchrls78104]

Maybe you need to change your environment or else your attitude. If the guys you are around or date like big boobs, you need to change your environment because these guys may be shallow. If you focussing too much on your chest, your attitude needs to change. Ultimately you need to look in the mirror before dating again.

[DWornock]

If you are not smaller than size A, the reason you were dumped is not your breast size. I prefer size B but sizes A and C are very acceptable. Like most men, I notice women with big breasts. However, once a girl is much past her teen years, big breasts start to sag and therefore women with big breasts are not as desirable.

A number of movie stars and almost all fashion models are size A or B and they have no problem attracting men.

[mistixs]

I've done polls on the topic and small-breasted women are almost as likely to be in relationships as big-breasted women

[BrianTG78]

Not at all

[mistixs]

@BrianTG78 the most popular pornstar of 2018 was Riley Reid who's a small A-cup. I doubt she has any trouble getting guys

[Snickermarstwix]

Well for sure curves helps a lot to catch the eyes of a man but if they're already dating you they gotta be crazy stupid to dump you for that. You seem like a very sweet girls.
At the very least if you're good at cooking it will get you way more guys than a big breast

[Daniela1982]

Why do you want to find a boyfriend who has big boobs if I am reading your question correctly.

[razzamatazzp01]

That's pretty stupid, because it's not like they didn't know you had small tits when they first got with you. Real men like butts anyway. Find you a real man.

[Reaperbot666]

not every guy likes big breasts or big butts for that matter. some enjoy smaller more handful size.

me I enjoy any size. so long as there natural.

[Avicenna]

Relax- you won't have a problem. Even guys like me that love big boobs happily date women with small ones.

[NightFlirt]

I am an A cup myself, and I've had plenty of guys who like small breasts. You will have a new man in no time sweetie.

[vintagegirl90]

No that’s ridiculous and you’re only 18 you’ve just hit puberty there’s plenty of time for them to grow.

[humanearth]

I think most men don't have big boobs. What did you only date guys with big man boobs before

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZhiCLb3O-Dk

[Matthew2222]

You can always rectify the situation by filling out a bit. Most girls are more attractive once they put on some weight.

[LiamSawyer]

No, there's lot's of guys out there that don't have big boobs.

[LiamSawyer]

Lol... on a more serious side, we'll I like to look at big boobs, watch them bounce and jiggle, the fact is I prefer smaller boobs, small perky boobs with nice nipples or as an added bonus puffy nipples. Smaller boobs are usually more sensitive and they rarely sag as you age.

[Seeker1005]

Depends on the guy. It's become a normal thing with multimedia for women with medium to large bust to be prominent. I have also been with a woman that had a large bust, and honestly I prefer small to medium.

[ARWINGx1]

Personally, I'd only see big boobs as a "bonus". Meaning that it alone wouldn't attract me that much.

[slatyb]

I doubt it. Plenty of guys are happy with women with smaller breasts. I never cared.

[sweetcocoa_]

Big boobs aren't important
There's more to life
You will find someone who values you

[Passinggas]

I don't believe you are really concerned about that given your looks. Would you really want a guy that obsesses over boobs?

[HikerDude]

Nope. I just met up with a girl named Kristin the other day who's pretty flat, and she is one of the most attractive girls I've met in a while.

[linds34]

No, guys your age are obsessed with boob size but in a few years they won't care.

[Swimmerdude2013]

Not at all tbh. My last ex girlfriend was a b cup. I wouldn't even dump a girl for not being busty. Did you ex say he broke up with you for not having large boobs?

[Rangers]

I'd date you if you were near me!

[240771damog]

Please don’t get stressed about it because Breast size doesn’t matter to a lot of men zeI’m always on However what can be in attractive is having no self-confidence!!!

[Jwags]

No way! If someone dumped you for that reason, you are better off without that shallow person! They will regret it after they see you win gold in archery at the Olympics!!

[Antelope]

It differs from person to person. I personally put the most weight physical-wise on the face. I'm not sure how much that applies to the general population, but I don't imagine it will be too hard

[Anonymous]

A boyfriend without big boobs? Not at all hard to find, considering guys don't have boobs at all, or at least most don't. :P

[JustChilling]

Well that sucks. Yeah, it'll be difficult but not impossible.

[JustChilling]

Im not sure why you ruled out B cups?

[ubobio]

It will be easier for you to find someone that cares about you for you and not your chest

[AngelLily]

There's many women who are smaller and are in relationships you just got the find non douche bags.

[Jamie05rhs]

It's only hard if you're insecure and you don't value yourself enough to believe that men will actually want you. Because they do want you.

[Gedaria]

I'm surprised, I love small boobs, and on her when they ask the question what do guys like small boobs always quite popular..

[Ben228]

That's terrible. There are plenty of guys out there who like small breasts. I know that because I'm one of them.

[rockrewls]

No it won't, and your 18 fyi they can grow until the age of 25, as well your weight as it fluctuates can affect their size, just dropped those facts for something to ponder.

[Kinkysportguy]

No, I don't usually Go for big ones, I tend to go for size b

[soleil2666]

I find that hilarious. But then I always found small boobs just as cute as large ones.

[derella21]

No, some guys like smaller tits as long as the nipple is perky

[derella21]

The thing I like more on women is when the sex is good and tight

[derella21]

In other words a good pussy can be more important than tits. Tits are just to play with while lost in middle

[james2018dean]

Some guys like a small chested girl.
As you age, they will hang less. And usually, they are more sensitive.

[Anonymous]

Some guys prefer small boobs. I have no idea why but they do.

[SomeGUYonGAG]

Not really, most men don't really care about how big your boobs are as long as you have them.

[COMMODOREII]

I don't like big boobs. I prefer A or B cup. So you can for sure find a guy who likes small boobs.

[olddude69]

I don't think you should have a problem sure guys like bigger boobs but the fact that you have them should be enough

[Anonymous]

nah, I'm extremely attracted to small breasts/none, I don't know what it is, I just think those girls are hot

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure girls with B cups and smaller end up in relationships too. I've dated a couple myself and I'm a fan of big boobs!

[EnglundUberAlles]

Actually it will be super easy, barely an inconvenience.

[scooogy]

Well I'm single and I don't have boobs, so how about Thursday night? 😏

[wildbilly123]

I think women with small boobs are more attractive than women with huge boobs

[TheDud3]

it's okay that's the same with some guys who gets dump for being "too small".

[redsonofodin]

Not at all I think ur with the wrong g guys sweetie

[livingthelife19]

No. I don't like big boobs. Many guys don't

[WhiteShoulder]

Plenty of guys like small boobs

[Anonymous]

Don't worry, there's lots of people who prefer flat girls :)